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LaTigresse -> RE: A comment that I couldn't say..... (3/19/2012 9:10:43 AM)
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ORIGINAL: OsideGirl
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ORIGINAL: MissImmortalPain
I can't really comment on this...untill...someone defines the word bitch. I have more than once pointed out to people that what they think is being a bitch isn't really being a bitch. I rather like using the word cuntish. No one likes the word cunt and I personally think it more defines how some people act when they think they are being dominant. In my opinion it can be used on either gender too.
In the context of this post....
I'm what some people call a bitch. I'm educated, opinionated, I say what I mean, I'm ambitious and insecure men seem to feel that I'm not very submissive. In that context, yeah sure....call me a bitch.
In this particular context I was referring to the: deliberately rude, obnoxious and brow beater definition. If the only way you have control is because of fear, then you're not really in control.
Ya........I am okay with being called a bitch most times also. I have come to the realization that most people doing the calling are showing their own insecurities and not my faults.
That doesn't mean that there are not times I am being rather bitchy, I certainly have my moments. But oddly enough those moments get less reactions than when I am just standing up for what I believe in, and often times defending the underdog.
But none of that really has anything to do with the concept of the OP. I've discovered that the old adage my grandmother and great aunt used, 'You catch more flies with honey than vinegar.' holds true.
My sincere bitchiness tends to be saved for when the honey failed.
I also think that a LOT of dominant sorts that do the whole 'bitchy dom' routine are just insecure in their own skin. They usually have the photos that back it up.
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