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RE: sleeping arrangements - 3/11/2012 7:18:19 PM   
Hillwilliam


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RE: sleeping arrangements - 3/11/2012 7:41:26 PM   
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RE: sleeping arrangements - 3/11/2012 7:41:33 PM   
Aynne88


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Separate rooms.


Me too. I am a nite owl and he isn't so usually like tonight I am downstairs with my bunnies and watching tv and goofing on CM. I hate sharing a bed it's annoying. I need my private space to sleep well.


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RE: sleeping arrangements - 3/11/2012 7:53:06 PM   
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Status: offline 		BWAAA HAAA HAAAA HAAA -----> people that sleep anywhere other than a bed make me laugh. I read all this shit on this site from these people that say the slave will sleep on the floor or in a cage. I just roll my eyes. HAVE FUCKING FUN WITH THAT SHIT, (and have fun with your back when you get past a certain age)

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RE: sleeping arrangements - 3/11/2012 7:58:20 PM   
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a stripedy, fatass cat curled up


+1 X 3 (cats, that is.) The cats have the run of the house; I do whatever they tell me to.

As for the boy, he's allowed to cuddle until he snores; then I boot his ass to another room. That way he doesn't disturb me when he gets up to make my coffee.

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RE: sleeping arrangements - 3/11/2012 8:42:53 PM   
Focus50


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ORIGINAL: kitkat105

I'm with Focus50


Well you say that - and here's me sleeping all solo thus far in 2012.

Soooo, tell me more of this "Semi-rural suburbia", 'cause my city would sorta qualify.... ;)

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RE: sleeping arrangements - 3/11/2012 8:50:40 PM   
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RE: sleeping arrangements - 3/11/2012 9:40:08 PM   
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ORIGINAL: Focus50

I always think this "sleeping at Master's feet" bizzo is a waste of resources. The female body was made to be groped and I don't do that with my feet. So yeah, my girl sleeps butt naked and right next to me so that any wandering hands during the night have something to grab hold of....

Re bondage, yeah, maybe once or twice a week she sleeps with hands cuffed behind but mostly, I quite like a loved one's hands on me, too. Though it's never happened, if I was really pissed at her over something then I'd likely consign her to the spare bedroom. But that level of anger would've had to come about right on bed time. Like I said, never happened....

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Per-fec-tion!!

Physical intimacy is huge to me. I want to be held, I want contact, I want to feel -close- to my partner. I want his hands roaming over me and I want to be able to caress...lick...kiss...sleepy, idle teasing...

If I were told to sleep on the floor, I'd be devastated...absolutely crushed. I'd probably cry the entire night and feel so distanced from him that it'd damage my perception of my worth to him and damage my confidence in myself and my ability to please him. I'm sure I'd be contrite the next morning, but it'd be a very humble, very reserved, very hurt, pretty withdrawn type of contrite.

Although, I've slept alone for quite awhile now....

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RE: sleeping arrangements - 3/11/2012 9:43:27 PM   
Focus50


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Status: offline 		And you look suitably gropeable and everything (species, gender, good sort etc), dammit.

Shameless tease...!

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RE: sleeping arrangements - 3/11/2012 9:44:40 PM   
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I never tease! I follow through

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RE: sleeping arrangements - 3/11/2012 10:00:42 PM   
NuevaVida


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Status: offline 		Usually snuggled up together with his arm under my neck and my head on his chest. Or one of us spooning the other. When at my place, the cat is either between us, on top of one of us, or at the foot of the bed. When we're in our separate homes, he sleeps alone and I'm snuggled up with the cat. :)

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RE: sleeping arrangements - 3/12/2012 1:30:16 AM   
SexyThoughts


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RE: sleeping arrangements - 3/12/2012 2:05:24 AM   
Focus50


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ORIGINAL: jennileigh8182

Tease?!?! *lol!*

I never tease! I follow through


Oops.... lol Your post wasn't there when I started typing.

If you look in the lower right of my post, you'll see the CM stamp of "in reply to kitkat105".

Focus.

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RE: sleeping arrangements - 3/12/2012 3:26:28 AM   
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Status: offline 		We sleep together side by side, each under our own separate mound of blankets. I like my own space when I sleep, so none of this glommed onto each other buisness some enjoy. Though I do adore an love being snuggled in close, up till the time I am ready to cover up by daddy tucking me in .then I scoot over to my side if the kingside, roll over fluff pillows how I want and then he tucks me in and hands me the stuffed toy I asked for.


Sometimes Calley may is between us but since she's a large dog I/ we prefer her at the foot.

The only time sleeping arrangements change is if he's snoring so loud I can't sleep, or I have a gal pal sleeping over. Then daddy let's her sleep in bed with me and takes the airmattress . But that's extremely rare.

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RE: sleeping arrangements - 3/12/2012 3:37:35 AM   
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Status: offline 		50% of the time I sleep in Mistresses bed with her, wrapped up around her. Which is lovely in a "am I on a spaceship with a hull breach" kind of way. Yup, she snores. But that's okay since I have severe stomach and bowel problems, so I frequently gas her.

Those health problems are part of why it's only 50% of the time. Half of my life my body is too sore to even wear clothes. Last week for instance on Weds I spent the whole day naked because when I work even my loosest clothing it hurt me so much I end up in tears. I also ended up in my own bed, alone, because if Mistress were to touch me in anyway I'd end up sobbing from the pain and thus waking her, the dog, and most of the neighbours.

When I've had a slavegirl we either slept together cuddled up tight. My last girl used to whisper that she loved her big sister while she drifted off *sigh*. Or if I was too sore she would sleep on a gues bed on the floor next to me.

Like (more or less) everyone else touching, or at least being physically close to one another going to sleep, and waking up means everything to me. And the idea of putting a pet, or being put into a cage to sleep...what a frikkin' waste of a loving, caring, adoring, organic hot water bottle, with suction attachments.

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RE: sleeping arrangements - 3/12/2012 10:41:04 AM   
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RE: sleeping arrangements - 3/12/2012 11:39:30 AM   
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RE: sleeping arrangements - 3/12/2012 1:29:36 PM   
MariaB


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Status: offline 		We never go to bed without each other and we sleep nose to nose.
Chloe has her own bed in the same room but always starts off in ours. Because she prefers to stretch out, she tends to move over at some point during the night.
Steve only has one sleeping rule and that is, we never sleep with animals. A cat shat on him once whilst he was sleeping

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RE: sleeping arrangements - 3/12/2012 1:39:50 PM   
Marc2b


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Status: offline 		We are not 24/7 so most of the time it is not only separate beds but separate homes. On nights when we are together we sleep naked together. I like having her soft warm body next to mine... especially on cold winter nights! For that reason I don't use denial of the bed as a punishment. Why should I be denied a pleasant experience because of her disobedience? There are other means of correction.

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RE: sleeping arrangements - 3/12/2012 2:18:14 PM   
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