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Ashtray service? - 6/4/2006 9:54:45 PM   
subash1


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Status: offline 		So any of you Dommes ever use your sub for an ashtray, or perhaps if you do not smoke allow him/her to be used by your friends who do? Is this a wide spread practice in the D/s life style. If so do you use the sub's mouth, hand. chest, or just make them hold the ashtray while you ash in it? I am just wondering how wide spread this practice is?
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RE: Ashtray service? - 6/4/2006 10:06:03 PM   
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Status: offline 		I haven't personally done this, as I only smoke outside. But I might make an exception. Make him lay on the cold hard floor in the garage, and use his body to flick my ashes.

Thanks for the great idea!  :)

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RE: Ashtray service? - 6/4/2006 10:17:38 PM   
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RE: Ashtray service? - 6/5/2006 12:42:50 AM   
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So any of you Dommes ever use your sub for an ashtray, or perhaps if you do not smoke allow him/her to be used by your friends who do? Is this a wide spread practice in the D/s life style. If so do you use the sub's mouth, hand. chest, or just make them hold the ashtray while you ash in it? I am just wondering how wide spread this practice is?
Subash1

I am a cigar smoker and I enjoy a slave to take my ash, either in his mouth or somewhere on his body.  In fact, I have taught a cigar play/cigar service class for a local submissive group and they were all thrilled to learn about serving a cigar properly, and seeing the different ways a cigar could be used for play.

It's a different experience from playing with cigarettes.  The ash from a cigar is really intimidating at first, but, once the slave figures out that it's not like having the cherry smacked off a cigaratte, their fears are oft relieved.  Serving a cigar smoker takes great patience, as a cigar does not burn as fast as a cigarette.

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RE: Ashtray service? - 6/5/2006 1:03:52 PM   
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Status: offline 		I initiated a thread on this subject several months ago.  Using my slaves mouth as an ashtray is one of my favorite uses for it...lol.  I know there are other things that may be more degrading but I definitely think this ranks high up there. 
 
My slave's collar has a lighter attached to it as he's required to light my cigarettes as well.

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RE: Ashtray service? - 6/5/2006 3:34:28 PM   
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Status: offline 		Thank You FurDomme, for your response....When using your slaves mouth did you put it out on his tongue or just ash? Did you require the slave to swallow the butt of the cigarette?

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SA1

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RE: Ashtray service? - 6/5/2006 7:36:57 PM   
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Status: offline 		I've used DH as an ashtray- mostly his backside, which I then put the cigerette out on his "bottom" area- which makes for a very nice blister/welt.  Just be sure to use witch hazel or even better- rubbing alcohol afterwards to clean the area!

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RE: Ashtray service? - 6/5/2006 8:03:08 PM   
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Status: offline 		Thanks for the reply MistressMaxine, a question if I may. Do you use him in this way , each time when you smoke and are alone with him or is this a scene , that you construct?
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RE: Ashtray service? - 6/5/2006 11:57:21 PM   
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Thank You FurDomme, for your response....When using your slaves mouth did you put it out on his tongue or just ash? Did you require the slave to swallow the butt of the cigarette?

Thanks
SA1

I find it amusing that you've taken the time to answer everyone else but me.  Why is that, ash?

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RE: Ashtray service? - 6/6/2006 3:24:08 AM   
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Status: offline 		Sorry MisPandora, in truth I was looking at your link and forgot to post in response to your post. I meant nothing by it, I was reading and looking at the pictures of the events you attended and simply forgot. But I do agree the amber end if a cigarette is very intimidating. I have never experienced the business end of a cigar though. I also find it interesting you taught a class on cigar play. BTW what cigars are your favorite?
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RE: Ashtray service? - 6/6/2006 5:06:55 AM   
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Thank You FurDomme, for your response....When using your slaves mouth did you put it out on his tongue or just ash? Did you require the slave to swallow the butt of the cigarette?

Thanks
SA1



lol...all of the above but not all of the time.

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RE: Ashtray service? - 6/6/2006 7:05:44 AM   
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Sorry MisPandora, in truth I was looking at your link and forgot to post in response to your post. I meant nothing by it, I was reading and looking at the pictures of the events you attended and simply forgot. But I do agree the amber end if a cigarette is very intimidating. I have never experienced the business end of a cigar though. I also find it interesting you taught a class on cigar play. BTW what cigars are your favorite?
SA1

I deducted that it was something against the cigars from the looks of the cigarette responses you got and replied to immediately.

