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ORIGINAL: Bhruic

There is a great Despair.com poster that reads "The common element in all of your unsatisfying relationships is you". I suspect that fellow was the source of the toxins, less so the variety of different people he blames it on.

... well I see geekgamegirl basically said this already. But it bears repeating :)

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Someone with unresolved anger issues does not get to come close to my naked body with a crop. Just sayin'.

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A Pakistani friend told me something similar. He said the measure of a man can be taken by how he reaches for the communal food when there isn't enough to go around.

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I've had some bad experiences, but lol I'm learning from each one. I try to analyze things so I don't put myself in bad situations AGAIN.

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So my question is, one of the dominants I served for over a year he had a wife, they were poly, ended up bullying me, treating me like shit, very mentally abusive, and ended up raping me in the end. I've gotten a lot of help for it, it was really hard for me to admit what happened that someone I loved did that to me.

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My question is, if someone seems to have a history of 'toxic relationships'.... i should have thought " oh hey i might be next." I think next time I will run away from someone who has a long line of toxic relationships ...what are your thoughts?

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So by saying it was toxic he doesn't blame himself and passes the blame it seems ?