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SpiritedRadiance -> RE: Cumming Quick (3/20/2012 6:04:27 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: slaveloser69 Im not using this a solution to my problem. Im asking a questions. IF i go to a bar with my girlfriend or a place where we would drink, and i have 2 drinks, i dont know if that would have an effect on the second time of sex Grab Two beers... Drop your pants... Drink said beers... Masturbate... Cum... Get it up again or at least try too again.. Theres your answer...

BurntKitty -> RE: Cumming Quick (3/20/2012 6:05:02 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: slaveloser69 Im not using this a solution to my problem. Im asking a questions. IF i go to a bar with my girlfriend or a place where we would drink, and i have 2 drinks, i dont know if that would have an effect on the second time of sex You're really trying to live up to your name? How can we (anonymous interweb dwellers) predict the effect alcohol has on you & lil loser? Why don't you recite the Gettysburg Address or think of the Miami Heat starting line up when you're with your partner? Edited to add my reply....

slaveloser69 -> RE: Cumming Quick (3/20/2012 6:06:35 PM)
Thanks, but jerking off is different than the real thing

Killerangel -> RE: Cumming Quick (3/20/2012 6:13:36 PM)
Thing is no one knows how 2 drinks affects you. People are all different. Sometimes they even react differently within their usual reactions. I don't think anyone can give you a definitive answer here to the question of what 2 drinks will do to your erection or how fast you will cum.

slaveloser69 -> RE: Cumming Quick (3/20/2012 6:14:17 PM)
thanks.. i wont risk it. ill stay with 1

SpiritedRadiance -> RE: Cumming Quick (3/20/2012 6:15:45 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: slaveloser69 Thanks, but jerking off is different than the real thing Then tell your girlfriend your going to try something new... Go out drink two drinks go home... Apply your first round of lacking sex Then try for your second... Dude if shes sticking it out with you when you cum quickly.... i doubt she will mind the experience...

sp00nss -> RE: Cumming Quick (3/20/2012 6:26:11 PM)
sounds like a problem ,best trial and error.

DesFIP -> RE: Cumming Quick (3/20/2012 6:51:40 PM)
The guy I dated in college freshman year had this problem. What the doctor at the school health center said was that if he could get it up a second time in just a few minutes, then it isn't worth worrying about. Use the time between to focus on her. Use your hands, your mouth, toys and make sure she has a good time. Then ten minutes later you can rejoin the fun. I remember the doctor who was middle aged saying he would love to have this problem again.

LadyHibiscus -> RE: Cumming Quick (3/20/2012 9:43:49 PM)
Alcohol has no effect on my erections whatsoever.

mynxkat -> RE: Cumming Quick (3/20/2012 10:13:40 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: DesFIP The guy I dated in college freshman year had this problem. What the doctor at the school health center said was that if he could get it up a second time in just a few minutes, then it isn't worth worrying about. Use the time between to focus on her. Use your hands, your mouth, toys and make sure she has a good time. Then ten minutes later you can rejoin the fun. I remember the doctor who was middle aged saying he would love to have this problem again. ^This. Seriously, your fixation on if more alcohol will 'fix' your problem sounds like you're looking for an excuse to become an alcoholic.

JeffBC -> RE: Cumming Quick (3/20/2012 10:35:06 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: slaveloser69 Im not using this a solution to my problem. Im asking a questions. IF i go to a bar with my girlfriend or a place where we would drink, and i have 2 drinks, i dont know if that would have an effect on the second time of sex The point is nobody here can know. here's what I can tell you. I can have 3 glasses of wine pretty rapidly... enough to get me fairly drunk... and still have multiple bouts of sex with Carol. That would be assuming I still have the motivation to do anything. Alcohol often makes me sleepy. It also impacts my ability to be erect but not so much my ability to cum. But how does any of that relate to you?

Rochsub2009 -> RE: Cumming Quick (3/21/2012 10:03:44 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: slaveloser69 Im asking a questions. IF i go to a bar with my girlfriend or a place where we would drink, and i have 2 drinks, i dont know if that would have an effect on the second time of sex No. Two drinks will not have any effect on your ability to have sex a second time. Your personal threshold is 3.1 drinks before it affects your sexual performance. Even though I've never met you, I know this to be a fact. So enjoy your 2 drinks. The great Oz has spoken! [:D]

81song -> RE: Cumming Quick (3/21/2012 11:11:12 AM)
DarkSteve is right its all about control, that is what it is all about. When I was younger (I forget the book) it showed you how you can have very long orgasms (1-2Hrs.). A friend borrowed the book and never gave it back. But my point is that you need to practice control and it takes time and drinking does not help. A Domme would help you with that.

CaptJosh -> RE: Cumming Quick (3/21/2012 11:15:58 AM)
<Yoda> Control, control! You must learn control! </Yoda> Aside from that, if you are ejaculating quickly, but are still ready to go afterward, just keep going and please the woman and stop worrying about blowing your load in her that fast. I've had times where I've been so worked up by my beloved pet that I came as soon as I was inside her, and then, since I stay hard after that, I kept on going and screwed her silly until she had multiple orgasms and I couldn't hold myself up anymore. Stop worrying about how quickly you get off and focus on making sure your lover is pleased. You may find that with a change of focus, you don't cum quite so quickly either.

GreedyTop -> RE: Cumming Quick (3/21/2012 11:17:24 AM)
~FR~ the sooner ya get off the sooner I can take care of my own needs by myself.

81song -> RE: Cumming Quick (3/21/2012 11:22:03 AM)
Very true and I would add to again not to drink before kink and maybe see it as a game..see how long ya can go for.

hellionsLight -> RE: Cumming Quick (3/21/2012 11:24:34 AM)
I can't help you . Master takes a long time, and sometimes doesn't do it at all, LOL

MistressDarkArt -> RE: Cumming Quick (3/21/2012 11:31:04 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: GreedyTop ~FR~ the sooner ya get off the sooner I can take care of my own needs by myself. <Luvs the Greedz>

GreedyTop -> RE: Cumming Quick (3/21/2012 12:14:32 PM)
loves on MDA in a not too drooly way, but still with lots of moisture grins

tameeks -> RE: Cumming Quick (3/21/2012 1:13:32 PM)
Don't some men with this problem find help by squeezing one off themselves so that their not on the first when they're with the girl? Not being a man I have no clue about this stuff. This is not an issue my Daddy suffers from. (Thank Gawd).

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