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RE: Forced by to slave for Mistress - 4/18/2012 6:55:16 PM

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"Oh boy oh boy, I really want to suck a dick but I don't want to come right out and admit it so if I can find a woman to 'make me' it's all cool."

I think it's more like , Oh boy oh boy, I really want to suck a dick and have a woman tease me cruelly while I'm doing it.'
Quite simply it's good fun. A 'witness' can make the activity 100 times more intense. A lot of it is playing on the taboo that men have of gay encounters. Its highlighting the shame. Obviously there should be no real shame but many of brought up the old days were feel it was wrong to to do gay stuff. In this kind of play the female can give the male a hard time re his sexuality.

If it's not your kink, fair enough. No point in bagging kinks on a kink board.

I mentioned Prodommes as I often see it as an option on their menus.

Here is the dealio as I see it, based on past threads on this subject. We have some really outstanding submissive men that frequent these forums. There have been a few threads where there have been some really great discussions on the mindsets of both parties that have been in an actual power exchange relationship and done this sort of play.

The difference between the sort of guy I was mocking, and the guys that have actually had to do it, within a power exchange dynamic as a service to the woman that owns him is this. He doesn't have doing it as a hard limit, she gets off on making him do it. He does it not because it's HIS kink but because it is what she wants. Serving her, getting her off, doing it because IT IS WHAT SHE WANTS and that what she wants is his utmost priority.......that to me, is a whole different party. While it may get him off, it may be his kink, the fact that he is doing it to serve HER and not his kink, that's the kicker right there.

But let's face it, if it's his kink.......there isn't a lot of forcing going on. And if it was MY kink......I sure as hell wouldn't be looking for the guys who have it on their bucket list. I'd want them really seriously begging me no. Crying real fucking tears at the very idea. Cuz I am mean like that.

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RE: Forced by to slave for Mistress - 4/18/2012 7:24:59 PM

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I will freely admit that I enjoy the sexual entertainments. But I like GOOD entertainment. I want sincerity. I want genuine man on man lust. I want SKILL. I want to sit back with a Crown Royal Black on ice, and have primal thoughts.

If one party is somewhat reluctant, that might add to my amusement.

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RE: Forced by to slave for Mistress - 4/18/2012 7:47:37 PM

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The difference between the sort of guy I was mocking, and the guys that have actually had to do it, within a power exchange dynamic as a service to the woman that owns him is this. He doesn't have doing it as a hard limit, she gets off on making him do it. He does it not because it's HIS kink but because it is what she wants. Serving her, getting her off, doing it because IT IS WHAT SHE WANTS and that what she wants is his utmost priority.......that to me, is a whole different party. While it may get him off, it may be his kink, the fact that he is doing it to serve HER and not his kink, that's the kicker right there.

But let's face it, if it's his kink.......there isn't a lot of forcing going on. And if it was MY kink......I sure as hell wouldn't be looking for the guys who have it on their bucket list. I'd want them really seriously begging me no. Crying real fucking tears at the very idea. Cuz I am mean like that.

< Message edited by LaTigresse -- 4/18/2012 6:57:23 PM >

THIS

If this is what the Dominant woman wants, that is one thing.
Most of us, have been joking about men that approach Dominant women, and beg/plead/ASK for the women to secure another man for HIM, and force HIM into "bisexual" activities..

We all have our kinks, and maybe there are submissive women that are begging Dominant men "to force them bi", but in 8 years on CM, I have yet to see that.

Repeat, again, if it is WHAT the Dominant woman wants, that is one thing.

To come online, and plead/beg/ask/chase/hunt for a woman, to force you to engage in sexual acts with someone of the same sex, is something else.

If there are men, that are looking for a Dominant woman, to "force them straight", I am willing to step up.
I have to lead the "forced straight" movement.
It's a tough job, someone has to do it.

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RE: Forced by to slave for Mistress - 4/19/2012 1:35:57 PM

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ORIGINAL: LaTigresse

The difference between the sort of guy I was mocking, and the guys that have actually had to do it, within a power exchange dynamic as a service to the woman that owns him is this. He doesn't have doing it as a hard limit, she gets off on making him do it. He does it not because it's HIS kink but because it is what she wants. Serving her, getting her off, doing it because IT IS WHAT SHE WANTS and that what she wants is his utmost priority.......that to me, is a whole different party. While it may get him off, it may be his kink, the fact that he is doing it to serve HER and not his kink, that's the kicker right there.

