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activedomman -> Skirt Lifting (3/12/2012 9:21:39 PM)

Have any of you use the skirt lifting on subs before they sit down so that their butt in bare on the chair? If so are their rules or guidelines?



poise -> RE: Skirt Lifting (3/12/2012 9:37:27 PM)

I wouldn't advise having her do this in a public place. At all. Ever.
Unless you are going to sterilize her seat prior to her sitting, and after she stands to leave.

You may find this thread of interest.
http://www.collarchat.com/m_3836307/tm.htm



mynxkat -> RE: Skirt Lifting (3/12/2012 9:40:47 PM)

Personally, while I might be amenable to doing that at home, I would flatly refuse to do so in any sort of public setting unless I was allowed to clean the seat thoroughly with antiseptic first. People are fairly filthy beasts, and I for one don't want any of my girly bits coming into contact with whatever potentially tranmittable ickyness various louts have left there.

ETA: good point about cleaning it again afterwards Poise, I hadn't thought of that.



tj444 -> RE: Skirt Lifting (3/12/2012 9:46:49 PM)

no one has ever asked me to do that... but one word does immediately pop into my mind.. plastic! ..sort of like a shower cap for chairs.. [:D]



peppermint -> RE: Skirt Lifting (3/12/2012 11:30:44 PM)

It's funny about these kinds of things.  It sounds so sexy and hot when you read it in a story.  The sub usually has a remote control egg stuffed in her vagina and the Dom will turn it on at certain times of the evening, like when the waiter comes to take the orders.  Then at a certain time she will be told to cum, getting lots fluids on the seat.  Then they walk happily away, oblivious to the germs that have been left on the seat for the next unwary person. 



Winterapple -> RE: Skirt Lifting (3/12/2012 11:46:07 PM)

Another version is couple go out to dinner, sub is
sent to the bathroom to remove her panties
and return to her seat. Various activities
ensue.
But no bare ass and kitty for me in public.
There could be all kinds of nasty on that
seat.



littlewonder -> RE: Skirt Lifting (3/12/2012 11:52:32 PM)

usually only in the car sometimes, at home or when we're at a play party of course since I'm always naked. Other than that we're both kinda squicked out by the idea of sitting on anything else in public....too many icky things.



mynxkat -> RE: Skirt Lifting (3/13/2012 12:43:36 AM)

Oh, hey, here's an idea. Go with the concept of carrying a towel or other sort of covering around to put down on the seat. Said covering could be... um.. enhanced all sorts of interesting ways. A square of astroturf springs to mind. And it is available in all sorts of colors, shouldn't be TOO hard to disguise such a thing in the midst of a thick towel of a matching color. And if anyone asks about it, well, put it down to being an OCD thing.



Killerangel -> RE: Skirt Lifting (3/13/2012 6:30:47 AM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: activedomman

Have any of you use the skirt lifting on subs before they sit down so that their butt in bare on the chair? If so are their rules or guidelines?


When she's sitting down bare assed she's exposing herself to everything on that surface and providing an entryway into her own body for all the germs etc to enter. There are a lot of germs in public places, look up the variety and length of time they stay active if you're curious. An example would be money...lots of people touch it and we've all heard how filthy it is.

Then when she gets up from sitting bare assed every person after her gets to have those new germs, from areas that excrete waste, all over themselves and their personal items- clothing, coat, purse, wallet, car keys. Maybe nothing would transmit in the end but would you like to have random ass and vag germs all over you and your belongings? What if she didn't wipe really well or had gonorrhea? What if is wasnt' a cute young woman sitting there but the homeless guy who hasn't bathed in the last decade? I bet his germs might make you think twice about taking a seat where he was just sitting bare assed. Plus, what if he was just there before she sat down?

Maybe there isn't a huge physical risk here but you have to admit that a bare knee contacting a surface that you'll be touching is much less distasteful than having an intimate area there previously.

