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Mistress Session Ideas - 4/3/2012 1:53:42 PM

Hatter1000000

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I'm looking to a paid for webcam session next week with a mistress that I know.

I want to push things and feel owned and scared during the session.

As I'm paying - I want to give mistress 5 or 6 scenarios to choose from and then submit compltely to the one that she chooses and only be able to stop on codeword.

I need some more ideas though - still have a little time to shop if needed.

Was thinking:
fisting
two toys in ass
inflatable plug - whatever she wants to do with it!

Need some other ideas. Have dildos, plug, candles, paddle, pegs, cane

Can anyone help?

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RE: Mistress Session Ideas - 4/3/2012 2:02:20 PM

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What do YOU like?

What turns you on when you read about/watch the types of scenes you seek?

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RE: Mistress Session Ideas - 4/3/2012 2:06:26 PM

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Nothing says owned like two toys in the ass, eh?

I have no idea what scares you or makes you feel owned, other than what you've already mentioned.
Why not break out of your comfort zone and try the ass trick while sucking on the inflatable plug?

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RE: Mistress Session Ideas - 4/3/2012 2:48:08 PM

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If you're having a session with a Domme, why not look to her for ideas. If she's worth the money, she'll ask you questions about what you enjoy and then have ideas for a session.

If she's totally clueless about what to do, that may be a red flag.

But I'm curious. If you're going to pay for the session anyway, why do a webcam session? Why not pay for a live session with a local Domme so she can actually stick the butt plug up your ass? I've never understood the appeal of webcam sessions. You say you want to try fisting, but how does that work via webcam? Can you stick your own fist up your butt? You must be pretty flexible. Wouldn't it be better to meet her in real life so she can actually tie you up, spank you, f**k you with her strap-on, etc.?

BTW, I see a theme running through most of your ideas. You like having things shoved up your ass, eh?

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RE: Mistress Session Ideas - 4/3/2012 11:20:11 PM

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He could have one of those fisting toy arms strategically placed just so, that he can back up on it.

I agree with Rochsub as far as seeking a Pro. The online thing is more for other fetishes. However, one can partake in sticking things in them via online...its less messy for the Domme. ;)

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RE: Mistress Session Ideas - 4/4/2012 6:47:12 AM

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He could have one of those fisting toy arms strategically placed just so, that he can back up on it.

I agree with Rochsub as far as seeking a Pro. The online thing is more for other fetishes. However, one can partake in sticking things in them via online...its less messy for the Domme. ;)

I guess I just don't understand the on-line thing. Why stick things up his own butt, when he could have a Domme do it? I understand your point that it's less messy for the Domme, but it seems pretty silly to fist himself with his own fist. Isn't that just an extreme form of masturbation?

BTW, I guess it shows my limited (actually "non-existent") experience with fisting. I didn't even know that there was such a thing as a fisting toy arm.

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RE: Mistress Session Ideas - 4/4/2012 11:57:47 AM

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LOL the only reason I knew about the fisting arm thing is because I just recently saw it on a toy site, so I'm not too familiar with it either.

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RE: Mistress Session Ideas - 4/4/2012 1:46:43 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: poise

Nothing says owned like two toys in the ass, eh?

I have no idea what scares you or makes you feel owned, other than what you've already mentioned.
Why not break out of your comfort zone and try the ass trick while sucking on the inflatable plug?

Scared / Owned - just want to be totally obedient for that hour (or longer) having to follow orders completely - or face the music.

All of the things I've suggested are beyond my comfort zone - they would be firsts. I'm just trying to direct things a bit fr the session because I so many people are into feet or other things that just don't interest me

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RE: Mistress Session Ideas - 4/4/2012 1:49:50 PM

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Webcam means keeping my face covered up and staying anonymous. Would love to try real life - just not at the moment

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ORIGINAL: Rochsub2009

If you're having a session with a Domme, why not look to her for ideas. If she's worth the money, she'll ask you questions about what you enjoy and then have ideas for a session.

If she's totally clueless about what to do, that may be a red flag.

But I'm curious. If you're going to pay for the session anyway, why do a webcam session? Why not pay for a live session with a local Domme so she can actually stick the butt plug up your ass? I've never understood the appeal of webcam sessions. You say you want to try fisting, but how does that work via webcam? Can you stick your own fist up your butt? You must be pretty flexible. Wouldn't it be better to meet her in real life so she can actually tie you up, spank you, f**k you with her strap-on, etc.?

BTW, I see a theme running through most of your ideas. You like having things shoved up your ass, eh?

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RE: Mistress Session Ideas - 4/4/2012 3:24:38 PM

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Webcam means keeping my face covered up and staying anonymous. Would love to try real life - just not at the moment

Why is it necessary to cover your face? Unless you're a celebrity, the on-line Domme will have no idea who you are. Also, what do you think would happen if she did see your face?

Remember, she is likely as concerned about maintaining her privacy as you are. She may have school age children, a vanilla job, neighbors that don't know that she's a pro-Domme, etc.

I have seldom heard of a pro-Domme "outing" someone. After all, if she does this professionally, she has a lot to lose by violating someone's trust. Her entire business and reputation would be at risk.

Think about trying the real thing. I think you'll enjoy it much more than on-line. Moreover, I think some of your fears may be misplaced.

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RE: Mistress Session Ideas - 4/5/2012 2:19:27 PM

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How can you get scared while sitting in front of your computer ?

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RE: Mistress Session Ideas - 4/6/2012 9:48:28 AM

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