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Hello from a Switch in Oxfordshire, UK - 4/5/2012 6:18:04 PM

BDSMman52

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Hi,

I am new to this community, so here are a new details about myself that might be of interest to some of you BDSM enthusiasts:

I am in a satisfying long-term vanilla relationship, and enjoy superb sex with my partner; but I also enjoy BDSM, which she thinks is perverted & degrading, so I have to discretely practice self-bondage and visit Pro Dommes for my BDSM sessions.

I enjoy vanilla sex, but love BDSM even more, so my extra-marital interests are mainly BDSM, as a sub/dom/switch, with one/more women or mixed group.

I practice elaborate self-bondage at home, in hotels, and in secluded woodland whenever possible, and visit Pro Dommes for heavy BDSM sessions whenever I have the opportunity.

My favorite BDSM scenes involve some or all of the following: tight bondage (suspended, inverted, hogtied, tied to cross/bench, caged, etc); CBT; NT; electro-stim with PES penile/anal electrodes; gags, hoods, masks, blindfolds; leather/rubber suits/harnesses/body-bags; etc.

I am very kinky, often wearing a mixture of sexy women's lingerie (eg stockings, suspenders, thong, corset), rubber/leather garments, leather harnesses, rope bondage (Shibari), chastity & CBT devices, butt plugs, and vibrators under my outer clothing when in public.

My taboos are needles/piercings, activities that might put either party at risk from STDs, permanent marks/scars, and smoking. All equipment for insertion into any orifice must be sterile. All BDSM must be Safe, Sane and Consensual.

Outside of BDSM scenes my friends would say that I have an easy-going, slightly dominant personality, and very romantic.

Sensuality, like touching & massage, is as important as sex. Foreplay is very important, and I like to give & receive lots of foreplay before sex.

I would like to meet and make friends with like-minded BDSM enthusists for safe, sane, and consensual BDSM play, provided they can be discreet and fully respect limits. Extra-marital affairs do not interest me, due to my satisfying long-term relationship.

Looking forward to chatting with some of you soon,
regards,
BDSMman.

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RE: Hello from a Switch in Oxfordshire, UK - 4/6/2012 6:40:59 AM

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Welcome

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RE: Hello from a Switch in Oxfordshire, UK - 4/6/2012 8:30:49 AM

OohAahMrs

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Welcome BD, you mention Oxford, it reminds me of a fun weekend i had there, with a certain Mistress. Certainly, you must find more oppertunity down that way, it's always a lot more harsh up here. When they say;"it's grim up north!" It's true and for the right reasons.

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