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Zensualista -> RE: finicial tribute (4/8/2012 9:40:32 AM)

Why do men pay prostitutes and not the other way around?



tazzygirl -> RE: finicial tribute (4/8/2012 9:57:29 AM)

Why not....

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Financial tribute to a Dominant (male or female) is stupid, and indicates that the Dominant is incompetent.


Why is the dominant incompetent? Seems to be that if the top/dom can get a sub/slave to pay, they are competent enough to get their own needs met first.

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Additionally, any Dominant who expects to be carried financially by their submissive or slave, is a parasite who can't make it on their own.


a 25 dollar tribute is hardly enough to pay their bills. Are you admitting to paying more?

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Or they are a prostitute, but fail to take that label willingly.


Which would indicate that sex was exchanged for money.

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If they take on the status of a professional Dominant that's one thing, but to make it a commercial enterprise and claim it as their due as a Dominant is crass and insulting.


Does a professional not claim the same when talking to their customers?

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Admittedly, that is my opinion. But I do think that expectations of financial recompense of a Dominant by their sub/slave is tantamount to being a slime ball.


And you are quite welcome to your opinion. It doesnt match mine.

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It begs the question of whether the people involved are capable to support themselves. Or have any pride.


Please, dont beg. Try asking instead. It could make for a good thread, depending on how you word it.

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There is no question that each should be capable of supporting themselves.


I completely agree. Have you started such threads against phone sex/cam sex girls? Just curious as to where your moral outrage begins and ends.

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Besides hurting to subs position and life after Dominant!!!!!!!!!!!!!! sickness, death, accident.....


Did you get sidetracked?



feedher2 -> RE: finicial tribute (4/8/2012 10:27:57 AM)

Personally, i think it's stupid for a dom to be leeching off a sub for any reason. Now demanding being treated nicely, going out on dates and the sub pays for it, that's not bad.

This does lead into a question of my own, is it wrong for a dom to make money off their slave's services?



RumpusParable -> RE: finicial tribute (4/8/2012 10:35:16 AM)


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ORIGINAL: feedher2

Personally, i think it's stupid for a dom to be leeching off a sub for any reason. Now demanding being treated nicely, going out on dates and the sub pays for it, that's not bad.

This does lead into a question of my own, is it wrong for a dom to make money off their slave's services?



As with just about anything: It's a-ok as long as they're both into it.



DarkSteven -> RE: finicial tribute (4/8/2012 10:48:02 AM)


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ORIGINAL: IM2sik4u

Since male slave should and are expected to give gifts and tribute to their Mistress or even to be considered. I believe in equal oppertunity if not always equal rights. So tell me what you plan to send me to be a female slave! There are three females to every male out there and way too many here (leaving out troll, fakes, abusers) to bellieve in some old tradation that came from some out dated ideas.

Financial tribute to a Dominant (male or female) is stupid, and indicates that the Dominant is incompetent. Additionally, any Dominant who expects to be carried financially by their submissive or slave, is a parasite who can't make it on their own. Or they are a prostitute, but fail to take that label willingly. If they take on the status of a professional Dominant that's one thing, but to make it a commercial enterprise and claim it as their due as a Dominant is crass and insulting.
Admittedly, that is my opinion. But I do think that expectations of financial recompense of a Dominant by their sub/slave is tantamount to being a slime ball.
It begs the question of whether the people involved are capable to support themselves. Or have any pride. There is no question that each should be capable of supporting themselves.

Besides hurting to subs position and life after Dominant!!!!!!!!!!!!!! sickness, death, accident.....


Translation:
Male slaves are expected to gift and tribute their Mistresses to even be considered. Since I believe in equal opportunity, I want prospective female slaves to tell me your expected tribute! There are three females to every male "out there" (?) and with that imbalance, the old idea of men paying for women is passe.

Financial tribute is stupid and indicates that the Dominant is incompetent. Any Dom/me who accepts tribute is someone unwilling to work. Or a prostitute. <Here, OP creates some distinction between a pro Domme and a Domme who charges.>

<Here, OP calls financial Dom/mes slime balls, and then repeats his assertion that all financial Dom/mes do not work and support themselves entirely by finDomming.>

<Here, OP states that tribute harms subs, especially if the Dom/me should become incapacitated.>




DSchmertz32 -> RE: finicial tribute (4/9/2012 7:40:05 AM)

That is true that time is money...but if that's the case, why let it interfere with your regular job? If the sub is that interested he (or she) should be willing to work with the Domme's schedule.



Rochsub2009 -> RE: finicial tribute (4/9/2012 9:12:42 AM)

Sigh. Why does it seem like I've read this exact same thread 1,000 times? Deja vu perhaps? Or is the OP just another guy complaining about financial Dommes? [8|]

OP, if financial domination and paying tributes aren't your thing, then simply don't participate in those activities. But there's no need to whine about it. There are some who enjoy financial domination. Why not allow them to pay tribute in peace?



MissKittyDeVine -> RE: finicial tribute (4/9/2012 10:15:54 AM)

Roch, I usually assume bitching about findommes and prodommes is either because the person is narked that they cannot get something for free, or that fin/prodommes are simply the focus for some deep dissatisfaction within them.



