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I'm confused - 3/30/2012 4:55:27 PM

Miroslaven

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I don't quite understand. I'm a 20 year old sub, and i had a dom email me and right off the bat wanted to webcam. I'm not comfortable with that, and he told me that because of the pics posted on my profile he was going to report me for posting pics of minors, if i didn't give him my yahoo name and show him my webcam to prove i'm a girl and over the age of 18. And supposedly he has already reported me and posted the emails. Not quiite sure what to do. Has anyone else had problems with people like these? if you did could you tell me how to handle this? is this just a bitter Dom that i shouldn't worry about?

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RE: I'm confused - 3/30/2012 5:03:09 PM

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First off you really should not post naked pics as your primary photo. I believes its a TOS violation.

That being said tell the idiot to buzz off. CM moderators will send you an email with a GOLD border if there is a problem. If you are not a minor, then there is no problem. The only person he can report you to is the CM moderators.

Just because you are a submissive does not mean you have to submit to any Dom! Tell him to go pound salt.

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RE: I'm confused - 3/30/2012 5:07:03 PM

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Don't worry about it. It's a very common scam and his goal is to see naked women and that's about it. He can try reporting you, but it takes multiple reports for anything to happen as it's an automated system. Him saying he's posting emails to whoever is just BS, there isn't anyone to post them to really that'll give a rip about a consenting adult unless the emails are about underage activity.

Just an FYI, your avatar here and main picture on your profile shows explicit nudity which isn't allowed according to the TOS that you agreed to when you opened your profile. You can keep the picture, it just can't be your main profile pic. You can specify one of the others on your profile instead, which I think look nicer anyway

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RE: I'm confused - 3/30/2012 5:08:57 PM

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Don't worry about it. It's a very common scam and his goal is to see naked women and that's about it.

Yup! He's just a wanker with no power. Matter of fact, I think you report the emails he sent you.

< Message edited by OsideGirl -- 3/30/2012 5:09:36 PM >

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RE: I'm confused - 3/30/2012 5:29:40 PM

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This has happened a few times myself. I have the proper documents to prove I am of legal age if totally needed by the owners of the site.

I just ignore them.

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RE: I'm confused - 3/30/2012 5:37:31 PM

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You also might get the email from some dude who says he has heard you are a man and that Collarme is investigating. They all just want you to put on a cam show for them. They figure you are young and stupid and they just might get their rocks off at your expense.

By the way....next time you take a picture in a mirror, look around the room and clean it up first. It will only take a minute and your picture will be so much nicer.

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RE: I'm confused - 3/30/2012 5:39:59 PM

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As others have said, it's a "scam" (using the term loosely).

As far as the TOS violation, since you aren't showing genitalia in your primary, I'm not sure it can be called "explicit" but I think this one is a much nicer one for your main profile photo. You can really see your beautiful face without looking like you are trying to hide your body.

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RE: I'm confused - 3/30/2012 5:52:23 PM

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I'm a three legged leprechaun skiing down the rainbow to my pot of gold!

(My point being that anybody can say they are anything on the internet...)

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RE: I'm confused - 3/30/2012 6:07:35 PM

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" but I think this one is a much nicer one for your main profile photo. You can really see your beautiful face without looking like you are trying to hide your body.

I agree 100%. That is a REALLY nice pic and you should consider using it for your main.

That said, welcome and ignore the fucktard wankers.

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RE: I'm confused - 3/30/2012 6:17:37 PM

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ORIGINAL: searching4mysir

" but I think this one is a much nicer one for your main profile photo. You can really see your beautiful face without looking like you are trying to hide your body.

I agree 100%. That is a REALLY nice pic and you should consider using it for your main.

That said, welcome and ignore the fucktard wankers.

Another agree, welcome, ignore!

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