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What can be done to the lying Dom/Master? How and what... - 6/5/2006 5:22:49 AM   
naughtylady1121


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Status: offline 		Thru the years of trying to find an honest Master here at CM i have had the unfortunate problem with Masters being dishonest.  This wouldnt be so bad, but when they play with the emotions, heart and soul of anyone it can be have serious repercussions.  Is there a place where we can post a list of the Masters that we have found that fit this criteria?  and yes, i agree, there are those sub/slaves that lie too, lets list them all and ignore them.....  Thank You....
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RE: What can be done to the lying Dom/Master? How and ... - 6/5/2006 5:45:45 AM   
RavenMuse


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Status: offline 		OK you are pretty new so I will leave most of your bodyparts intact!

Such as you suggest has been brought up before and will no doubt be brought up again.... but the people bringing it up have never really thought it through. On here you are just a bunch of pixels on my screen, if they post, so is any person you might be labling liar.... why the hell should I believe you over them or visa versa? If they turn the tables and claim YOU are the liar.... do Both of you go on the list? Neither?

No, all such things do is disintegrate into bitching, cliques, accusations and counter-accusations, none of which is provable.

Yep there are liars and players out there, we are all (or should be) aware of that possibility but what you suggest would do NOTHING to solve it and has a HUGE downside to a board.

< Message edited by RavenMuse -- 6/5/2006 5:46:30 AM >

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RE: What can be done to the lying Dom/Master? How and ... - 6/5/2006 7:10:13 AM   
irishbynature


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Status: offline 		I'm in total agreement with Raven. Unfortunately, there are liars who come in all shapes, sizes, subs and Doms, and on many sites on the Internet. I'm still learning to "read between the lines", so to speak. Chalk it up as experience and keep your guard up. There are plenty of great folks here that are honest. 
Irish


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RE: What can be done to the lying Dom/Master? How and ... - 6/5/2006 7:13:27 AM   
irishbynature


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Status: offline 		Oh, one question Naughty?
 Have you been with a Dominant outside of CM or basically, the Internet? If not, have you tried a local BDSM Community near you or attended a munch? Just curious...
Irish


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RE: What can be done to the lying Dom/Master? How and ... - 6/5/2006 7:16:49 AM   
CERCKL


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Status: offline 		I'm a lying Dom. You cannot trust a word I type...
I'm also an asshole...stay far, far away.

C


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RE: What can be done to the lying Dom/Master? How and ... - 6/5/2006 7:26:22 AM   
OhBeMyMind


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Status: offline 		Mmmmm hhhmmmm....feeling generous today RM?

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ORIGINAL: RavenMuse

OK you are pretty new so I will leave most of your bodyparts intact!



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RE: What can be done to the lying Dom/Master? How and ... - 6/5/2006 7:54:38 AM   
RavenMuse


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quote:

ORIGINAL: OhBeMyMind
Mmmmm hhhmmmm....feeling generous today RM?


Yep, all relaxed and mellow after a great day yesterday with my girl at London Alternative Market (And After Market Party).

Mind you.... Have new flogger, new cane (Nice and thick, very thuddy rather than stingy)... hmmmm on second thoughts maybe I shouldn't be quite so generous


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And it must follow, as the night the day,
Thou canst not then be false to any man.

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RE: What can be done to the lying Dom/Master? How and ... - 6/5/2006 8:45:43 AM   
pinkee


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quote:

ORIGINAL: naughtylady1121

Thru the years of trying to find an honest Master here at CM i have had the unfortunate problem with Masters being dishonest.  This wouldnt be so bad, but when they play with the emotions, heart and soul of anyone it can be have serious repercussions.  Is there a place where we can post a list of the Masters that we have found that fit this criteria?  and yes, i agree, there are those sub/slaves that lie too, lets list them all and ignore them.....  Thank You....


If a Man lies, He is not a Dom or Master.  Adjust your bullsh*t meter lower, and learn to ask questions weeks apart to seee whether you get the same answers.  Not cyncism; self-protection.
 
pinkee

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RE: What can be done to the lying Dom/Master? How and ... - 6/5/2006 10:16:23 AM   
LaMalinche


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quote:

ORIGINAL: CERCKL

I'm a lying Dom. You cannot trust a word I type...
I'm also an asshole...stay far, far away.

C



Does this make you a true fake or a fake fake? 

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RE: What can be done to the lying Dom/Master? How and ... - 6/5/2006 10:48:07 AM   
champagnewishes


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quote:

ORIGINAL: LaMalinche

quote:

ORIGINAL: CERCKL

I'm a lying Dom. You cannot trust a word I type...
I'm also an asshole...stay far, far away.

