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pghays04 -> RE: Moving on? (4/11/2012 5:32:09 PM)

Thanks WestBay, guess I don't watch enough TV.




JanahX -> RE: Moving on? (4/12/2012 10:25:26 AM)

fuck him - give yourself a few weeks. You'll realize he was a douchebag to begin with.
Works EVERY TIME.




babygirl4daddie -> RE: Moving on? (4/13/2012 4:50:27 PM)

sometimes you learn from experiences , and find what is important to you in the future. Look at this as growing pains....




JeffBC -> RE: Moving on? (4/13/2012 10:47:09 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: babygirl4daddie
sometimes you learn from experiences , and find what is important to you in the future. Look at this as growing pains....

my mentor used to say, "Experience is what you get when you didn't get what you wanted." It's kind of like the consolation prize of life.




sweetcreamsub -> RE: Moving on? (4/14/2012 9:38:30 AM)

Red Magic1--- Thank you for posting that video!! Greatness :)




blondesurfergirl -> RE: Moving on? (5/9/2012 7:17:33 AM)

Regardless of what everyone else says, you are feeling hurt. I am going to say, give it a few days, etc, to mourn, and then move on. Time will always heal. I am sure you learned a bit of a lesson here. Do whatever you need to do to forget. Get out in the world. It didn't sound to me like this guy deceived you , it sounds like you read much more into the relationship than was really there. Im sorry for your loss because it is what it is, your feelings are legitimate. And so we go on...




mons -> RE: Moving on? (5/9/2012 9:04:08 PM)

shyCheshire


I am so sorry you are hurting now! It is something that we as dominiates do now want to do!!!!!
Is is hard that power we have over people this is why when I do have someone I make sure it is the
right submissive for my taste and needs! I remember the first time I made someone heart break
I felt so bad, he thought I did it to hurt him!

Did he mention he would be doing this move at all or did
it just come up out of no where?

This is your first and he will be always the first to be the one whom awake and helped you open
up to your submissive needs, in time the pain will stop, and you will remember the good times you
both had shared! Take the time to rest , heal and then began again but do not jump in fast after you experince
this much hurt!

Asked as many questions as you need of the next Master! Take the time to know him firs,t never jump fast slow is better! It may seems as
if all Master, Mistress are not human as everyone else, we are as scared as you are too meet new submissive and yes we confindience but we also
want to meet someone good, and have times of pain as you did!

Head up and chin up, remember the good times take what you have learn, for now take time for you now
rest your heart, a broken heart no matter what realtionship it is it is still a broken heart, I wish you the best!




sexyred1 -> RE: Moving on? (5/9/2012 9:07:06 PM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: poise


Imagine the thought of never getting over him.
Which one will do you more harm?


Brilliant comment, as usual.




LadyConstanze -> RE: Moving on? (5/9/2012 10:08:06 PM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: Greta75

quote:

ORIGINAL: RedMagic1
quote:

ORIGINAL: Greta75
Possible to find me a youtube video somewhat in similar vein for someone like me who is having difficulty moving on from a 2.5yr live in full time d/s love relationship.

My hit from your post is that you're asking a serious question. I'll try to come up with something tonight; I doubt I'll be posting here before then.

Thanks, yes it is serious. I am going through a hard time, and that was a good youtube video to watch.



Wish I could help but it's going to hurt for a while, the good news is that it won't hurt forever...




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