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feetsub30 -> Enquiry (4/4/2012 5:07:45 PM)
Hi all, I would like to ask you this.I have very strong foot fetish,but in a way I want to be dominated,to be at dominant woman's feet,to be her foot slave.The thing is,I am truly submissive only when it comes to that sort of domination.In any other way of domination I do not feel like a sub or atleast not in the same way.I can understand that most dominant woman does want true submissives,submissives by nature not just a foot slaves,but unfortunately this is how I feel.Does that makes me less submissive then the rest of the subs or this is something common,something not to worry about.It's really hard to find dominant woman only into foot domination.I would appreciate any advices and comments. Cheers

TNDommeK -> RE: Enquiry (4/4/2012 5:23:45 PM)
There is someone out there for everyone. I would suggest finding a Pro-Domme that is into foot worship.

LookieNoNookie -> RE: Enquiry (4/4/2012 7:18:25 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: feetsub30 Hi all, I would like to ask you this.I have very strong foot fetish,but in a way I want to be dominated,to be at dominant woman's feet,to be her foot slave.The thing is,I am truly submissive only when it comes to that sort of domination.In any other way of domination I do not feel like a sub or atleast not in the same way.I can understand that most dominant woman does want true submissives,submissives by nature not just a foot slaves,but unfortunately this is how I feel.Does that makes me less submissive then the rest of the subs or this is something common,something not to worry about.It's really hard to find dominant woman only into foot domination.I would appreciate any advices and comments. Cheers Did you have an actual question?

NiceButMeanGirl -> RE: Enquiry (4/4/2012 8:31:16 PM)
Just my opinion but, if you're just into feet and no other form of D/s, wouldn't that make you more of a foot fetishist than a submissive? Not that there's anything wrong with that. I know a really cool guy who's into feet. quote: ORIGINAL: LookieNoNookie Did you have an actual question? I think this..... quote: ORIGINAL: feetsub30 Does that makes me less submissive then the rest of the subs or this is something common,something not to worry about. ....was his actual question, but he forgot the question mark. NBMG

MistressDarkArt -> RE: Enquiry (4/4/2012 9:28:08 PM)
Sounds like you just have a foot fetish. Lucky for you, most women ('nilla and lifestyle) enjoy having their feet attended. Find a nice woman to date and give her all the foot rubs she wants. Door #2: pay a professional if your thing is ONLY about feet.

kitkat105 -> RE: Enquiry (4/4/2012 11:46:47 PM)
Thirding the foot fetish.

LadyConstanze -> RE: Enquiry (4/5/2012 12:28:20 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: MistressDarkArt Sounds like you just have a foot fetish. Lucky for you, most women ('nilla and lifestyle) enjoy having their feet attended. Find a nice woman to date and give her all the foot rubs she wants. Door #2: pay a professional if your thing is ONLY about feet. Pretty good idea, I would only add that he may want to splurge on some classes for reflexology and possibly do a pedicure class - having my feet attended usually doesn't mean that I enjoy somebody fumbling around, groping them, drooling saliva all over them and calling this "foot worship" - I may even venture the guess that most women, dominant, submissive, switch or vanilla feel the same way...

LadyPact -> RE: Enquiry (4/5/2012 1:12:48 AM)
Also chiming in with the foot fetishist opinion. In addition, if we're going with the actual definition of the word, a vanilla chick who likes her feet rubbed may not cut it. Depending on where you live, you might be able to find some parties that are specifically revolving around those who enjoy giving and receiving foot worship. Other than that, I would probably suggest the pro route. Most Dominant women aren't going to be happy that you are just into her feet.

Lucifyre -> RE: Enquiry (4/5/2012 7:02:42 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: feetsub30 Hi all, I would like to ask you this.I have very strong foot fetish,but in a way I want to be dominated,to be at dominant woman's feet,to be her foot slave.The thing is,I am truly submissive only when it comes to that sort of domination.In any other way of domination I do not feel like a sub or atleast not in the same way.I can understand that most dominant woman does want true submissives,submissives by nature not just a foot slaves,but unfortunately this is how I feel.Does that makes me less submissive then the rest of the subs or this is something common,something not to worry about.It's really hard to find dominant woman only into foot domination.I would appreciate any advices and comments. Cheers Your kink is your kink and no one gets to decide your degree of submissiveness but you. I agree with the other posters that you probably have more of a fetish than a submissive side. There is nothing at all wrong with that and you are no more or less normal (or abnormal) than the rest of us. Your kink is your kink and if you like to be foot focused but other things don't turn your crank, just make sure you make that clear when you negotiate your play time. Lucifyre

