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Switch relationship thinking about adding msub - 4/9/2012 12:29:54 AM

another1harder

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We are happily in a switch relationship and we are considering adding a msub. I am okay with him, but I want to test his resolve w/o being an obvious jealous jerk. Ideas? Would cropping his stuff be too obvious?

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RE: Switch relationship thinking about adding msub - 4/9/2012 12:36:15 AM

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I read and reread this post several times and still don't understand the question.

I get that you're in a switch relationship with someone. That's cool.

Beyond that, I'm not sure at all. I believe you're asking how to deal with jealousy issues (yours, your partner, the msub - that bit isn't so clear). Would that be correct?

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RE: Switch relationship thinking about adding msub - 4/9/2012 12:41:22 AM

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cropping his stuff? Another one who doesn't understand. You want to know if hitting his junk with a crop will be ok? Dunno...ask him.

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RE: Switch relationship thinking about adding msub - 4/9/2012 3:24:42 AM

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Back here, you had a Mistress.

Figure out what you are and what you want first. THEN address how to get there.

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RE: Switch relationship thinking about adding msub - 4/9/2012 5:20:49 AM

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hmmm.. you're ok with him? but want to test his resolve? for what? cropping his penis (?) isn't going to test his resolve...

and you sound like a jealous jerk and I'm guessing you'll come off that way...

why not forget the games and talk to him?

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We are happily in a switch relationship and we are considering adding a msub. I am okay with him, but I want to test his resolve w/o being an obvious jealous jerk. Ideas? Would cropping his stuff be too obvious?

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