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Transsexual doms - 3/20/2012 10:11:17 AM   
kmsprouse


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Status: offline 		Is it just me, or does there seem to be a lack of ts doms? I am a ts and trying to do research by finding and talking to other ts doms, but i cant really seem to find any. Any advice?
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RE: Transsexual doms - 3/20/2012 10:23:46 AM   
poise


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Status: offline 		Try including Dominant Trans in your "searching for" section of your profile.
This may help some in directing them to your profile.

Also, while you are checking profiles, be sure to use that drop down area
where it says gender, and have it clicked to Trans. I just did a search with
that and a few pages came up.

< Message edited by poise -- 3/20/2012 10:26:19 AM >

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RE: Transsexual doms - 3/21/2012 7:01:09 AM   
hellionsLight


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Status: offline 		I have honestly not met a lot of trans Doms, but good luck :) I don' really talk to people on here, though, unless they message me, LOL.

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RE: Transsexual doms - 3/23/2012 4:43:06 AM   
Madame4a


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Status: offline 		Do you mean Transmen? or do you mean Dominant men interested in transwomen?

I know a ton of transmen... of all types...

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RE: Transsexual doms - 3/23/2012 5:13:09 AM   
OttersSwim


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Status: offline 		I suspect they will be proportionate to the ratio of transgender people in the general population - so likely somewhere around 1-2%. Which is to say, there are not a lot out there, but they do exist. :)

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RE: Transsexual doms - 3/23/2012 6:32:23 AM   
SoulAlloy


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Status: offline 		I know a few TV dommes/switches, met a couple of TS subs...

There's bound to be some around, good luck :)

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RE: Transsexual doms - 3/29/2012 1:39:24 PM   
Justyourpet


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Status: offline 		There seems to be alot more ts subs than doms, but I've met a couple of doms irl

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RE: Transsexual doms - 4/7/2012 8:06:29 PM   
Zensualista


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Status: offline 		Transsexual dom = F2M. Transsexual domme = M2F. At least get that right.

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RE: Transsexual doms - 4/7/2012 8:10:19 PM   
RedMagic1


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ORIGINAL: Zensualista

Transsexual dom = F2M. Transsexual domme = M2F. At least get that right.

You're posting a lot of things that sound true, but are actually false, and I wish you would slow down. For example, this. Lots of dominant women don't like the word "domme" at all. They consider it a lame-ass online chatroom word. As a result, I usually write femdom or dom when talking about a woman, and so do a lot of other folks.

You, of all people, should know the importance of proper pronoun and noun usage on the internet.

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RE: Transsexual doms - 4/8/2012 9:56:03 AM   
Zensualista


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quote:

ORIGINAL: RedMagic1


quote:

ORIGINAL: Zensualista

Transsexual dom = F2M. Transsexual domme = M2F. At least get that right.

You're posting a lot of things that sound true, but are actually false, and I wish you would slow down. For example, this. Lots of dominant women don't like the word "domme" at all. They consider it a lame-ass online chatroom word. As a result, I usually write femdom or dom when talking about a woman, and so do a lot of other folks.

You, of all people, should know the importance of proper pronoun and noun usage on the internet.


That's silly CM bs. All of the female dominants I know in real life, always use domme. As a former pro domme and living in a large kink community of San Francisco, that's a significant section of the dominant community.

As for wishing I would slow down, take it to me personally. No wonder this site has the reputation that it does.

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RE: Transsexual doms - 4/8/2012 10:13:46 AM   
RedMagic1


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ORIGINAL: Zensualista
That's silly CM bs. All of the female dominants I know in real life, always use domme. As a former pro domme and living in a large kink community of San Francisco, that's a significant section of the dominant community.

As for wishing I would slow down, take it to me personally. No wonder this site has the reputation that it does.

There are far more kinksters not in the public scene than in the public scene, by a factor probably of at least 10,000, and, in fact, many public scenes have a well-deserved reputation for relationship dysfunctionality.

San Francisco is no exception to this. For example, on my first date with a former SF prodom(me!) she said to me, "Look, I know it's bad to complain on a first date, but could we take 20 minutes and bag on the local scene? God it's a terrible place to date."

