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Sluts vs O'nkers - 4/7/2012 8:52:24 AM   
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Status: offline 		So we have a lot of lively debates where women who like sex are demonized, and no one demonizes the morons who think women liking sex is bad. So I think we need to start doing that.
My proposal, "O'nkers."
What is an O'nker? Well, an o'nker is a person (man or woman) who thinks sex outside marriage is not only wrong, but something to punish people for. o'nkers try to make other people feel bad, or actually impose financial or social costs on those who act contrary to the o'nker's belief system.
O'nkers are easiest to spot in religious systems. Going by names such as prude or Mrs/Mr Grundy. It is generally easy to tell that their behavior is caused not by moral outrage, as they claim, but by jealousy. They are/were not brave enough to enjoy life, so they try to punish others for their own failings. Male o'nkers are as common as female o'nkers, and are generally jealous of the fact that they were never able to get the attention of those women who were free with their sexual pleasure.
While hatred of o'nkers is completely understandable, pity is a more appropriate emotion, after all, imagine only having sex missionary style, without clitoral stimulation for her, or the pleasurable milking sensation of the female orgasm on the penis for him?
Not to be confused with those women (and sometimes men) who "complain," about another's sexual activities to a person they are attracted to in hopes of causing arousal that they can take advantage of...

(note, using oinkers instead of o'nkers is an acceptable shortcut, but I prefer to avoid it as it implies and insult towards swine)

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RE: Sluts vs O'nkers - 4/7/2012 9:08:27 AM   
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RE: Sluts vs O'nkjeering deridively aers - 4/7/2012 9:40:40 AM   
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Status: offline 		This is a wonderful idea! I'm so looking forwards to jeering derisively and showering them in condoms wrapped up in pages of porn as the first "o'nkerswalk" wends its way through the streets of Sydney........ it should be quite a day!

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RE: Sluts vs O'nkers - 4/7/2012 9:40:42 AM   
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RE: Sluts vs O'nkers - 4/7/2012 11:55:03 AM   
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An even sadder example might be John B. Keane's "chastitute"...



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RE: Sluts vs O'nkers - 4/9/2012 6:40:49 AM   
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So we have a lot of lively debates where women who like sex are demonized, and no one demonizes the morons who think women liking sex is bad. So I think we need to start doing that.


Seriously, wtf is it with trying to drive women who like sex off this site. I kind of get why older women here can be inclined to do it to young attractive women. By why are men doing it?

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RE: Sluts vs O'nkers - 4/9/2012 6:43:08 AM   
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Seriously, wtf is it with trying to drive women who like sex off this site. I kind of get why older women here can be inclined to do it to young attractive women. By why are men doing it?


Links please

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RE: Sluts vs O'nkers - 4/9/2012 6:49:26 AM   
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Status: offline 		Because those women wont have sex with THEM??
Because the women dont think the same way as them therefore aren't worthy or a bad influence on other women who might have sex with them,
Or they just dont understand and refuse to.
The whore madonna syndrome??
They want women back in the home 24/7 having kids and not allowed in the workplace.
They dont like women having choices, separate from their men, and being able to make them on their own.
The BDSM side , lifestyles has little to do with it, there are plenty of men who are dominating and honorable, not domineering and dumb.
Being in a victorian or Gorean or 50s lifestyle is perfect for many people, its great for those who want it. Not my thang but I like the choice for everyone.
Of course thats just a partial list of my two cents

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RE: Sluts vs O'nkers - 4/9/2012 2:06:12 PM   
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Links please


Here's the latest example I saw, this girl was convinced to pull her profile real fast: http://www.collarchat.com/m_4077950/mpage_1/tm.htm

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RE: Sluts vs O'nkers - 4/9/2012 2:21:20 PM   
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Seriously, wtf is it with trying to drive women who like sex off this site. I kind of get why older women here can be inclined to do it to young attractive women. By why are men doing it?