Rochsub2009 -> RE: Enquiry (4/5/2012 7:41:36 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: NiceButMeanGirl Just my opinion but, if you're just into feet and no other form of D/s, wouldn't that make you more of a foot fetishist than a submissive? That was my thought as well. OP, you've made it clear that you're into feet. But what makes you think that you're submissive? Wanting to worship someone's feet is not an inherently submissive act. It simply means that you like feet. IMO, if you're actually submissive, you'll get turned on by the idea of submitting in some other area. Liking feet and submitting aren't the same thing.

kalikshama -> RE: Enquiry (4/5/2012 8:25:47 AM)
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LadyHibiscus -> RE: Enquiry (4/5/2012 8:56:53 AM)
I am a member of an active foot group here in SE Michigan. Feet weren't my thing, but the hostess is dear to me, so I decided to broaden my horizons. At this point, the 100% total fetishists are not really participating any more because really? We are not that interested in having some dude slobber over our feet then ejaculate on them. The men that are not necessarily submissive, but are good at whatever they do, we're happy to see. Sadly, none of them are useful at things like pedicures and painting toenails [8\|] but we're working on that. It is OKAY to be a fetishist. Just remember that the feet you are into are attached to a PERSON, and she is not around to make you get your jollies. Learn some skills, and make sure you are pleasant to be around. Do NOT present yourself as submissive if you don't feel that you are. (we have several dominant men in the group, fetish and orientation are not necessarily related.) Have fun!

OttersSwim -> RE: Enquiry (4/5/2012 9:15:02 AM)
EXACTLY Lady H! I give manicures and pedicures - not because I am "in to feet" or hands, but because I am "in to making people feel good". It is not necessarily a submissive trait, though I do get my submissive cookie when I do it for My Lady and when I can do it for our Femdom friends because it is a skill I bring on Her behalf to others. [:)]

LadyHibiscus -> RE: Enquiry (4/5/2012 9:21:13 AM)
I think it's both funny and sad that the only people who do pedicures in the group are women!! Though who wants to suck on wet nail enamel, right? [:D]

Rochsub2009 -> RE: Enquiry (4/5/2012 12:37:10 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: LadyHibiscus We are not that interested in having some dude slobber over our feet then ejaculate on them. Darn! I was going to volunteer to do just that. I guess I'll take my slobber and cum somewhere else. [:D]

NiceButMeanGirl -> RE: Enquiry (4/5/2012 5:40:48 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Rochsub2009 quote: ORIGINAL: LadyHibiscus We are not that interested in having some dude slobber over our feet then ejaculate on them. Darn! I was going to volunteer to do just that. I guess I'll take my slobber and cum somewhere else. [:D] [sm=lol.gif]

LookieNoNookie -> RE: Enquiry (4/5/2012 8:38:44 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: NiceButMeanGirl Just my opinion but, if you're just into feet and no other form of D/s, wouldn't that make you more of a foot fetishist than a submissive? Not that there's anything wrong with that. I know a really cool guy who's into feet. quote: ORIGINAL: LookieNoNookie Did you have an actual question? I think this..... quote: ORIGINAL: feetsub30 Does that makes me less submissive then the rest of the subs or this is something common,something not to worry about. ....was his actual question, but he forgot the question mark. NBMG Normally, I blame myself....but this time I blame Hib.

kalikshama -> RE: Enquiry (4/6/2012 9:51:30 AM)
Don't be this guy: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8pAVcdZzv-Q

Rochsub2009 -> RE: Enquiry (4/6/2012 10:18:21 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: kalikshama Don't be this guy: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8pAVcdZzv-Q Great link! Very funny. [:D] It still amazes me how many guys don't realize that their inability to control their fetish makes them creepy social misfits.

DominaCeleste -> RE: Enquiry (4/11/2012 7:00:20 PM)
Aside from finding a Pro Domme, you might just want to look for an escort (much more common than a good Dominatrix) in your area and see if you can't work something out.

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