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LafayetteLady -> RE: Question about 1st BDSM meetup? (4/7/2012 8:35:02 AM)
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ORIGINAL: Eccentric7
This is my 1st time being in the bdsm thing... My question is I have a guy the wants to make a deal that I can do anything I want to he's g/f hes ok with that. He will drop her off at the hotel and I can have my way.. both are consent to the idea, its his subs punishment. So I was wondering should I write up an NDA for the sub to have my way with her is the couples consent good enough for it??
Also If you have any other tips on being a good DOM (male) let me know plz
First, you do know that "NDA" stands for "Non Disclosure Agreement," right? What would make you think that someone signing an agreement that they wouldn't talk about having sex with you would mean a damn thing?
Second, the fact that you are a Marine means nothing, unless of course, someone chooses to file criminal assault charges and uses it to claim you are combat trained and therefore, anything you do is deadly force.
Third, on what planet would you believe it is safe to have sex with a girl who simply shows up at your hotel room? Do they still show that nifty little film in boot camp that talks about sexually transmitted diseases?
I get the whole "hotness" of the idea, I really do. I also get the concept of wanting to do something "wild" before you deploy. But you really should try to use some smarts in the whole thing. Meet the couple first, find out their sexual health history, get the FEMALE'S consent, because regardless of how we all play at owning or being owned, she is the only one who can consent.
And before you do this, think of every possible horror story you ever heard or conceived of. False rape accusations, being drugged and having your kidney stolen (a whole different type of robbery), being killed, etc. Then decide just how "wild" you need to get before you deploy.
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