Hotch
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ORIGINAL: Duskypearls
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ORIGINAL: MrBukani
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How about because women as animals are much more invested in the act of gene propagation then men are. Men only have to stick their dick in the right hole, wiggle it around a little bit then go on their merry way. Women get the lovely task of gestating your spawn for 9 months, letting it suck on their tits for another year or so, and then raising the brat to adulthood for the rest of their breeding life. That kind of investment requires wise decision making up front... The right guy has to present the right mix of geneticly desirable traits, the ability to protect, support and nurture her and her child. That is a near impossible combination to find balanced in a man... So women go crazy.
I have to quote this one cause it has a lot of merit I think, thanks Hotch.
I agree with you both, and will share a part of a written conversation I had with a fellow, not too long ago, that speaks to your very point.
"....To top it off, there is THE ancient, cosmic, primal, sacred energetic dynamic between men and women, that is meant to naturally propel them into the divine dance with each other. And I think no matter how civilized we are or playfully we joke with each other, I believe it works to lead us to this end, and if we’re honest with ourselves and each other, we must admit this is where we hope and desire to be led, providing we pass each others litmus tests. No?
Add to this, the role of man, set deep in his DNA…to be fiery, sharp, active, outward moving, pro-active, exciting, stimulating, penetrating, forceful, dominant, aggressive and in the end, to literally hunt for, find and get his woman, both in and out of his bed. Fact of life, no matter how civilized we think we are.
Add to this, the role of woman, set deep in her DNA…to be cooling, round, deep, reactive, inward moving, receptive, open, supportive, nurturing, soft, enticing, luring (o.k., maybe just a little bit of sorcery). Our job is to receive. You guys punt, we receive. It’s that simple, and a fact of life, no matter how civilized we think we are.
It must (I hope) be VERY exciting for men. Not being one, I don’t how hard, scary or stressful, frustrating or disappointing it may or may not be. I would actually love to know this from your point of view if you ever felt called to share it with me. For women, not for all, and not all the time, it can be somewhat frightening, as we know, just like prey, we are being pursued, and we know why. We know we will be caught, taken, dominated and penetrated, plain and simple. We are here for you…we know it. It can be scary because you men are bigger, stronger, more forceful, have the upper hand and therefore control over us. We have to be willing and able to turn over our very control, will and entire being to you, trust you not to do too much damage, and let you enter and change us forever. To be penetrated is quite a different matter than to penetrate, I‘m sure. Totally different dynamics. Then if we do it right, we get to wrap ourselves around you, physically, mentally, emotionally, spiritually, and live for you, which means we must let parts of us go to make room so we can do that. Both being “taken,” as it were, and leaving parts of us to make room for you are both a kind of death, psychologically and spiritually. No small matter.
Because it is the job of man to get his woman, whatever it costs him, it is imperative that the woman choose VERY carefully, or she pays a high price if wrong. She must be wise AND clever enough to lure him in, but not too fast, for she must first put him through his paces, as it were, “vetting” him, so to speak, to see WHO and WHAT and HOW he is, down to the marrow. A wrong choice has devastating consequences. It’s easy for men to leave women and find others, and can easily spread their seed, fast and furiously. Women, once they receive seed, are forever changed, they no longer control their bodies or their futures. Men can spawn thousands of children in their lifetime, a woman can’t…they can only produce a few. Gestation, nursing and rearing each child is a HUGE investment! So they must choose very carefully.
And if a woman has any unresolved issues around trust, faith, control, neglect, abandonment, fear, abuse, molestation, rape, etc, etc., it can be challenging for her to give up the control she must to do the dance! Without any of these issues, it can be scary. With them, it can be big scary!"....
Just like a woman! You take the simple statement and turn it all complicated and emotional!
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