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DarkSteven -> RE: Becoming a slave (5/14/2012 3:27:14 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: CougarRick In reality, if I were to meet a domme my bravado might uhm......whither a bit at first and I would want to go a bit slow and have some idea who I'm dealing with before I jump in. Um, Rick, that's the way it's SUPPOSED to work. You meet a woman and see how well the two of you mesh. A few dates later, you may end up having sex. But it's not a sex-on-the-first-date kind of thing usually.

LadyHibiscus -> RE: Becoming a slave (5/14/2012 3:38:19 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: DarkSteven quote: ORIGINAL: CougarRick In reality, if I were to meet a domme my bravado might uhm......whither a bit at first and I would want to go a bit slow and have some idea who I'm dealing with before I jump in. Um, Rick, that's the way it's SUPPOSED to work. You meet a woman and see how well the two of you mesh. A few dates later, you may end up having sex. But it's not a sex-on-the-first-date kind of thing usually. Steven, just because YOU are hard to get... [8D] Sorry, had to take that opening! And yeah, Rick, chill. Not too many women are going to just suck you dry and toss you aside before they even know your name.

Alecta -> RE: Becoming a slave (5/14/2012 4:07:35 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: CougarRick That was me. Talking on the internet about losing it to an older woman is easy, because it is just fantasy. In reality, if I were to meet a domme my bravado might uhm......whither a bit at first and I would want to go a bit slow and have some idea who I'm dealing with before I jump in. So...believe it or not, you guys who want to just jump right in without having met us before or half a clue of the people that we are? Not so hot. It really turns us off when a guy's only into us because we're female and available.

DarkSteven -> RE: Becoming a slave (5/14/2012 4:20:50 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Lockit You have a brain.. use the fucker. The technical name for that is "mind fuck".

CougarRick -> RE: Becoming a slave (5/14/2012 4:48:31 PM)
LOL. Actually I am very confident with girls my own age. I just feel that if I were with a hot older woman, I might feel some of that junior high shyness again. quote: ORIGINAL: Lockit quote: ORIGINAL: CougarRick quote: ORIGINAL: Lockit You have a brain Nobody has ever accused me of that before Now Rick... that is how you do it! [:D] See... a bit of personality works! Make some women laugh... in a smart way and it gets their juices going! Banter is good. You have it... you may need to brush up on some confidence when meeting with women... but you push a few laugh boxes and you might stand a chance!

CougarRick -> RE: Becoming a slave (5/14/2012 4:50:40 PM)
Uhm....I'm not sure if there is a miscommunication here. Waiting to get to know someone before jumping in is exactly what I want. Sure in fantasy instant sex is great, but I'm just not ready to meet someone and have sex like that. quote: ORIGINAL: Alecta quote: ORIGINAL: CougarRick That was me. Talking on the internet about losing it to an older woman is easy, because it is just fantasy. In reality, if I were to meet a domme my bravado might uhm......whither a bit at first and I would want to go a bit slow and have some idea who I'm dealing with before I jump in. So...believe it or not, you guys who want to just jump right in without having met us before or half a clue of the people that we are? Not so hot. It really turns us off when a guy's only into us because we're female and available.

CougarRick -> RE: Becoming a slave (5/14/2012 4:51:41 PM)
Sigh......darn! quote: ORIGINAL: LadyHibiscus And yeah, Rick, chill. Not too many women are going to just suck you dry and toss you aside before they even know your name.

Lockit -> RE: Becoming a slave (5/14/2012 4:55:17 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: CougarRick LOL. Actually I am very confident with girls my own age. I just feel that if I were with a hot older woman, I might feel some of that junior high shyness again. Well, stop thinking about it.. far to much and get out there. There is only one way to find out. There is only one way you are going to over come, find out what you need to find out and feel better about anything and that is to do it and keep doing it until you get it all figured out. You may find you like it and then again, you may find that all you project upon the older woman... really isn't fitting for all older women. The longer you wait and think about things sometimes... the harder it is to actually do them.

CougarRick -> RE: Becoming a slave (5/14/2012 5:04:18 PM)
True, but I would rather learn (and fuck up) here where there is minimal consequence before trying it in real life. Also, as I have demonstrated (and has been observed) I am very ignorant of the culture, and would rather do some research before jumping in. No rush; I've waited this long so getting some good advice here would be of use. quote: ORIGINAL: LockitWell, stop thinking about it.. far to much and get out there. There is only one way to find out. There is only one way you are going to over come, find out what you need to find out and feel better about anything and that is to do it and keep doing it until you get it all figured out. You may find you like it and then again, you may find that all you project upon the older woman... really isn't fitting for all older women. The longer you wait and think about things sometimes... the harder it is to actually do them.

LadyHibiscus -> RE: Becoming a slave (5/14/2012 5:42:55 PM)
But you're not having face to face interaction here. Which is what you need. Maybe try the vidchat on the other side? The room moves very fast sometimes, but there are nice people to talk to in realtime. As long as you're not a dingus. If you are, they will eat you with hoisen sauce.

CougarRick -> RE: Becoming a slave (5/14/2012 6:50:53 PM)
In time. I do want to get a better understanding of the domme/sub relationship, and the various forms if there are any, including things like rules, boundaries (if I am a sub am I ever allowed to say no?) and things like that. quote: ORIGINAL: LadyHibiscus But you're not having face to face interaction here. Which is what you need. Maybe try the vidchat on the other side? The room moves very fast sometimes, but there are nice people to talk to in realtime. As long as you're not a dingus. If you are, they will eat you with hoisen sauce.

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