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SurrenderForMe -> RE: "proper protocol" in approaching a dominant (4/10/2012 9:06:34 AM)
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If someone demands that you ask permission in order to write to them, then honor their rules if you choose to contact them. That is the only valid reason I can see for asking permission, courtesy (respecting a limit listed in a profile). After that, aside from 'I read your profile' and your list of kinks, tell them what about their profile matches up to you and some mainstream information to show you are well rounded. If there are incompatibilities that you believe may or will not hinder a potential connection, address them.
If someone does not demand that you ask permission, don't ask permission. I am in this latter category. When someone contacts me and asks permission, it is an indication to me that they are unthinking, role playing and lazy. I didn't ask for the play acting, that is all it can be when contacting a complete stranger. If I want an ego boost, I will do something to earn it. I don't want what someone else told you to do. I don't want the person who will submit to anyone and obeying a stranger when contacting me, is just that. After that, I look for the basics; aside from 'I read your profile' and your list of kinks, tell them what about their profile matches up to you and some mainstream information to show you are well rounded. If there are incompatibilities that you believe may not or will not hinder a potential connection, address them.
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