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how many have found sub/ slave through this site?


one or more?
  33% (9)
three or more
  29% (8)
2 who are still part of your life?
  14% (4)
just looking?
  18% (5)
believe everyone on here to strange for your kink?
  3% (1)


Total Votes : 27
(last vote on : 10/8/2012 5:26:08 PM)
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DMSFsdg53 -> how many have found sub/ slave through this site? (3/27/2012 3:06:29 PM)

how many have found sub/slave through this site?




myotherself -> RE: how many have found sub/ slave through this site? (3/27/2012 3:09:00 PM)

Master found me on cm




LadyHibiscus -> RE: how many have found sub/ slave through this site? (3/27/2012 3:17:35 PM)

I've found several here. Still friends with them, though we no longer have a D/s relationship.




lizi -> RE: how many have found sub/ slave through this site? (3/27/2012 4:05:59 PM)

My Dominant found me here.

OP, you may be having some difficulty because you're looking for a unique type of submissive. You want a submissive to be with you and your transitioning M to F partner, who will also be 24/7, and help your partner take care of her ailing parent. You also would like it if your 'girls' became pregnant so you and your partner can grandparent. This seems like a pretty rare person. To be honest, from your profile date, it seems to be a rather short period of time that you've been looking, only 4 months, to find such a unique submissive.




DarkSteven -> RE: how many have found sub/ slave through this site? (3/27/2012 5:08:41 PM)

Depends what you mean. I have found:

Two women who relocated here to be my sub. One has moved on and is a friend. Another is involved but more as a daughter than a sub.

A play partner that is just a friend now.

Several friends that could have become more had the stars aligned a bit differently.

Some friends that have never been viewed as more than friends.





Hillwilliam -> RE: how many have found sub/ slave through this site? (3/27/2012 5:15:22 PM)

I've met a couple of local friends and one local client (I'm a real estate broker).




ladynlord -> RE: how many have found sub/ slave through this site? (3/27/2012 5:15:38 PM)

Two actually. Still friends with both, but not in a D/s sense or relationship anymore. Although vanilla life called them away all too soon, such is life.




SubvsSlave -> RE: how many have found sub/ slave through this site? (3/27/2012 6:04:33 PM)

Master and I found each other on CM.




poise -> RE: how many have found sub/ slave through this site? (3/27/2012 6:22:27 PM)

I'm not using the site to search for a partner, but if I were, there are
several here on the forum side that would easily have my interest.
So I clicked one or more. [:D]

I think the key is interaction without expectation. It's really hard to get a good
feel for someone based on what they have written in their profile alone.
And then, as the lovely lizi pointed out, you're looking for a very rare person,
so getting, and holding, someone's interest may take alot more than just profile text.




OsideGirl -> RE: how many have found sub/ slave through this site? (3/28/2012 2:43:55 PM)

Master and I met long before CM even existed. But, I have met friends from here.

There's no option for not looking on the poll.




littlewonder -> RE: how many have found sub/ slave through this site? (3/28/2012 2:53:33 PM)

Master found me here about 7 years ago and we've been together about 5 now.




BurntKitty -> RE: how many have found sub/ slave through this site? (3/28/2012 3:03:56 PM)

None of the above. Although as poise said, if I was using this site for a partner there are definitely a few I'd be smitten with.

I found my sadistic partner on Bondage.Com. We bantered there in the Sports forum where I'm a mod. Who knew that the Jets' & Da Bears' fans could get along.




CalifChick -> RE: how many have found sub/ slave through this site? (3/28/2012 3:06:11 PM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: lizi

My Dominant found me here.

OP, you may be having some difficulty because you're looking for a unique type of submissive. You want a submissive to be with you and your transitioning M to F partner, who will also be 24/7, and help your partner take care of her ailing parent. You also would like it if your 'girls' became pregnant so you and your partner can grandparent. This seems like a pretty rare person. To be honest, from your profile date, it seems to be a rather short period of time that you've been looking, only 4 months, to find such a unique submissive.


This. Your question should really be: who has found a submissive who will be... with you and your transitioning M to F partner, who will also be 24/7, and help your partner take care of her ailing parent, and who will became pregnant so you and your partner can grandparent.

The answer to THAT question will give you a more accurate picture of what you're up against.

Cali




peppermint -> RE: how many have found sub/ slave through this site? (3/28/2012 3:07:51 PM)

I found the first Dom I ever played with here.  We're still best friends.  I have friends who found their Doms or subs here.  So, that leaves me checking the 3 or more box.  Wish you had a 10 or more option. 

After reading your profile I have to agree with lizi.  You are basically looking for a needle in the haystack, not impossible, but very very difficult to find.  It's not terribly surprising that you can't find the person you seek.  However, that does not mean no one here finds that special someone.  All you have to do is read in the Positive Experiences forum to find all the happy stories of people finding a connection. 




ResidentSadist -> RE: how many have found sub/ slave through this site? (3/28/2012 4:07:08 PM)

1 living with me now and a handful of exes.




r1a2y3m4o5n6d7 -> RE: how many have found sub/ slave through this site? (3/29/2012 9:36:04 AM)

I found Dark Steven on here. Ok he is not my master and never will be.




kalikshama -> RE: how many have found sub/ slave through this site? (3/29/2012 11:02:59 AM)

I found 3+ play partners here.

M is active on Fet, not here. We met on OKCupid.




kalikshama -> RE: how many have found sub/ slave through this site? (3/29/2012 11:23:56 AM)

OP, your profile is mostly about what you want. I suggest you add more about what you offer. And add paragraphs.












MistressDarkArt -> RE: how many have found sub/ slave through this site? (3/29/2012 12:13:04 PM)

I've had significant partnerships with 3 sub men from here, and met many more friends including doms, subs and switches. The reason CM has worked well for me is the people I've connected with are well-adjusted, mature, have reasonable expectations and are willing to share much more of themselves than just kinky play.




fluffypet67 -> RE: how many have found sub/ slave through this site? (3/29/2012 1:06:11 PM)

Master found me here.  We have known each other for 3 years and now live together 24/7.




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