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A New To Site N Submission BBW - 3/13/2012 8:19:27 PM   
joshspet1980


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From: Texas originally but live in Washington
Status: offline 		My name is Delaine and I am new to this site as well as to being a submissive. My fiance is also new to the site and to being a Master. I have never felt a desire to lead this sort of lifestyle nor engage in this kind of sexual play before. I have always been one to keep control in a relationship and argued at every step. I have always had a spirit of curiosity and a wish to experiment with various sexual experiences, but BDSM has never seemed to call to me before. I am a woman who believes in the Bible and Christ, but am not a strictly practicing one.
More recently, since I have met my fiance, the passages that deal with the man being the head of the household and the woman not denying him access to intimacy nor the man denying the woman intimacy have been blaring at me. I have read them before, but they never bothered me.I ignored it. But this man that I am with now. There is something about him that is calling me. I WANT to submit to him. I WANT to give him his rights as head of our household and I NEVER want to deny him intimacy or access to my body, my mind, my spirit. I have COMPLETE trust in this man.

I have been through one abusive relationship after another since I was 18 and he is the first man I've been with in all that time that was not abusive in some form. Maybe that's why I fought so hard. But with this man, I WANT to be dominated in every way. Now, since I am new and have gone through true abuse and not just sexual play that I encouraged, I need guidance and direction. I have joined this site as well as some Yahoo groups, one which is christiandomesticdiscipline which deals mostly with spanking. I find I want to be spanked by my Master, my future husband! This is amazing for me and shows how much I've healed these past months since I have been living with Master's parents.

We will be getting married soon. I want his last name. I want his ownership in every form and way. I want to be completely his. He has known for some time that he is a dominant type, very protective, but he has never had a "pet" or submissive before. He knows a little more about it than I know. We want to further our education and make friends who are also into the same lifestyle as us. We don't mind if you have differences in ways of doing things or beliefs or likes and dislikes. Our differences make us special. We wish to attend events in Portland, OR and find clubs that we can go to there. That will be our home once we are married. Right now, I live in Yakima, WA and he lives in Portland, OR. I visit him about once a month. We are looking forward to and are excited about our new life together.
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RE: A New To Site N Submission BBW - 3/13/2012 8:32:28 PM   
poise


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Status: offline 		Welcome to the both of you, and best wishes for a happy future together.

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RE: A New To Site N Submission BBW - 3/13/2012 8:56:48 PM   
DarkSteven


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Status: offline 		That's entirely natural, that you feel differently about your relationship with him than you felt with others.

Welcome to the site, Delaine, and best wishes for your joint life ahead.

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RE: A New To Site N Submission BBW - 3/13/2012 9:48:06 PM   
joshspet1980


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Status: offline 		Thank you both for your warm wishes. I hope ya'll are having a wonderful night. I just got in trouble and have some spankings cumming because I forgot to eat yesterday. Not that it harms me in any way, but my Master is big on me eating regular meals. So, what Master wants Master gets. I have promised to mend my ways.

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RE: A New To Site N Submission BBW - 3/14/2012 12:24:24 AM   
Delilya


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RE: A New To Site N Submission BBW - 3/14/2012 5:26:38 AM   
ashjor911


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RE: A New To Site N Submission BBW - 3/14/2012 7:30:50 AM   
OohAahMrs


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Status: offline 		Welcome you guys, have some fun here.

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RE: A New To Site N Submission BBW - 3/14/2012 11:41:56 AM   
kalikshama


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Status: offline 		Welcome!

You two might enjoy some of the books on the BDSM booklist: http://www.collarchat.com/m_1726118/tm.htm

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RE: A New To Site N Submission BBW - 3/14/2012 12:50:24 PM   
tonysanyo


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Status: offline 		anybody want to play TODAY

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RE: A New To Site N Submission BBW - 3/14/2012 1:32:57 PM   
DarkSteven


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quote:

ORIGINAL: tonysanyo

anybody want to play TODAY


Are you to be taken for real?

Your profile is blank, and you post in the thread of a taken woman, asking everyone - Doms, subs, men, women, everyone - if we want to play today. Are you completely desperate, or do you have a fantasy that if you walk into a bar and announce that you're down for sex to one and all, that you'll only get suitable women jump into your arms?

Develop some sense and some etiquette.

And for that matter, why TODAY?

< Message edited by DarkSteven -- 3/14/2012 1:33:39 PM >

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RE: A New To Site N Submission BBW - 3/14/2012 1:57:24 PM   
Hillwilliam


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quote:

ORIGINAL: DarkSteven


And for that matter, why TODAY?

His wife comes back from her business trip tomorrow.

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RE: A New To Site N Submission BBW - 3/14/2012 5:07:07 PM   
Boudica


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Status: offline 		LOL @ Hilly...

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RE: A New To Site N Submission BBW - 3/14/2012 6:22:31 PM   
joshspet1980


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From: Texas originally but live in Washington
Status: offline 		Thank you DarkSteven for sticking up for me and for being such a sweet wonderful gentleman. That was very wonderful of you. And thank you all for your welcomes and for the advice on reading those books. :) What a wonderful community I have joined. :)

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RE: A New To Site N Submission BBW - 3/14/2012 6:44:09 PM   
TNDommeK


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Status: offline 		*creeps up behind tonysanyo and covers his mouth with chloroformed rag, making him pass out. then throws body off a bridge* hi!!!!!!!! welcome to cm Delaine.


( the chloroform part might have been against the rules, but it needed to be done)

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RE: A New To Site N Submission BBW - 3/15/2012 3:13:28 PM   
kalikshama


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Status: offline 		/snort/

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RE: A New To Site N Submission BBW - 3/15/2012 9:41:37 PM   
MistressDarkArt


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RE: A New To Site N Submission BBW - 3/16/2012 1:46:17 PM   
joshspet1980


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From: Texas originally but live in Washington
Status: offline 		LOL @ TNDommeK I love it. I am doing very well thank you. I have made a couple of friends on here already and I'm listening to good music. So, I'm happy and well. Thank you for asking. :)

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RE: A New To Site N Submission BBW - 3/16/2012 3:17:43 PM   
BurntKitty


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Status: offline 		Welcome to CM and congrats on the upcoming nuptials.



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RE: A New To Site N Submission BBW - 3/16/2012 8:46:14 PM   
CaptJosh


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Status: offline 		Hi folks. I'm Josh, and I am Delaine's Master. I must apologize for not getting to this thread sooner. Work has kept me busy and kind of tired, so I've only been ever so slowly customizing my profile, bit by bit.

I am MOST displeased with this tonysanyo person. Coming into MY pet's introduction thread and asking such a thing? If he's not banned, he should consider himself fortunate that this wasn't at a club where my love was making her debut and I was there in person. I'd have put him on the ground...hard.

I am, however, most pleased with the rest of you for welcoming my little one so kindly and for sticking up for her until I could get here. Had I known about this creature's overture, I would have been here much sooner. Thank you all for your kindness.

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RE: A New To Site N Submission BBW - 3/16/2012 9:14:15 PM   
Killerangel


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Status: offline 		Welcome Delaine, wish you the best. Hey Josh, welcome to you too, and just a heads up- there are idiots all over the web, this site isn't any exception. If you take offense to all of them you'll be a busy man. It was pretty obvious that the interloper was a HNG with blood flow problems to the brain, he probably picked this thread randomly to make his announcement as it were. I wouldn't be too worried about it as it doesn't seem to be anything personal at all.

So hey, best of luck to both of you!

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