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kengibson1983 -> Well hello there, a little sub curious. (3/10/2012 11:35:34 PM)

A little bit about men before I tell you what I'm into. I'm 28 year old sub-curious male living in NYC. Right now I'm a bike messenger for a living, sure beats clocking watching. I'm what you consider a mostly non-traditional male. I had waist length long hair that I cut at a very low point in my life. It's almost been a year since I got it cut and I'm still upset about it. I have what you call a natural long hair identity.  It means that I will never be satisfied with short hair, and telling me to cut it is almost like telling me to cut off my arm.

My father was in the Army for 20 years, so buzz cuts were the norm about every 6 months. Right now I'm growing my hair again and I hope it can get just as long. I'm curious about what we call traditional women's clothes. I view it not as cross-dressing, but as reclaiming garments men once use to wear.

Well I'm done a bit of facesitting and light bondage, but I felt like after it was over she wasn't into it as much as I was. I still feel like I need to be a little more proactive in exploring this desire to be submissive to a Woman. I've had the desire almost since I was 19. Women who expect me to be dominant all the time and unemotional are ignoring a very key part of my shy personality. I'm always thinking about my actions and it's consequences. I find that a lot of people do not do this. The world would be a much better place if they did.

Excuse my grammar, I'd like pointers to what I'm doing wrong.

P.S. I'm really good with computers as well, I've self built my home desktop computer.




kengibson1983 -> RE: Well hello there, a little sub curious. (3/11/2012 1:32:36 AM)

Ok I didn't mean to say a little about men, I meant to say a little about me. Somehow I've lost the ability to edit this post. It was a previous editing error.




masmiss -> RE: Well hello there, a little sub curious. (3/11/2012 3:05:48 AM)

You seem like a very nice guy.  Just be yourself and treat any women that may pique your interest with respect and courtesy.  Don't lead with your kink. 

You're cute with short hair, too. [;)]




Dhrekkin -> RE: Well hello there, a little sub curious. (3/11/2012 4:22:53 AM)

I would say be careful and know what you want first before you go casting around. I know a couple female doms that take far more sadistic pleasure out of torturing and humiliating a male submissive than i ever could to a female (and that's saying something) . If that's your thing, right on, go for it. If you aren't quite to that level, i'd make sure to really talk to a domme and make sure your ideas of what your place in the grand scheme of things is and do some long, hard thinking before you agree to it.




Delilya -> RE: Well hello there, a little sub curious. (3/11/2012 5:29:31 AM)

Hair grows and in the meantime you look quite nice with shorter hair. Best of luck in our journey.




ashjor911 -> RE: Well hello there, a little sub curious. (3/11/2012 6:22:03 AM)

Welcome




OohAahMrs -> RE: Well hello there, a little sub curious. (3/12/2012 9:24:31 AM)

Welcome ken, just keep on doing what you're doing, why the glum looks?




kengibson1983 -> RE: Well hello there, a little sub curious. (3/12/2012 3:19:24 PM)

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ORIGINAL: OohAahMrs

Welcome ken, just keep on doing what you're doing, why the glum looks?


I'm not sure what you mean by glum looks. If you mean why am I not smiling? I never got my bottom teeth straightened out and will only smile with my mouth closed. That New York Style Honesty for you, learned it in only 7 years of living in this fine city.




OohAahMrs -> RE: Well hello there, a little sub curious. (3/13/2012 4:34:31 AM)

Ken, mate! All those oppertunities!




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