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hausboy -> RE: Oh, the pain... Calling all Masochists (3/19/2012 2:57:48 PM)
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I'll also add a few more things here, OP...
You may find some positions much more comfortable...and easier to take. Example...I almost never get paddled/caned etc. face down on the bed with a pillow under my hips. Why? Because it's quite comfortable for me...and it doesn't hurt my bum as much. (hence, why my Sir chooses to place me in a different position) In contrast, if I am bend over 90 degrees over a couch arm, chair, bench etc, the impact of the implement is far more effective and painful. (and psychologically, it makes me feel much more vulnerable, exposed and humiliated than the far more comforting fluffy pillows on the nice soft bed)
Another bit that goes with arousal--not to get too personal here, but I typically masturbate at least once--usually twice a day. I never masturbate on the day when I'm playing. After I cum, I lose almost all ability to tolerate pain, and I've found that as long as I can keep both the little head and the big head into the scene, I can take a lot more.
Forgot to add-- be sure you are well fed but not over-fed and hydrated with water. Avoid alcohol--while it may increase your ability to take pain, you will not be able to discern good pain from bad pain, and you are more prone to injuries or simply going beyond where you should have stopped.
Lastly--give your Master verbal and visual cues if you can. My Dommes and Sir can usually tell when I'm really feeling it by my verbal cues as well as physical ones. I have a number of physical cues if I get non-verbal--one is something resembling a "tap out" in wrestling--he knows that 3 taps on his thigh signals at least a few lighter ones if not a brief respite. I only use it when I truly need it, otherwise he'll think I'm just trying to get off easy.
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