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online mistress....who does not require tribute - 3/25/2012 1:53:15 AM   
hammer91


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Status: offline 		can i ever find a online mistress who does not require tribute because i can not send any as i am 20 and student i live in pakistan and dont have any cards to pay...so please can some one refer me to some mistress i want to follow the life style as i can not here because no such life style prevails here
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RE: online mistress....who does not require tribute - 3/25/2012 2:19:43 AM   
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Status: offline 		I suggest you go over to the fetlife site, set up a profile there and do a search for your area or country. I typed in 'Pakistan' and came up with 16 groups. You may have better luck over there

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RE: online mistress....who does not require tribute - 3/25/2012 10:31:18 AM   
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Status: offline 		I suspect that online Mistresses demand tribute because they have to get something out of the arrangement.

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RE: online mistress....who does not require tribute - 3/25/2012 11:33:47 AM   
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Status: offline 		What LoreBook said. What in the world do you think you have to offer to a female dominant online-only from across the world?

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RE: online mistress....who does not require tribute - 3/25/2012 12:03:16 PM   
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ORIGINAL: LoreBook

I suspect that online Mistresses demand tribute because they have to get something out of the arrangement.

Or because having somebody send money to a post office box is a lot easier than actually topping them...

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RE: online mistress....who does not require tribute - 3/25/2012 12:30:38 PM   
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ORIGINAL: LoreBook

I suspect that online Mistresses demand tribute because they have to get something out of the arrangement.



^^THIS^^. OP, I wished you luck on the intro board...now you know why.

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RE: online mistress....who does not require tribute - 3/25/2012 3:39:31 PM   
ElanSubdued


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From your profile:  "...i am very dominant when i am in my real life with good personality and confidence but i am a slave from inside to women specially to good looking women..."

There is nothing wrong with stating what you want.  However, there are ways and times to do this that are more endearing than others.  For example, coming onto a forum dedicated to dominant women and their submissive partners and saying, essentially, "I bottom, but only if you're a good looking woman" isn't, in my opinion, a great way to make an introduction.  Many here will likely think you're not submissive and that you're simply wanting to get your sexual groove on.  Hey, there's nothing wrong with enjoying your raw sexuality, but this forum isn't the place for that.

Myotherself, gave you good advice regrading FetLife.  Also, you could fill out your profile here on Collar Me and perhaps a dominant woman will find you interesting and want to chat.  I suggest participating in the forums and adding more vanilla information about yourself.  What are your interests?  What are you studying?  Why would you be interesting to talk to?  You could add a smidgeon of BDSM to share that part of yourself too.  A smidgeon = the less BDSM, the better. :-)

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RE: online mistress....who does not require tribute - 3/25/2012 4:06:14 PM   
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ORIGINAL: myotherself

I suggest you go over to the fetlife site, set up a profile there and do a search for your area or country. I typed in 'Pakistan' and came up with 16 groups. You may have better luck over there

Agreed.

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RE: online mistress....who does not require tribute - 3/26/2012 1:17:09 PM   
VioletViolence


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ORIGINAL: RumpusParable

What LoreBook said. What in the world do you think you have to offer to a female dominant online-only from across the world?


He probably thinks he can "amuse" her on webcam. I always *hated* hearing that. No, sorry, I don't find you indulging your fetishes while I watch and maybe give some instruction to be "amusing".

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RE: online mistress....who does not require tribute - 3/26/2012 10:19:12 PM   
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ORIGINAL: hammer91

can i ever find a online mistress who does not require tribute because i can not send any as i am 20 and student i live in pakistan and dont have any cards to pay...so please can some one refer me to some mistress i want to follow the life style as i can not here because no such life style prevails here


Bud...you're in Pakistan.....it's fairly clear, you want the hot chics (Pamela, for instance), you have to come to the country which pays all your fucking bills.

(That'd be the U.S. of A).

Step up....this is where they all are.

Come join the party.

We have paved roads here and everything....7-11's (run by most of your relatives) open every night.

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RE: online mistress....who does not require tribute - 3/27/2012 10:20:56 AM   
hammer91


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Status: offline 		thanks guys who ever are participating and telling i appreciate ur comments whether good or bad


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RE: online mistress....who does not require tribute - 3/28/2012 5:29:59 PM   
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ORIGINAL: LookieNoNookie


quote:

ORIGINAL: hammer91

can i ever find a online mistress who does not require tribute because i can not send any as i am 20 and student i live in pakistan and dont have any cards to pay...so please can some one refer me to some mistress i want to follow the life style as i can not here because no such life style prevails here


Bud...you're in Pakistan.....it's fairly clear, you want the hot chics (Pamela, for instance), you have to come to the country which pays all your fucking bills.

(That'd be the U.S. of A).

Step up....this is where they all are.

Come join the party.

We have paved roads here and everything....7-11's (run by most of your relatives) open every night.



The "run by most of your relatives" line had Me dyin' laughing!

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RE: online mistress....who does not require tribute - 3/28/2012 7:30:41 PM   
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ORIGINAL: LookieNoNookie


quote:

ORIGINAL: hammer91

can i ever find a online mistress who does not require tribute because i can not send any as i am 20 and student i live in pakistan and dont have any cards to pay...so please can some one refer me to some mistress i want to follow the life style as i can not here because no such life style prevails here


Bud...you're in Pakistan.....it's fairly clear, you want the hot chics (Pamela, for instance), you have to come to the country which pays all your fucking bills.