PateSucree -> RE: finicial tribute (4/9/2012 11:49:28 AM)

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tsatske -> RE: finicial tribute (4/9/2012 11:57:47 AM)

I have acctually played with one Dom who demanded tributes. Male Dom, and, last time I checked, I am a female sub. He wanted very specific tributes - not cash, that seemed no fun to him, but his exactly prefered snack, drink, tobaco blend, ect. it was fun. He got off on it, obvouisly, or he wouldn't have asked for it - and honestly, so did I. It wasn't about the cost of the tribute, it was about the tribute itself. That, I suspect, is why so many Dommes who ask for tributes ask for gifts instead of cash. but that's just a guess.



TNDommeK -> RE: finicial tribute (4/9/2012 1:00:07 PM)

Usually when I see things like this guy, it's because he just found a hot pic and decided to write and turned out to be a pro or fin Domme. In any case....[sm=tired.gif]




another1harder -> RE: finicial tribute (4/11/2012 12:11:09 AM)

Hello TNDommeK,
I am married and have no intention of cheating.. But you are freaking HOT.
another1harder



vicesorvirtues -> RE: finicial tribute (4/11/2012 8:10:47 PM)

This may be somewhat off topic, I hope no one takes offense.

I am a female dominant, and I do not ask for tributes. I don't actually find "tribute" arousing, even in the vanilla world - a man buying me an expensive dinner does not win him any favors, and in some cases is a strike against him. I also have a mild sugarbaby fetish. I like to buy small things for my submissive, and occasionally even large things. It is particularly arousing to me when I know that she is going through a difficult time financially. (Disclaimer: I encourage her to try to become financially independent, and I would never try to keep her dependent on me.)

What I'm saying is, the exchange of money is a powerful thing. For some people, it is an erotic thing. A dominant having a "sugarbaby" that ze gives money and trinkets to is not actually that different from a submissive who gives hir dominant "tribute" in the form of money and trinkets. Generally, it is men who take the "giving money and trinkets" role, but I am here to tell you that some women are also aroused by the dynamic.

Just a thought.



TNDommeK -> RE: finicial tribute (4/11/2012 8:28:25 PM)


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ORIGINAL: another1harder

Hello TNDommeK,
I am married and have no intention of cheating.. But you are freaking HOT.
another1harder



Well thank you, man who has no intention of cheating. That made Me smile.



Rochsub2009 -> RE: finicial tribute (4/11/2012 9:56:32 PM)


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ORIGINAL: another1harder

I am married and have no intention of cheating.. But you are freaking HOT.



Translation: I'd love to cheat with you. If you're interested, please let me know. [;)]



TNDommeK -> RE: finicial tribute (4/11/2012 10:45:55 PM)

Yea I felt that also. LOL



MrBukani -> RE: finicial tribute (4/11/2012 11:02:38 PM)

I think the OP is a sockpuppet, so all the findommes can advertise in the general section without breaking TOS.[:D]



JanahX -> RE: finicial tribute (4/12/2012 2:43:00 PM)

What the hell do you care if people give money, gifts or what the fuck ever to whomever they want to for whatever reason they want to? It has nothing to do with you. Its a transaction between two people that WANT TO DO THAT. If someone wants to pay money to someone else for whatever reason it is, ITS THEIR MONEY - YOU HAVE NADA to do with what they do WITH THEIR OWN MONEY.

If youre annoyed by findommes contacting you - so fucking what? Im annoyed by the douchebag joke of mamaboy so called men that contact me on a daily basis too - but I dont say much about it - because 1. I have enough common sense to know that no one gives a fuck - and 2. Its common sense that if I CHOOSE to be on a site like this there are going to be people that I am going to skip by that I find to be of a degenerative nature.

Why people come on here to complain about findommes is beyond me - ITS NONE OF YOUR BUSINESS what two consenting adults do with their time and money -



NiceButMeanGirl -> RE: finicial tribute (4/12/2012 4:37:34 PM)

I have no intention of ever asking for tribute of any kind. As a matter of fact, I enjoy buying gifts for my submissive when I have one. If the submissive has a problem with that, I'm sure he'll let me know. If not, great! I see no reason to get all up in arms about something that two people apparently enjoy. If you don't happen to enjoy it, then just avoid it. Easy peasy.

NBMG



MistrixMsE -> RE: finicial tribute (4/12/2012 8:01:27 PM)

Lance:
Clothes, lingerie, shoes, boots, floggers, whips, set of sounds, exercise machine, waterproof/shock proof camera, microphone, paint for dungeon, gift cards for home store to buy new windows for house, air conditioner for dungeon, books, art supplies, food goodies, towels for the dungeon, ipod & dock, dildos, a latex strap on harness from aslan, gift cards for hotels & restaurants for when i travel, my electrician slave rewired my 2nd unit electrical service into a sub panel for me so i could get the house re-assessed as a single family (I converted a duplex)....

Deposits for dunegon sessions paid for $950 of my $1300 laptop replacement cost

My subs are fucking awesome.



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