Also, you never know who you're talking to on the internet. I made no assumptions about your level of IRL expertise. If "scene cred" matters to you, you might care that I got an email two days ago from someone who is on the Upper Floor regularly, saying how much she missed me. I've never been to the Upper Floor myself, mind. I'm just trying to give you a picture of some of the people who have accepted me into their lives.

Ultimately, your prejudice seems to be that having a lot of scene experience means you know a lot about kink. That isn't quite true. It means you know a lot about kink in the scene, but there's a whole world outside your comfort zone it seems.

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RE: Transsexual doms - 4/8/2012 10:25:10 AM   
Zensualista


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Status: offline 		RedMagic1 - if your kink world is centered around websites, it's time to turn off the computer and get into the real world, not just talk about it.

Stick to the topic. Anything personal should be sent to me.

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RE: Transsexual doms - 4/8/2012 10:50:02 AM   
RedMagic1


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ORIGINAL: Zensualista

RedMagic1 - if your kink world is centered around websites, it's time to turn off the computer and get into the real world, not just talk about it.

Stick to the topic. Anything personal should be sent to me.

I'm very happy with my current situation, though I appreciate your concern for my welfare, thank you.

I would prefer not to email you. Public conversation tends to be more civil, I find. Please feel free to report any post I have made that you believe a moderator should review.

All the best.

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RE: Transsexual doms - 4/8/2012 4:43:48 PM   
Zensualista


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ORIGINAL: RedMagic1


I'm very happy with my current situation, though I appreciate your concern for my welfare, thank you.

I would prefer not to email you. Public conversation tends to be more civil, I find. Please feel free to report any post I have made that you believe a moderator should review.

All the best.


That's lame. You've gone far off topic too. Mods - I tried to move this to private and sty on topic.

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RE: Transsexual doms - 4/8/2012 5:21:09 PM   
poise


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Status: offline 		I think it's a fair assumption that you went off topic, as your only response to the OP was stating the
fact that Transsexual dom = F2M. Transsexual domme = M2F is the only correct termonolgy.

I think it's also a fair response to say that, while this may work for you in your little corner of the world,
it isn't necesarily going to be the terms the thousands of other users on this site, from the many other
corners of the world, prefer to use.

There is nothing insulting in trying to get you to see that not all users here are from the SF kink scene.

In keeping with the topic of this thread, are there places in SF that you would recommend to the OP?

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RE: Transsexual doms - 4/9/2012 10:41:41 PM   
Zensualista


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ORIGINAL: poise

I think it's a fair assumption that you went off topic, as your only response to the OP was stating the
fact that Transsexual dom = F2M. Transsexual domme = M2F is the only correct termonolgy.


You can disagree with me, but how is that off topic? I think you're a little miffed about my remark about people needing to get off the computer and get into real life. 6569 posts in about 21 months? Isn't that about ten posts every single day?

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RE: Transsexual doms - 4/10/2012 6:52:26 AM   
poise


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quote:

ORIGINAL: Zensualista

quote:

ORIGINAL: poise

I think it's a fair assumption that you went off topic, as your only response to the OP was stating the
fact that Transsexual dom = F2M. Transsexual domme = M2F is the only correct termonolgy.


You can disagree with me, but how is that off topic? I think you're a little miffed about my remark about people needing to get off the computer and get into real life. 6569 posts in about 21 months? Isn't that about ten posts every single day?


No, it averages out to be roughly 26 posts every single day. At least get that right, geez.

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RE: Transsexual doms - 4/10/2012 7:13:52 AM   
OsideGirl


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ORIGINAL: Zensualista
All of the female dominants I know in real life, always use domme. As a former pro domme and living in a large kink community of San Francisco, that's a significant section of the dominant community.

Good for you. I know several in real life that don't use domme and a few that even use Master.

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RE: Transsexual doms - 4/10/2012 4:49:13 PM   
kalikshama


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RE: Transsexual doms - 4/11/2012 6:57:34 PM   
Zensualista


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ORIGINAL: Madame4a

Do you mean Transmen? or do you mean Dominant men interested in transwomen?



Exactly.

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