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HisPet21 -> RE: new slave (4/7/2012 1:10:45 PM)
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It's an unfortunate reality that a lot of vanilla women, who think they can wring a living out of desperate male subs, set up shop here. But there are a plenty of professional, experienced pro-dommes and lifestyle dommes. It seems like you are looking for the latter. If so, you are going to have to work hard to get some interest.
The ratio of female lifestyle dominants to male submissive is HUGE. The dommes here can literally get any man they want, so to get a bite, you'll need to work on really fleshing yourself out as a person. Make sure your profile doesn't come off as just a list of kinks, or a complaint about all the "fakes," or as the musings of a desperate and horny male. Include information on your vanilla interests, kinky interests, your ideal dynamic, etc. Read a domme's profile before messaging her, and comment on something other than how "hot" she looks and how you'd love to have her "bash your balls in." Be polite, professional, and don't make her into your "insta-domme." There is nothing more off putting than a message that treats you like wank material, rather than a person. For example, don't say, "Good day, mistress! Would you like to see my penis. It is so small..."
Not that you'll do any of that; it's just some common mistakes new subs tend to make.
Welcome to CM! Post on the forums for a while, and you'll be able to flesh yourself out as a person even more!
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