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AAkasha -> RE: strap-on play (4/9/2012 5:57:31 PM)
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For me, it's all about the reaction from the man.
As far back as being a teenager, I used to "roleplay" fucking a man in the ass, long before I knew it was possible with the right equipment. I was a virgin in all sense of the word anyway. I just thought it was exciting to have a man face down or on all fours while I pressed my pelvis and hips up against his butt or rubbed against him. The pressure against my crotch felt good. Who knows, maybe the repetitive games at an early age combined with the sexual stimulation through my jeans created a bit of a fetish.
Nowadays it's about the reaction as I said; fear, trembling, resistance, the need for a man to relax. Bodily reaction, inability to control, his desperation. I like things that impact breathing. I like things that make a man aroused despite his humiliation. Strap on sex is almost more fun these days when it's oral rather than anal, but I suspect it's just my 'fancy' lately, I go through phases.
I can cum from stimulation against my crotch if I am already turned on enough, or any added "boost" I need can just be a little bit of nipple play, so it's pretty easy to get off from strap on play. I don't care for double sided dildos as I find them clunky and distracting. My style is too rigorous and unpredictable.
Like all kinds of BDSM play, you will find that ALL women have their own likes and dislikes, but I imagine for most, at the core, it comes down to something intimate, emotional or sensual and based on connection with the partner, rather than just arbitrary and based on the act.
Akasha
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