(That'd be the U.S. of A).

Step up....this is where they all are.

Come join the party.

We have paved roads here and everything....7-11's (run by most of your relatives) open every night.


Hey now, Nook...while what the OP seeks is dang near impossible to find in the western world because we can't be bothered unless there's something in it for us, at least we have a choice to participate if we want to. How many Middle Eastern women would risk it? Even in this day and age...according to my Lebanese friend...none. Like it or not, it's still culturally unacceptable (for women...as we can see the OP feels no need to abstain.)

OP, if it makes you feel any better...you wouldn't be having much better luck over on this side of the world. Catering to some anonymous guy's online wankfest is boring and tedious, which is why most women charge no matter what country they're in. Save up your spare pk rupees and treat yourself to a paid session when you have enough.

Better yet, do what you can to relocate the rest of your education to a more kink-friendly nation where you can get to know lifestyle women in person. You'll still have to be a great guy and treat them like women first and not fetish delivery systems. That means friendship, dates, actually making yourself useful. The only shortcut for that is...money, but you already figured that out. Again, I wish you good luck and enjoy the journey.


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RE: online mistress....who does not require tribute - 3/31/2012 12:08:35 AM   
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I would suggest that you find a real life female (instead of the CollarMe DommeBots) that enjoys what you do. In real life people don't charge money for mutually enjoyable experiences. Nor do all women expect the guy to pick up the tab for dinner, entertainment etc. I'm not implying that you have to form an official relationship but we do often prefer something more than just the immediate sexual aspect from the word "Go". Also consider FetLife (website) that is generally less racist and hate filled to newbies. Good luck.

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RE: online mistress....who does not require tribute - 4/7/2012 8:02:47 PM   
Zensualista


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ORIGINAL: LoreBook

I suspect that online Mistresses demand tribute because they have to get something out of the arrangement.


Spot on.

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RE: online mistress....who does not require tribute - 4/7/2012 8:06:03 PM   
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RE: online mistress....who does not require tribute - 4/7/2012 8:23:04 PM   
LittleOdessa


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ORIGINAL: LoreBook

I suspect that online Mistresses demand tribute because they have to get something out of the arrangement.


I do not understand this. If you are wanting to be a Mistress online, it seems that (outside doing it for the money and not truly because you are into the lifestyle) that there would be enjoyment on your end from just being able to be a Mistress over someone. Online or not. In my experience a Dom/me does not acquire their position just for the possible benefits. They do it because they enjoy it, not just because someone is serving them or handing over their money to them. Or perhaps I have been lucky to be with those who did enjoy their position and weren't just looking for money or a servant.

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RE: online mistress....who does not require tribute - 4/7/2012 8:57:03 PM   
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ORIGINAL: Moonhead


quote:

ORIGINAL: LoreBook

I suspect that online Mistresses demand tribute because they have to get something out of the arrangement.

Or because having somebody send money to a post office box is a lot easier than actually topping them...


True, but why spend time with a complete stranger on the internet, helping him to get his rocks off? Unless that is a fetish for a woman, it's actually a rather submissive act. You know if you ask me if I want to play a game of pretend with some stranger online or take a walk with my dogs, hit the gym, etc. - you can guess what my answer will be. In person you have a relationship, online you usually just play wank fodder for a guy, nothing wrong with that if both are into it, or if the woman wants to be compensated for the time and effort. It's not like the guy is actually doing something for her.

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RE: online mistress....who does not require tribute - 4/7/2012 9:15:10 PM   
MistressDarkArt


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ORIGINAL: LittleOdessa


quote:

ORIGINAL: LoreBook

I suspect that online Mistresses demand tribute because they have to get something out of the arrangement.


I do not understand this. If you are wanting to be a Mistress online, it seems that (outside doing it for the money and not truly because you are into the lifestyle) that there would be enjoyment on your end from just being able to be a Mistress over someone. Online or not. In my experience a Dom/me does not acquire their position just for the possible benefits. They do it because they enjoy it, not just because someone is serving them or handing over their money to them. Or perhaps I have been lucky to be with those who did enjoy their position and weren't just looking for money or a servant.


Are you naive or just missing the point? Unless in an already-established RT relationship with someone and using online to substitute during the times there is no other choice, the majority of women DO NOT ENJOY being a fetish delivery system for some random online wanker. Lifestyle or not. That is why there is a MARKET for online-only pro-dommes. It feels like fecking WORK to do this, so I say they're worth their salt. And with at least a 10:1 ratio of sub men to dominant women...well, go do the math.

Online-only is a business...Fantasy Island for horny wanker dudes. I'm sure even Ricardo Montalban and Tattoo's 'guests' had to pay...and HNGs with nothing worthwhile to offer will too.

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RE: online mistress....who does not require tribute - 4/7/2012 9:24:18 PM   
LadyConstanze


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Status: offline 		LOL, I couldn't agree more, a woman wanting to be a Mistress just has to show up anywhere, she can say she is not experienced, guys will show her and teach her, simply because there is a shortage of women in BDSM, in RL she gets something out of it, online? Yeah, that's like thinking phone sex workers should be glad that they can talk sex with a perfect stranger and fulfill the fantasies of some sweaty, obese guy - how dare they charge for their time and effort....

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