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Norm5000 -> Poll for the fetish Dommes (3/26/2012 12:17:46 PM)

This may belong in the apparel section, but I just thought it would get more attention here.

This is a question for only for Dommes who are into fetish. Preferrably the ones who are obsessed with it. I am shopping for a new outfit. I am curious, what is your favorite fetish attire to see a sub in at a public event? Please note not necessarily an outfit you would play in, but something more worn to a public venue. I am looking for feedback for anything from a certain piece, to a certain style, to a whole outfit.
I think I already know the style I want for my next outfit, but I am just curious. Any feedback is appreciated.




PeonForHer -> RE: Poll for the fetish Dommes (3/26/2012 12:33:32 PM)

I've got to say, that is one spectacular outfit, Norm!





Madame4a -> RE: Poll for the fetish Dommes (3/26/2012 12:46:34 PM)

I could be wrong here, but I think you're going to find that 'true' fetish is more likely to come from your side -- I have the feeling there are not too many women with real fetish for certain types of dress.

I have things I love and things I love to see my darling boi in... but I have no interest in someone else's idea of fetish or some kind of display outfit.. if anyone should be dressed for display.. its ME! [:D]

beyond that, I'd prefer my boi complement me and be comfortable, neat.. and hot.. but she's always hot




Norm5000 -> RE: Poll for the fetish Dommes (3/26/2012 12:59:01 PM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: Madame4a


I have things I love and things I love to see my darling boi in... but I have no interest in someone else's idea of fetish or some kind of display outfit.. if anyone should be dressed for display.. its ME! [:D]

beyond that, I'd prefer my boi complement me and be comfortable, neat.. and hot.. but she's always hot


FWIW, I agree 100%, every word you just said. However, I am not with anyone at the moment. I do know there are some Dommes who have opinions on this.




VioletViolence -> RE: Poll for the fetish Dommes (3/26/2012 1:24:24 PM)


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ORIGINAL: Norm5000
I do know there are some Dommes who have opinions on this.


"Opinions" sure...but you said you were looking for Dommes with fetishes, to which Madame4a correctly pointed out that the vast majority of women do not have fetishes (in the strict dictionary definition of the term). Lots of women will have preferences as to what they like to see people wearing, but I'm not sure that describing it as a "fetish" is the right way to go. Personally, when it comes to fet wear I like chest harnesses with cute undies, leather pants, uniforms and chaps. Lots of the elaborate pieces or costumes I'll find impressive, but rarely are they a turn on.




kalikshama -> RE: Poll for the fetish Dommes (3/26/2012 2:56:27 PM)

Santa hat

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TNDommeK -> RE: Poll for the fetish Dommes (3/26/2012 5:52:39 PM)

Good one!




MissImmortalPain -> RE: Poll for the fetish Dommes (3/26/2012 6:48:53 PM)

Depends on the kind of "event"




AAkasha -> RE: Poll for the fetish Dommes (3/26/2012 7:06:56 PM)


I rarely go to any public events, but I do have desires sometimes for a reason (celebration, "execution," punishment day, or, hell, just "saturday") to have a man in fetishy type clothing.

I've found that like most of my fetishes, I don't have a general "desire" all the time, but get focused on something I want to enact then spend days, weeks or months fantasizing about it. It's been everything from the simplicity of a skin tight latex type brief to a wet suit to leather straitjacket, just whatever seems to be dominating my thoughts.

Akasha




PrincessDonna11 -> RE: Poll for the fetish Dommes (3/26/2012 8:07:29 PM)

And thats just what THAT costume is for maybe the erotic ball or a costume perade but its nothing I want to deal with on a day to day basis which is why your messeging me didnt go far




Norm5000 -> RE: Poll for the fetish Dommes (3/26/2012 10:38:10 PM)


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ORIGINAL: PrincessDonna11

And thats just what THAT costume is for maybe the erotic ball or a costume perade but its nothing I want to deal with on a day to day basis which is why your messeging me didnt go far

1) I have never mesaged you. If I had, it would have been an accident. However I checked my sent history twice, I have not messaged you.
2) In regards to your your most recent journal post. You know, the one where you are complaining/advising people about reading people's profiles, and paying attention to what they are saying. No time like the present to practice what you preach, so why not apply that philosophy here. Your response has absolutely nothing to do with the question I asked.




ProlificNeeds -> RE: Poll for the fetish Dommes (3/27/2012 4:20:19 AM)

I wouldn't consider it a fetish, but it's close, I ADORE cos-play especially when it comes to kink. Comes from my LARP roots I suspect.
The entire latex suit is always a favorite, zipped and belted to the nines so that not an inch of skin is permitted, but that can get very uncomfortable very fast. For kink friendly affairs, masks, gloves, and as much leather or latex as can be worn comfortably for the duration, again the idea of keeping the body covered and restricted. Masks and gloves in any outfit really just because no one ever wears them around me so I find them different and appealing.

For non-kinky affairs... that varies a lot depending on the particular setting or occasion. Usually something sharp and modern, but less than common place.

The full horse costume gets a big thumbs up.




SassyBird -> RE: Poll for the fetish Dommes (3/27/2012 4:29:20 AM)


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ORIGINAL: Norm5000
You know, the one where you are complaining/advising people about reading people's profiles, and paying attention to what they are saying. No time like the present to practice what you preach, so why not apply that philosophy here. Your response has absolutely nothing to do with the question I asked.