Sometimes, the male brain and the shit that comes out of their mouths/fingers........just gives me the best laughs.

As a connoisseur of a human female, the bit I bolded is just one of the most moronic posts I've read on here in awhile.

If I was an 'older woman' (whatever the fuck that is these days) that felt threatened by 'younger women' (whatever the fuck that is) with regards to men, attractive or not, I need a therapist, not to be running the younger women off.

From what I've seen, the naive younger women do the more discriminating older women a huge service. They keep the shallow old fuckers busy so they can go after the quality men. Especially considering that given all of the whining about fakes and such, most of the 'attractive' young thing profiles are bullshit scammers.

As for the link to the thread of the woman looking for a D/s fuck buddy relationship. All I really saw in that thread was a few panting old fuckers hoping to get the chance to be the fuck buddy and one in particular show his ass.....and get told about it by a few women quite a bit smarter than he.

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RE: Sluts vs O'nkers - 4/9/2012 4:13:22 PM   
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ORIGINAL: GotSteel

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Links please


Here's the latest example I saw, this girl was convinced to pull her profile real fast: http://www.collarchat.com/m_4077950/mpage_1/tm.htm


As three men on the first page alone disagreed with her premise, I don't understand why you are singling out "older women here."

Additionally, you and I were saying about the same thing:

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I find that creative and intelligent and sane men like relationships, but there should be no shortage of Desktop Doms seeking to "train" you for NSA sex.


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The kicker is your word "sane." Once you remove all the men using the profiles of this site for interactive pornography, most of the single, sane men are looking for a relationship of some sort.


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RE: Sluts vs O'nkers - 4/9/2012 9:25:44 PM   
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As three men on the first page alone disagreed with her premise, I don't understand why you are singling out "older women here."


I'm not trying to, just the opposite. I'm bringing up that while I can think of some reasons why older women might be inclined to smear others with statements like "naive younger women" it's the opposite of sensible for the men around here to be doing it.

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RE: Sluts vs O'nkers - 4/10/2012 12:10:04 AM   
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As three men on the first page alone disagreed with her premise, I don't understand why you are singling out "older women here."


I'm not trying to, just the opposite. I'm bringing up that while I can think of some reasons why older women might be inclined to smear others with statements like "naive younger women" it's the opposite of sensible for the men around here to be doing it.



Hmm, would it be a smear if I said I was looking for a "Naive younger woman," to take advantage of? (grin)

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RE: Sluts vs O'nkers - 4/10/2012 4:10:15 AM   
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Status: offline 		I think it says more about a man if he thinks that my calling a younger woman, that might be interested in an older man, naive. And it only serves to affirm my point. Older guys go after younger women in hopes that they will buy their buckets of bullshit. The same buckets of bullshit the older women laugh at.

If I had wanted to insult a younger woman, I would just flat out say she was stupid. Naive is simply unaware and can be, usually due to a run in with a bucket of bullshit slinging male, educatable.

I keep thinking of a recent news article I read. A male high school teacher was living with his 18yo student who had thought he was just a wonderful guy. Until she found out about his buckets of bullshit.......other students. She was naive and now she is not. She no longer resides with him. THe only person in that story I can insult is the high school teacher. Fortunately, I doubt he has much of a career left. He will probably spend his life, spreading his buckets around, getting naive women to buy a bucket here and there, then once they realize what a putz he is, dumps him with yesterday's trash.

To be honest, most of the stupidity I've read on this site, tends to have been typed by people I wouldn't call young at all........people well into 30's, 40's, and beyond.

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RE: Sluts vs O'nkers - 4/10/2012 5:42:32 PM   
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I think it says more about a man if he thinks that my calling a younger woman, that might be interested in an older man, naive. And it only serves to affirm my point. Older guys go after younger women in hopes that they will buy their buckets of bullshit. The same buckets of bullshit the older women laugh at.


