ResidentSadist
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Joined: 2/11/2007 From: a mean old Daddy, but I like you - Joni Mitchell Status: offline
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I was buying vitamins in the store, standing next to a vibrant but much older woman. She was had bright eyes, a spring in her step and was looking through the various brands of vitamin B, as was I. I made a comment about the many varieties when she proffered her favorite brand proclaiming she was 85 and had been taking them for years. I took the bottle and thanked her, saying “I hope I’m in as good shape as you when I’m your age”. Then I flexed and said, “I need all the vitamins I can get because I want to stay strong . . . I like it rough”. She leaned over and whispered, “sticks and stones may break my bones but whips and chains excite me”… followed up with a wink. I tell you this story about the health conscious kinky old lady because there have been some other threads and comments about age, sex and BDSM or kink. My dad lived a D/s lifestyle and was active with his girl until the day he died at the age of 75. Everhope is my age and she is as sexy, sick and twisted as anyone of any age. My ex is 14 years my senior and turned 70 recently. She had the medical equivalent of a total restoration job. Nonetheless, although the cosmetic surgery makes her look younger, it’s her attitude that makes her youthful and sexy. Like everhope, my ex, the spunky 85 year old lady in the store and my aspirations stay physically fit so I can keep playing rough in my old age . . . it’s all about your attitude. If you think life and the pleasures of sex and BDSM end at age 40, 50 etc, it will. If you think growing older, getting married or having kids will make you too “mature” for kinky pleasures or lifestyles . . . it will. Your life and lifestyle is a choice. It’s only your choice and not someone else’s. I have lived under many conditions, wealthy, poor, kids, wives, poly, mono, slaves, subs etc… but for me there has always been one thread of commonality. I never sacrificed my passion, romance or the leather. I don’t expect I ever will . . . like that old lady, you will probably find me at the age of 85, buying vitamins and whispering kinky expressions to strangers. What say you? Plan to die with a whip in your hand? I do.
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