C



Does this make you a true fake or a fake fake? 


Don't forget the "self proclaimed"  part!!!

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RE: What can be done to the lying Dom/Master? How and ... - 6/5/2006 11:08:01 AM   
FelinePersuasion


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Status: offline 		Black lists are against the sites  TOS.  having one is mentioned about oh once a week or so less now than usual, but they're against the sites TOS's none the less and frowned on very much by most every one here and by mods.

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RE: What can be done to the lying Dom/Master? How and ... - 6/5/2006 12:57:17 PM   
sweetbbwsub31


Posts: 331
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Status: offline 		Although CM is a great tool for meeting people, it is up to you to screen them. Proceed with caution and if they lie to you move on.
 
Good luck to you,
sub tara

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RE: What can be done to the lying Dom/Master? How and ... - 6/5/2006 1:38:25 PM   
BitaTruble


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Status: offline 		With a single exception, every person I've meet r/t from Collarme has been exactly who they said they were. Maybe your radar is just off?

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RE: What can be done to the lying Dom/Master? How and ... - 6/5/2006 3:33:50 PM   
SweetSarijane


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Joined: 10/7/2005
From: KC area Missouri
Status: offline 		Such a list would never work. Who's best qualified to judge everyone on this site and decided if they are a liar, player, fake, asshole, or good person? Way too much margin for error and accusations out of pure spite to ever work.

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RE: What can be done to the lying Dom/Master? How and ... - 6/5/2006 3:37:32 PM   
cuddleheart50


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Status: offline 		I've met two so called Doms from CM and they were both duds!

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RE: What can be done to the lying Dom/Master? How and ... - 6/5/2006 3:39:26 PM   
SweetSarijane


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Status: offline 		I've met my share. I just move on quickly as soon as I figure it out. Still no way a list would work.

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RE: What can be done to the lying Dom/Master? How and ... - 6/5/2006 3:40:37 PM   
marieToo


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From: Jersey
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quote:

ORIGINAL: naughtylady1121

Thru the years of trying to find an honest Master here at CM i have had the unfortunate problem with Masters being dishonest.  This wouldnt be so bad, but when they play with the emotions, heart and soul of anyone it can be have serious repercussions.  Is there a place where we can post a list of the Masters that we have found that fit this criteria?  and yes, i agree, there are those sub/slaves that lie too, lets list them all and ignore them.....  Thank You....


In any walk of life, you're going to find honest, and dishonest.  Try to just trust your own inner voice and dont even bother with one if they seem dishonest.  In the past, I have made excuses for some and tried to give the benefit of the doubt, but have found that my first instinct always turns out to be correct.  The search for someone genuine can get tedious at times, but dont lose hope.  Sometimes maybe just take a short break from it.  Best of luck.

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RE: What can be done to the lying Dom/Master? How and ... - 6/5/2006 3:42:52 PM   
OhBeMyMind


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Status: offline 		Soooooooo......what can be done to the lying sub/slaves?  How and what can be done to protect trusting Dom/Masters? 

The subject just seemed so one sided. 

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~*~I'd rather be hated for who I am, than loved for who I am not~*~

~she'll tease you, she'll unease you, all the better just to please you~ K.C

~Well would you look at that! My give-a-damn just broke~

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RE: What can be done to the lying Dom/Master? How and ... - 6/5/2006 5:29:31 PM   
CERCKL


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quote:


quote:

ORIGINAL: LaMalinche


quote:

ORIGINAL: CERCKL

I'm a lying Dom. You cannot trust a word I type...
I'm also an asshole...stay far, far away.

C



Does this make you a true fake or a fake fake? 



Don't forget the "self proclaimed"  part!!!



I am a true self-proclaimed fake fake, true?

C

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AND I AM TOO AN ASSHOLE, I HAVE REFERENCES!!!

"Please, please, please believe me, I really am an asshole. All that Enlightenment and Higher Learning shit was all a ruse."

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RE: What can be done to the lying Dom/Master? How and ... - 6/5/2006 7:50:20 PM   
corsetgirl


Posts: 824
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Status: offline 		Ask a lot of questions and if they seem evasive or put you off, then they are not what they appear to be as truthful with you.  One time, a dom and I had IM'd each other, I asked him if he had a sub, was married or attached and he said nothing...oh well, I just deleted him from my list!
 
Most of the doms are very honest with me, though and I appreciate that, may not necessarily mean that I would get that chance to play but it is good to talk to them.
 
Besides, such a list could also mean that someone else could be very vindictive and spread some lies about others indicating that some people are very bitter....move on and good luck.

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