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pinniped -> Dating sites for crossdressers (to meet women)? (3/23/2012 3:54:55 PM)
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Just wondering if anyone has run across a halfway decent site where crossdressers can meet women who are interested/willing to date.
In my experience, most of the sites catering to crossdressers are populated with crossdressers who want to meet other crossdressers, men (and occasionally couples) interested in meeting crossdressers or pre-op transsexuals, and the occasional pro female dominant who caters to the feminization fetish. There may be a few other women in among them, but they're rare, and often seem to be women who are already dating a crossdresser and just looking for more info or to be supportive.
On kink sites such as this one, there are many crossdressers interested in finding dominant women (or men, or TGs) but it seems that most of the dominant women are pretty tired of the subject. (Interestingly, I have spoken or corresponded with a number of dominant women who all seem to feel that they're the only domme who -doesn't- want her male subs to crossdress....) Those who are into the 'feminization' aspect are often not interested in men who already crossdress, as it takes the fun out of 'making' someone do so.
I've tried mentioning my crossdressing on more conventional dating sites, and I have occasionally gotten very positive responses from women praising my courage, honesty and openness for mentioning it....but not interested in dating. (Actually, I don't consider it courage -- rather the opposite; it avoids the problem of having to decide when and how to tell someone about it after we've started dating, which takes far more nerve in my book!)
Some years back when email discussion lists were popular, a woman did start a list specifically for women interested in dating crossdressers. As you might imagine, it attracted participation from several dozen CD's and, IIRC, exactly four women (two of whom were already dating CDs and just wanted to be supportive). The two women who were 'looking' were very picky and, I thought, not particularly broad-minded. I didn't mind that they were specific about not wanting to hook up with guys with an interest in kink, but they referred to us as "weirdos," and the attitude seemed to be less a kind of "I'm not into that, but good luck" as "there's something wrong with you." And once the founder of the list found someone, the list went away.
Anyway....just wondered if anyone had any suggestions, as it's getting kinda lonely out here. :)
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