I'm not a particularly germaphobe person, but there are germs out there or obviously none of us would ever get sick or become infected. There's no way I'd do this scenario, too risky to myself and I'm not that much of a douche that I'd let someone else have my own germ banquet all over themselves.



OsideGirl -> RE: Skirt Lifting (3/13/2012 7:10:05 AM)

There's nothing that I can add. Everyone here has pretty much covered that you're asking a woman to place three holes and mucus membranes onto a germ covered surface. You need to think about her health vs. your dick.



JanahX -> RE: Skirt Lifting (3/13/2012 8:22:47 AM)

The official rules can be found in "The official Rule Book of BDSM", Page 983, Chapter 44.

If you dont do this exactly as described, you will be arrested by the BDSM police. Take heed.

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DesFIP -> RE: Skirt Lifting (3/13/2012 11:46:54 AM)

I wouldn't do it at home even. Unless you're planning to pay for the constant professional cleaning of upholstery?



risktaker9 -> RE: Skirt Lifting (3/13/2012 11:49:20 AM)

If it gets your motor running to have her sit somewhere without panties then think it through first and pick something like your car as littlewonder suggested, or another surface that isn't accessible to everyone in the world. Germs don't cause any issues running around in the environment until they find an entry into the body....there would obviously be no way to prevent her from being exposed to lots of stuff in a public situation.

Lots of things sound hot in theory. There will probably be someone who will say that they do this all the time with no ill results. As a Dominant though you should be careful of what you ask for and how it would impact the woman you are leading.



OsideGirl -> RE: Skirt Lifting (3/13/2012 12:40:26 PM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: risktaker9
There will probably be someone who will say that they do this all the time with no ill results.
Yeah, and I bet that same person uses the little paper ass gaskets when they use a public toilet.....



risktaker9 -> RE: Skirt Lifting (3/13/2012 12:54:03 PM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: OsideGirl

Yeah, and I bet that same person uses the little paper ass gaskets when they use a public toilet.....



Lol, probably.
I'll say this though, at least when you sit on a public toilet you know that there have been unfamiliar bare butts on there and you proceed accordingly. When you sit down at a restaurant you shouldn't have to think about protecting yourself against waste germs and vaginal secretions. You see staff in bathrooms cleaning fairly often, the seats in a restaurant...not so much.




activedomman -> RE: Skirt Lifting (3/13/2012 6:09:01 PM)

Thank you for all the input as I never thought about the germ issue. We will not proced with this task. Thanks again.



peppermint -> RE: Skirt Lifting (3/13/2012 6:12:25 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: activedomman

Thank you for all the input as I never thought about the germ issue. We will not proced with this task. Thanks again.


It is a Dom's responsbility to think through anything new to keep the submissive safe. 



Killerangel -> RE: Skirt Lifting (3/13/2012 8:19:34 PM)

Glad you got something out of the discussion and it was really nice that you came back to say so.



OsideGirl -> RE: Skirt Lifting (3/14/2012 7:15:29 AM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: risktaker9


quote:

ORIGINAL: OsideGirl

Yeah, and I bet that same person uses the little paper ass gaskets when they use a public toilet.....



Lol, probably.
I'll say this though, at least when you sit on a public toilet you know that there have been unfamiliar bare butts on there and you proceed accordingly. When you sit down at a restaurant you shouldn't have to think about protecting yourself against waste germs and vaginal secretions. You see staff in bathrooms cleaning fairly often, the seats in a restaurant...not so much.




That was kind of the point. When we sit on a toilet, we don't put any of the three holes or a mucous membrane on the seat.....but we still use the ass gasket any way. But, yet that same person, would spout off saying they put their three holes and mucous membranes onto a surface that has been wiped down with a rag that hasn't been washed since the restaurant opened and has been exposed to all sorts of things generated by the general public.



hellionsLight -> RE: Skirt Lifting (3/14/2012 8:34:25 AM)

I do it at home - I like the feeling - but I like to be naked anyway, so there really wouldn't be a skirt to lift. in public? Nah. If i had underwear on, I'd lift the skirt.



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