Bitter much? You're the only one here talking about older men. As such it doesn't seem like a big leap to come to the conclude that that there's some projecting going on.

Hey some people are naive and maybe once in a blue moon someone benefits from the public shaming that routinely goes on here. But by and far I think more often it all happens just because the people doing the shaming are bitter and jaded.

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RE: Sluts vs O'nkers - 4/10/2012 5:51:33 PM   
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Older guys go after younger women in hopes that they will buy their buckets of bullshit. The same buckets of bullshit the older women laugh at.


I keep thinking of a recent news article I read. A male high school teacher was living with his 18yo student who had thought he was just a wonderful guy. Until she found out about his buckets of bullshit.......other students. She was naive and now she is not. She no longer resides with him. THe only person in that story I can insult is the high school teacher. Fortunately, I doubt he has much of a career left. He will probably spend his life, spreading his buckets around, getting naive women to buy a bucket here and there, then once they realize what a putz he is, dumps him with yesterday's trash.


Even though I prefer women relatively close to my age (face it, we have more to talk about) I find that more women in their 20's hit on me now that I'm older, grey, balding and 20# heavier than I oughta be than did when I was in my 20's and ripped.
I'm not looking for them, they approach me. What would be your explanation of that?

As for the teacher you were speaking of, he is quite possibly headed to jail. Good damn riddance as he is a predator and should be treated as such.

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RE: Sluts vs O'nkers - 4/10/2012 5:56:59 PM   
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Even though I prefer women relatively close to my age (face it, we have more to talk about) I find that more women in their 20's hit on me now that I'm older, grey, balding and 20# heavier than I oughta be than did when I was in my 20's and ripped.
I'm not looking for them, they approach me. What would be your explanation of that?

As for the teacher you were speaking of, he is quite possibly headed to jail. Good damn riddance as he is a predator and should be treated as such.

well,.. they might think you have more money (to spend on them) than younger, ripped, hairy dudes..

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RE: Sluts vs O'nkers - 4/10/2012 5:58:30 PM   
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Bitter much? You're the only one here talking about older men. As such it doesn't seem like a big leap to come to the conclude that that there's some projecting going on.

Hey some people are naive and maybe once in a blue moon someone benefits from the public shaming that routinely goes on here. But by and far I think more often it all happens just because the people doing the shaming are bitter and jaded.


I haven't anything to be bitter about. As for jaded, no more so than anyone that's worked with the public for over 30 years and been a huge fan of people watching her whole life.

AKA, I just call em as I see em.

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RE: Sluts vs O'nkers - 4/10/2012 6:00:04 PM   
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ORIGINAL: Hillwilliam
Even though I prefer women relatively close to my age (face it, we have more to talk about) I find that more women in their 20's hit on me now that I'm older, grey, balding and 20# heavier than I oughta be than did when I was in my 20's and ripped.
I'm not looking for them, they approach me. What would be your explanation of that?

As for the teacher you were speaking of, he is quite possibly headed to jail. Good damn riddance as he is a predator and should be treated as such.

well,.. they might think you have more money (to spend on them) than younger, ripped, hairy dudes..


That, or it might not actually be what he believes it to be.

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RE: Sluts vs O'nkers - 4/10/2012 6:04:33 PM   
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ORIGINAL: LaTigresse

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ORIGINAL: tj444

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ORIGINAL: Hillwilliam
Even though I prefer women relatively close to my age (face it, we have more to talk about) I find that more women in their 20's hit on me now that I'm older, grey, balding and 20# heavier than I oughta be than did when I was in my 20's and ripped.
I'm not looking for them, they approach me. What would be your explanation of that?

As for the teacher you were speaking of, he is quite possibly headed to jail. Good damn riddance as he is a predator and should be treated as such.

well,.. they might think you have more money (to spend on them) than younger, ripped, hairy dudes..


That, or it might not actually be what he believes it to be.

yes, maybe she really was just asking for directions..

I am just pulling yer leg a little, Hilly..

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