When you ask for advice on a public forum you can't decide what people are allowed to write. How about you take what you dont like with a pinch of salt. Any negativity you spew out is reflecting poorly only on you, and will make other potential posters hostile and less cooperative.

As for me, I dont really have a fetish for items, but the emotions around them. I prefer to feel lycra or pvc against my skin, and I prefer to see and smell leather on my partner when we visit fetish events.




QueenRah -> RE: Poll for the fetish Dommes (3/27/2012 8:37:09 AM)

Princess Donna,

Did you get norm's "Do you like my profile?" email, with pic of him in his latex pony outfit? No. I *didn't* get that one, either. nope. not me. It would have made him seem like he was all about himself and his kink and that just wouldn't be something a good subbie, like norm, would do, now, would it?

FYI, normish, you aren't going to get many positive responses to your questions, if youcontinue to write leading questions that are clearly all about you. Many will just roll their eyes and move on. Some, like yours trooly, will do what they can to reeducate you. This is the "Ask a Mistress" forum. It implies that if you have *legitimate* questions and concerns, you are seeking thoughts and opinions that inform you, and you will take all into consideration, not just the ones that appear to agree with you and feed your kink, in your quest for enrichment.

It is not the "Ask a Mistress a Leading Question That Displays Your Kink, Expecting Respondants to Feed Your PrOn Fantasies" Forum. There are guidelines, kindly provided at the very first page of this forum, for all to follow. There are FAQs, especially for subs to read and apply. If they don't adhere to the guidelines, or even attempt a passing glimpse at them, the Ladies here are going to call them on it. Oddly enough (ironic statement alert!) female subs are rarely, if ever, the violators of common decorum. There are a few regular sub male posters from whom you could learn a great deal, if you'd just get out of your own arse and pay attention. There are even a few Dominant males who post intelligent and beneficial responses from whom you could learn decorum, at least.

But, it's obviously all about you. So, clearly, I'm just wasting my energy, with you. I felt this had to be said, anyway.





Rochsub2009 -> RE: Poll for the fetish Dommes (3/27/2012 10:17:37 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: PrincessDonna11

but its nothing I want to deal with on a day to day basis which is why your messeging me didnt go far


PrincessDonna,
I don't mean to start trouble, but I must say that the portion that I bolded left me feeling a bit uncomfortable. IMO, interactions between two individuals on the other side should remain between those individuals. They're private communications. So it seems unfair to come into a public forum and announce what/how someone wrote to you in private.

I've seen entire threads written about bad messaging practices on the other side. But the threads are usually careful to not identify who the offending parties are. So specifically naming Norm as the offending party and publicly announcing what he did just seems to be bad form to me. It may not be a grievous crime, or even a violation of the TOS. But it's definitely bad form.

Please don't view this as a personal attack. You know that I have nothing against you. But I'm just thinking about how I would feel if someone came to the forum and shared a private communication that I had sent them on the other side.

BTW, if the shoe had been reversed, I would be writing to Norm on your behalf.

Edit: I just saw QueenRah's comment. IMO, that's also bad form. And she knows that this is not a personal attack. I like QueenRah. But I don't want her telling everyone about all of the dick pics that I send her on the other side. [:D]




ProlificNeeds -> RE: Poll for the fetish Dommes (3/27/2012 10:36:36 AM)

FR~

Not sure why certain people are snippy, thought it was a good topic, I LOVE kinky dress-up!


Agree with Roch, what happens on the otherside should stay there unless all parties agree to bring a private communication over here for discussion.




PeonForHer -> RE: Poll for the fetish Dommes (3/27/2012 5:22:57 PM)

FR

Norm - I've just read your profile. I found it funny. But please bear in mind that a lot of femdoms won't get it and won't be able to see the humour in it.




LadyHibiscus -> RE: Poll for the fetish Dommes (3/27/2012 6:10:47 PM)


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ORIGINAL: PeonForHer

FR

Norm - I've just read your profile. I found it funny. But please bear in mind that a lot of femdoms won't get it and won't be able to see the humour in it.



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NiceButMeanGirl -> RE: Poll for the fetish Dommes (3/27/2012 8:18:50 PM)

Actually, I thought the profile was funny. lol

To answer the question.....I guess I don't always like a sub in fetishy stuff. If I had a sub at this moment in time, I would like to have him either wear a nice shirt and pants and some yummy-smelling stuff or....something leather or....a leather collar and leash....and always some kind of yummy-smelling stuff.

But I have to say here that another Domme I know has a sub who's a total & absolute fashion plate. He wears the coolest pants and then leather on the top and finishes it off with killer rockin' women's tall heels. He and his Mistress are both shoe hounds and they look hot in them. She always dresses nice too.

NBMG




MsSylverdawn -> RE: Poll for the fetish Dommes (3/28/2012 7:06:43 AM)

I put the boy in bdus and a camo tee ..he looks great.. I love a good pair of worn so long they are soft jeans and a belt.. I suppose if he has the chest for it a harnes.. oh yeah and nipple rings with lil chain running btwn them and one that runs down to a cock ring...




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