But let's face it, if it's his kink.......there isn't a lot of forcing going on. And if it was MY kink......I sure as hell wouldn't be looking for the guys who have it on their bucket list. I'd want them really seriously begging me no. Crying real fucking tears at the very idea. Cuz I am mean like that.

That's pretty much right where I fall in with this.
I guess it's not on my hard limits list, but it would have to be way down the line. It would really have to be forced, and I would REALLY, REALLY want to do anything to please her. And I have a feeling it would take a while for me to build up that kind of devotion.

The few women I've talked to who have brought it up, bring it up quickly, and don't seem to take it as serious as I do. And honestly, that's scared me off/turned me off.

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RE: Forced by to slave for Mistress - 4/19/2012 1:37:23 PM

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I will freely admit that I enjoy the sexual entertainments. But I like GOOD entertainment. I want sincerity. I want genuine man on man lust. I want SKILL. I want to sit back with a Crown Royal Black on ice, and have primal thoughts.

If one party is somewhat reluctant, that might add to my amusement.

Ever have Crown Royal XR? It's really expensive, but daaammmmnnnn is it good.

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RE: Forced by to slave for Mistress - 4/19/2012 1:59:44 PM

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You have my permission to buy me some, Pet!

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RE: Forced by to slave for Mistress - 4/19/2012 2:01:45 PM

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I do?!?!?

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RE: Forced by to slave for Mistress - 4/19/2012 2:04:03 PM

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What, I have to buy my own booze, now?

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RE: Forced by to slave for Mistress - 4/19/2012 2:11:46 PM

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Well no!
But I thought we were taking this "forced" conversation in a new direction.

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RE: Forced by to slave for Mistress - 4/19/2012 8:57:55 PM

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Do you know where a slave can find a Mistress who is sincerely interested in making him submit to surrendering his straight virginity to homosexual forced sex? This slave has been with females and has been forced to serve females. This slave was also asked to submit to gay sex but he wasn't ready. Now this slave is ready and he wants to please a Mistress this way even though it still scares him. Do you know where I can find such a Mistress for real? Slave would either do this in person in the los angeles area or from afar but show the Mistress pics as proof. This slave was made to be with a female in the past. I am very sincere.

Your advice would be much appreciated.

I am sincere.

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Wow!

I don't think I've ever been so bored or lacking in enthusiasm in my entire life!

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RE: Forced by to slave for Mistress - 4/20/2012 3:40:21 PM

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I am very sincere.

NO, wait a minute!

my name is verySincere!

PLEASE DO NOT USE IT IN VAIN!

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RE: Forced by to slave for Mistress - 4/21/2012 9:35:08 AM

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Hello,
In response to your question I know where you can find a Mistress like that!! I am! I love forced bi/ cuckold fetish play, cross dressing, humiliation and a multitude of many other Fetishes, but, practically all my subs are bi, and would be more than willing to help me in making sure you get what you deserve! I am in Portland, Oregon... But, you could always come up here for a few day vacation, and let me and my boys take advantage of you...

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RE: Forced by to slave for Mistress - 4/21/2012 12:33:50 PM

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Well, there ya go, OP. Just remember to inquire about any necessary 'tribute' so you understand you're not getting a free kinky vacation to Portland.

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RE: Forced by to slave for Mistress - 4/21/2012 10:23:30 PM

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ORIGINAL: usablemanhood

Do you know where a slave can find a Mistress who is sincerely interested in making him submit to surrendering his straight virginity to homosexual forced sex? This slave has been with females and has been forced to serve females. This slave was also asked to submit to gay sex but he wasn't ready. Now this slave is ready and he wants to please a Mistress this way even though it still scares him. Do you know where I can find such a Mistress for real? Slave would either do this in person in the los angeles area or from afar but show the Mistress pics as proof. This slave was made to be with a female in the past. I am very sincere.

Your advice would be much appreciated.

I am sincere.

slave

usableman......

I've read the responses to your quest....and I'd like to apologize for all (entire) their lack of consideration.

The answer is.....

The corner of 17th and Madison.

(I'm here to help).

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