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r1a2y3m4o5n6d7 -> Meeting people. (3/13/2012 4:28:53 PM)

Seems a lot of subs keep complaining that they can't meet anyone on here. Speaking as a Dom from personal experience. If I ask to meet with a Dom/Domme they always show up. If I ask to meet with a sub only 1% show up. I guess that fantasizing is risk free. Just making an observation here.




kalikshama -> RE: Meeting people. (3/13/2012 4:33:31 PM)

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If I ask to meet with a sub only 1% show up. I guess that fantasizing is risk free.


When I was looking, I sometimes lost interest after initial contact and advised him of such, but never blew anyone off with whom I had firm plans to meet.




OsideGirl -> RE: Meeting people. (3/13/2012 4:43:47 PM)

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ORIGINAL: r1a2y3m4o5n6d7

Seems a lot of subs keep complaining that they can't meet anyone on here. Speaking as a Dom from personal experience. If I ask to meet with a Dom/Domme they always show up. If I ask to meet with a sub only 1% show up. I guess that fantasizing is risk free. Just making an observation here.


I never blew anyone off and I never had anyone blow me off either. But, 90% of the Dom men lied...about age, hair, body shape, relationship status, job, relationship goals, etc.




kalikshama -> RE: Meeting people. (3/13/2012 4:51:54 PM)

Only two men did not add an inch or two to his height - including one who was 6'4" and claimed to be 6'5" and one who was 6'3" and claimed to be 6'4"!

My roommate at the time was 6'4" so I knew exactly what that looked like.




DesFIP -> RE: Meeting people. (3/13/2012 5:50:56 PM)

The Man claimed he was just 6' even. He's an inch over. I don't think he had been measured since the age of 16.

But yes, that first meet when you're new is scary as can be.




LadyHibiscus -> RE: Meeting people. (3/13/2012 5:53:03 PM)

It's true!! Rayray and I had a nice lunch. Sub men? IF they show up the first time, they disappear afterward.




r1a2y3m4o5n6d7 -> RE: Meeting people. (3/13/2012 7:41:30 PM)

I love sub women. You never know what type will show up. From nice to real nutcases. I had a group called "Men in the closet". Seems most of them stay there but I made a lot of good friends from there.

LH Culvers is calling us again.




JanahX -> RE: Meeting people. (3/13/2012 7:51:03 PM)

Ive met quite a few people off of this site. And YES .. they show up.

Its then that I recognize that they are not a dom or anything even close to it.

So in all reality, I have ZERO idea of what you are talking about.




LadyHibiscus -> RE: Meeting people. (3/13/2012 7:57:02 PM)

Another month and I have a life again, Rayray! Fries and custard!




MistressDarkArt -> RE: Meeting people. (3/13/2012 8:00:16 PM)

Every sub I wanted to connect with from CM showed up, whether they lived locally or not. I've had several significant partnerships with some of them, and consider all to be friends of varying degree. Wish it worked that well in vanilla-land.

Ditto Doms, all two of them who were brave enough to get to know me.




soul2share -> RE: Meeting people. (3/14/2012 4:03:04 PM)

Well, since pretty much all but 1 or 2 "doms" immediately "ran away" from a simple online conversation after I sent them a picture, I never seem to get to the meeting point! I can understand the pic thing, but if I'm going to make the point of setting up a meeting, you can pretty much guess I'm not some 400 lb male.

I have always been honest about my looks, and the fact that I take a god-awful picture....digital ones are even worse, because they add a good 30 pounds to the pic! I look pretty good in real life, at least I've never made little children scream in fear!

And can you believe that even after putting it in my profile that I will NOT send a pic, I'm still getting "aw, c'mon, I won't judge you!" from guys. And don't run off to check, trust me, it's there. OY!




r1a2y3m4o5n6d7 -> RE: Meeting people. (3/14/2012 4:48:35 PM)

JanahX the same can be said about Dommes or lesbians. It goes without saying don't believe every thing that you read on here. I have learned long ago to take everyone on here with a grain of salt. I have met a lot of people on here who were not who they professed to be but so what a lot of them have become my friends.




LadyHibiscus -> RE: Meeting people. (3/14/2012 6:52:48 PM)

~~WAILS~~

Rayray still loves me even though I am an artificial flower.




r1a2y3m4o5n6d7 -> RE: Meeting people. (3/15/2012 2:56:03 PM)

LH there is nothing artifical about you.




ShaharThorne -> RE: Meeting people. (3/15/2012 3:03:50 PM)

I am quite willing to meet folks, but I live in Whoville, a small town in NE Texas (no such name but you get what I mean). I doubt if there are like-minded people where I live at who is quite willing to celebrate Steak and BJ day everyday.





LadyHibiscus -> RE: Meeting people. (3/15/2012 3:10:05 PM)


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ORIGINAL: r1a2y3m4o5n6d7

LH there is nothing artifical about you.



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StrayCatCharlie -> RE: Meeting people. (3/15/2012 3:32:57 PM)


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ORIGINAL: LadyHibiscus

~~WAILS~~

Rayray still loves me even though I am an artificial flower.


Ok, who, THE FUCK, is this rayray ?!




LadyHibiscus -> RE: Meeting people. (3/15/2012 3:39:11 PM)


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ORIGINAL: StrayCatCharlie


quote:

ORIGINAL: LadyHibiscus

~~WAILS~~

Rayray still loves me even though I am an artificial flower.


Ok, who, THE FUCK, is this rayray ?!



Remember Dnomyar? That is my Rayray! One of our LOCALS yanno. He watched me eat frozen custard!




r1a2y3m4o5n6d7 -> RE: Meeting people. (3/15/2012 5:44:13 PM)

Been around here for a while Charlie. Welcome nice to see new people on here.




LadyHibiscus -> RE: Meeting people. (3/15/2012 5:44:57 PM)

Our Charles was a long time contributor, Rayray, he has RETURNED to us! So CM remains a Good Place.[:)]




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