Cigars are looked at by most of society as a luxury, not an addiction or habit like cigarettes are.  They tend to be a more "clean" habit, not filling the air with natty little ashes, leaving black streaks and smears in ashtrays, or butts all over the place.  There is far more ritual to them than there is in simply lighting a cigarette.  Cigars aren't crushed out.  They're allowed to cool out and can be relit.  Cigars burn far more cool (albeit, still hot) than a cigarette does and the ash from a well-rolled, high quality tabac stays tight together in it's chunk until it effortlessly falls from or is rolled off the business-end of the stogie.  Cigars tend to be an item of prestige or allure -- to be smoked with a fine crystal snifter of brandy after an expensive steak dinner, or in a plush library smelling of old books and english leather couches.  Thumb through Cigar Aficianado magazine and see what female stars are cigar smokers -- the pictures alone are clearly FETISH!

My taste in cigars are Dominican -- Cojimar by Don Rene (the vanilla senors, or a torpedo), Ashton, La Flor, or Romeo y Julietta.  My preferred ring gauges range from 42 to 54, but no larger. 

When I'm in Canada or Europe, I make sure to get my fill of cubans....since we still have that ridiculous embargo.  Or, I suck up to friends who have Treasury stamps who bring them back legally into the US!

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RE: Ashtray service? - 6/6/2006 2:04:59 PM   
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Status: offline 		Thank You again MistressPandora, I agree that Cigars have more ritual to them than do cigarettes. I have never really experinced the rituals first hand though I did have a Domme who I was involved with once smoke one and ash it into my mouth. The consistancy of the ash was much different then that of the cigarettes She did before. It was much smoother and not as acrid. Though it was much larger and took a moment to swallow. But like I said earlier I am not sure about the heat of the business end, though I am well aquainted with the business end of cigarettes.  Cigars are an intrest to me but finding someone who knows how to enjoy them correctly while enjoying a sub is a quest within itself.

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RE: Ashtray service? - 6/7/2006 2:20:48 AM   
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Status: offline 		You're reminding me of and making me miss my first slave; he was my first and only experience with a human ashtray, and I loved that experience, but I probably would have become a regular smoker by now if I kept him having found that kink so much fun.   M

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RE: Ashtray service? - 6/7/2006 3:35:48 AM   
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Status: offline 		BlkTallFullfig, oh well guess all good things must come to an end. What did you find most enjoyable about it. Did you just use his mouth or his body? Oh and was it Cigars or Cigarettes?
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RE: Ashtray service? - 6/7/2006 1:45:37 PM   
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BlkTallFullfig, oh well guess all good things must come to an end. What did you find most enjoyable about it. Did you just use his mouth or his body? Oh and was it Cigars or Cigarettes?
sa1
The objectification part of it was exciting beyond my understanding at that point.  I used his mouth as an ashtray while I smoked these long virginia slims menthol cigarettes on a few occasions; I was new to wiitwd and afraid that I'd burn him, but I didn't.  A small flicker may have hit his body once, but he was also a painslut, so it wasn't a big deal.  
In retrospect, I should have kept him longer, I probably would be perfect with the leather flogger now since he was such a good test subject for being hurt.  M

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RE: Ashtray service? - 6/7/2006 8:10:22 PM   
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Status: offline 		Thank you for sharing BlkTallFullfig, must have really eanjoyed that. You could always find another ashtray. I guess it was good he was a painslut too. I never knew I was a painslut till I was used as a total human ashtray. From there it went to being used by my GF/Domme and a friend. Very interesting.
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RE: Ashtray service? - 6/10/2006 7:32:08 AM   
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Status: offline 		I quit smoking almost three years ago and I definitly don't do the fetish smoking thing or the ashtray thing for that matter.  I hate the smell of it.  And why would I risk starting again over someone else's fetish.
That's just me, I vote for clean environment.  Took FOREVER to quit.


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RE: Ashtray service? - 6/10/2006 4:37:17 PM   
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Status: offline 		Unless what you have dune was always different then what you Will get is some thing different

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