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Finding a Mistress - 4/1/2012 5:56:44 AM

tex1kirk

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I'm a 55 year old man. I know that there has to be a Mistress that wants a relationship as I do. I try finding someone on the web on many sites. The only Mistresses I find want money. Most sites want money also and no matter where I have lived they find women out of my area. I can't beleave there are only 4-5 women in the Greenville,SC. area are justinto this life style. And I can beleave why they want money to pay for their playroom. I just want a regular woman that likes being a Mistress and have a relationship. Where and how can I find them?

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RE: Finding a Mistress - 4/1/2012 6:03:16 AM

SadisticMs2

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Google "BDSM munch South Carolina" and go to some of your local BDSM groups.

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RE: Finding a Mistress - 4/1/2012 6:14:35 AM

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South Carolina

• ChaSM – This is a pan-sexual organization of adults, over the age of 21, living in or near Charleston, South Carolina, or visiting Charleston on a regular basis, or having direct and continuing ties to the Charleston alternative lifestyle community.
We are real people, and our members come from all walks of life. Some folks are Dominant, some are submissive, some like to switch between the two, and some haven’t made up their minds yet. We range in experience from the frightened person who is meeting like-minded folks for the first time (yes, we were all scared the first time!!) to people with 30+ years experience in the Lifestyle. What we all have in common is an interest in some aspect of the big, wide world of B.D.S.M.

• K.E.Y. SC – KEY is centered in Greenville, SC, but we encourage membership from all areas and for our members to attend functions held by their local groups.
KEY is not a dating service or a swingers group. Trolling is not permitted, but we encourage our members to form friendships with those they meet at our real time events.

• Lowcountry Power Exchange (L.P.E.) – The Lowcounty Power Exchange – L_P_E, a pan-sexual organization of adults, over the age of 21, living in or near Charleston, South Carolina, or visiting Charleston on a regular basis, or having direct and continuing ties to the Charleston alternative lifestyle/kink community. Those between the ages of 18 and 21 may be admitted on a case-by-case basis.

• T3WD – T3WD (This Thing That We Do) is a pansexual B.D.S.M. group based in Columbia, South Carolina. This group was formed to provide education, support, and a safe social venue for people in this area who are living or interested in learning more about the B.D.S.M., Leather, or other alternative lifestyles.

• MaST (Greenville Chapter) – MAsT: Greenville is a pansexual support and discussion group for those interested in Master-Mistress/slave or Dominant/submissive relationships. Persons of any gender or sexual orientation are welcome.

that took me two seconds to find

Sign up for fetlife.com and look for groups in your area...

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RE: Finding a Mistress - 4/1/2012 6:48:35 AM

Baroana

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quote:

ORIGINAL: tex1kirk

I'm a 55 year old man. I know that there has to be a Mistress that wants a relationship as I do. I try finding someone on the web on many sites. The only Mistresses I find want money. Most sites want money also and no matter where I have lived they find women out of my area. I can't beleave there are only 4-5 women in the Greenville,SC. area are justinto this life style. And I can beleave why they want money to pay for their playroom. I just want a regular woman that likes being a Mistress and have a relationship. Where and how can I find them?

A word to the wise: I also suggest making adjustments to your attitudes, expectations, spelling, and syntax. Your signature line speaks volumes.

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RE: Finding a Mistress - 4/1/2012 9:54:57 AM

LadyPact

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Along with the info that Sylverdawn provided, I'm going to give My personal pitch for the Meet in the Middle munch that's held in Greenville, SC. It's been a few years since I've been there, but the times that we went, there were always friendly people. The only person who will ask for your money there will be the waitress when you pay your check. I'm pretty sure that they still hold it at that steak house that's right off of the highway. The name of the place is escaping Me at the moment, but it's that joint where they have the peanuts in buckets on the table and encourage you to throw the shells on the floor.

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RE: Finding a Mistress - 4/1/2012 10:50:45 AM

RealLady

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Your profile doesn't give the impression of wanting a relationship at all.
How about writing a little about you, the person, and not just what you want a woman to do to you?

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RE: Finding a Mistress - 4/1/2012 10:58:17 AM

Baroana

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He's just looking for a "large" insta-domme to fall into his lap. Don't waste your time trying to help him. He hasn't even had the courtesy to thank you all for your suggestions.

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RE: Finding a Mistress - 4/1/2012 11:01:16 AM

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I'd have to agree with RealLady, I don't' get in any way that you would like a relationship. Reading your profile seems like you'd like someone who will do what you want for the moment. Nothing wrong with that, if that's not what you're looking for then you might want to switch things up. The suggestions for real life events were great, you'll probably have better luck at those.

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RE: Finding a Mistress - 4/1/2012 11:27:38 AM

tex1kirk

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Thank you for your help.

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RE: Finding a Mistress - 4/1/2012 11:28:57 AM

tex1kirk

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Thank you.

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RE: Finding a Mistress - 4/1/2012 11:30:30 AM

tex1kirk

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Thank you. Fetlife looks like a good site.

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RE: Finding a Mistress - 4/1/2012 11:33:00 AM

tex1kirk

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Thank you. I would like to try this place. Would the place be called Roadhouse or Lone Stars. I'm not sure.

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RE: Finding a Mistress - 4/1/2012 11:37:24 AM

tex1kirk

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I will look at my profile and adjust it. Thank you. I have not looked at it for awhile.

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RE: Finding a Mistress - 4/1/2012 11:38:36 AM

tex1kirk

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Thank You!

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RE: Finding a Mistress - 4/1/2012 11:49:38 AM

LadyPact

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quote:

ORIGINAL: tex1kirk

Thank you. I would like to try this place. Would the place be called Roadhouse or Lone Stars. I'm not sure.

If I recall correctly, it is called Roadhouse. It's the one on the southern side of the city and they have held the MitM munch there for years. The good part about it is that you will see folks there from the various groups that are listed above, and even once in a while, you'll get folks from as far away as Augusta (where I used to drive up from). I'd be more than happy to have a look in My email if you'd like. I'm still on the yahoo groups from the area.

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ORIGINAL: Baroana

He's just looking for a "large" insta-domme to fall into his lap. Don't waste your time trying to help him. He hasn't even had the courtesy to thank you all for your suggestions.

While I agree with you on the common courtesy thing, which he has now corrected, I can not agree on the rest. Even if the advice should fall on deaf ears, it's always good to remember one of the greatest benefits of this site and that is the search feature! A month from now or even a year from now, somebody could type "Greenville SC" into that little search engine box and find the info that has been provided here. It's not always the current OP who has the question.

Plus, if the guy does have a 'do-me' profile, what better way to correct the misaligned thoughts than to get him out to mingle with the BDSM folks in person?

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Please do not send me email here. Unless I know you, I will delete the email unread

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RE: Finding a Mistress - 4/1/2012 9:11:52 PM

NiceButMeanGirl

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Tex,

I suggest filling out the essay portion on the right of your profile. The Interests list on the left is all fine and dandy, but that's rather generic. The right side is where you really put your personality into it. You know, what makes you....you.

Give the reader a feel for your personality and who you really are. Let her know what you are willing to offer a Domme, what you want from her, and what you want from a dynamic/situation.

Checking the spelling and punctuation is good too.

NBMG

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