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SoulAlloy -> RE: I'm new to all of this... (3/15/2012 11:23:35 AM)

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ORIGINAL: MalcolmNathaniel

Run away! These people are all PERVERTS!

Not only that, but they admit it!

I'm only here because in a past life I was Alexander The Great's Chief Eunuch. One day someone sold him a dud virgin. How did he end up with a dud virgin? It turns out someone also pawned a dud eunuch off on him.

What's a eunuch?
And operating system, but that's not important right now.

Run away!

Seriously though:

Yoda: This place is strong with the Dark Side of the Force. A domain of evil it is. In you must go.
Luke: What's in there?
Yoda: Only what you take with you.
Yoda: Your weapons, you will not need them.

And I'll be impressed if someone can mention all of the TV shows, Broadway plays and movies I've just referenced. The Empire Strikes Back doesn't count because that was a gimme.


Anyway, welcome to a new way of looking at things.


Red Dwarf and Monty Python I got, but what is this "Empire Strikes Back"? [8D]




Buzzzz -> RE: I'm new to all of this... (3/15/2012 11:46:40 AM)

We are the knights who sayyyyyy "Ni"




kalikshama -> RE: I'm new to all of this... (3/15/2012 2:26:00 PM)

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I find it a bit hard to swallow. S&M and BDSM are not some ultra-special type of actions and/or sex. It can be for some, but it's not inherently so.


It certainly is for me, which is Dossie resonates with me.

Keep the
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Give me

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kalikshama -> RE: I'm new to all of this... (3/15/2012 2:28:45 PM)

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It's always been obvious to me that one of my failures in being kinky is that I'm just not that into sex.


I would argue that what you have accomplished is more difficult than whips n chains.




GotSteel -> RE: I'm new to all of this... (3/15/2012 9:03:31 PM)

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ORIGINAL: kalikshama
Have the courage to lead life according to the radical proposition that sex is nice and pleasure is good for you.


This part really resonated with me: "To believe that God doesn't like sex is like believing that God doesn't like you: we all wind up carrying a secret shame for our own perfectly natural sexual desires and fulfillments."

OP, I think becoming comfortable with your own sexuality in an incredibly sex negative culture is something that new kinksters have to work through.




fallenangel17 -> RE: I'm new to all of this... (3/15/2012 9:28:52 PM)

Quick question as I am not finding the answer....

Is it possible to delete your own previous posts and if so how?




kalikshama -> RE: I'm new to all of this... (3/16/2012 2:36:30 AM)

You can edit for up to an hour but after that they are locked in unless you violated the TOS, a report was created, and the Mod take action.




LoreBook -> RE: I'm new to all of this... (3/16/2012 3:07:05 AM)

Well what I've learned from this site is...
1. Subs should never be told to do something they don't want to do.
2. Being under 40 and having an opinion that differs from that of the local pseudo-subs is seriously looked down on.
3. If you do decide to run against the stream and feel you simply must 2; whatever you do. Don't ever EVER express an opinion without making sure it is completely clear that you aren't saying its has to be that way. Other than that its a really fun site if you don't mind bitchy self-righteous people.


The preceding statement represents the views and opinions of the author and the author alone, and should in no way be considered an attempt by the author to define or determine anything for anybody but herself.




MrBukani -> RE: I'm new to all of this... (3/16/2012 4:23:26 AM)

Simple Minds- Don't you (forget about me) The Breakfast Club

Your beauty will resonate into eternity, it will never be lost.
Wanna have babies?[;)]




GotSteel -> RE: I'm new to all of this... (3/16/2012 6:35:52 AM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: LoreBook

Well what I've learned from this site is...
1. Subs should never be told to do something they don't want to do.
2. Being under 40 and having an opinion that differs from that of the local pseudo-subs is seriously looked down on.
3. If you do decide to run against the stream and feel you simply must 2; whatever you do. Don't ever EVER express an opinion without making sure it is completely clear that you aren't saying its has to be that way. Other than that its a really fun site if you don't mind bitchy self-righteous people.


The preceding statement represents the views and opinions of the author and the author alone, and should in no way be considered an attempt by the author to define or determine anything for anybody but herself.



What she said, especially 2 and 3.




LunaM -> RE: I'm new to all of this... (3/16/2012 5:13:26 PM)


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ORIGINAL: DaddySatyr

The orgies are mandatory attendence. Clothing is not optional. One must serve as a masochist for 6 months before you're allowed to make a choice.

I'm kidding. Expect new horizons. Don't trust too easily and the things you should know will be learned as you go along.



Peace and comfort,



Michael




No one told me the orgies were mandatory! *stamps foot and pouts*




HisPet21 -> RE: I'm new to all of this... (3/17/2012 12:23:12 PM)

quote:

Well what I've learned from this site is...
1. Subs should never be told to do something they don't want to do.
2. Being under 40 and having an opinion that differs from that of the local pseudo-subs is seriously looked down on.
3. If you do decide to run against the stream and feel you simply must 2; whatever you do. Don't ever EVER express an opinion without making sure it is completely clear that you aren't saying its has to be that way. Other than that its a really fun site if you don't mind bitchy self-righteous people.

The preceding statement represents the views and opinions of the author and the author alone, and should in no way be considered an attempt by the author to define or determine anything for anybody but herself.


Marry me? [;)]




CRYPTICLXVI -> RE: I'm new to all of this... (3/17/2012 12:28:04 PM)

Learn about yourself. That is important, meet others as for here, read, keep an open mind, get rid of what doesn't work.

Learn about yourself, be honest, truthful, do not lie to yourself.

Trust yourself.

Learn...

There are nice people here, there are assholes, just like any group of people.

And they can sometimes be the same people.





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