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cyclical -> RE: What Bugs You Re: Dommes & What Do You Like? (5/12/2012 10:39:02 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: LadyConstanze Hey, same we tell all the other guys who complain about profiles and stuff, get off of your computer and get thee to a munch... I've looked into them already. The closest one to me is an hour away which poses difficulties as well as being on Saturdays which are usually impossible for me to attend anyway. As of now, online has been the only viable option from what I've gathered. My schedule should change in a few months though so hopefully there will be more opportunities!

LadyHibiscus -> RE: What Bugs You Re: Dommes & What Do You Like? (5/12/2012 10:43:28 PM)
Leaving the house really is the most reliable way of meeting people. At least when you meet at an event you know what they look like and how old they are!

Hillwilliam -> RE: What Bugs You Re: Dommes & What Do You Like? (5/13/2012 5:57:24 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: LadyConstanze Unfortunately the sun in LA nixed the "pale and interesting" Goth look, turned my hair into bright ginger and yeah, far too hot for much leather, I could be really mean and post pics of me in my usual uniform of shorts and makeup free, LOL, would take care of all wet dreams... As for the makeup free, I like that look. It gives me an idea of "Is this a person I want to wake up next to?"

Baroana -> RE: What Bugs You Re: Dommes & What Do You Like? (5/13/2012 5:58:17 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: cyclical quote: ORIGINAL: LadyConstanze Hey, same we tell all the other guys who complain about profiles and stuff, get off of your computer and get thee to a munch... I've looked into them already. The closest one to me is an hour away which poses difficulties as well as being on Saturdays which are usually impossible for me to attend anyway. As of now, online has been the only viable option from what I've gathered. Sounds like you have no time for a relationship anyway.

LaTigresse -> RE: What Bugs You Re: Dommes & What Do You Like? (5/13/2012 8:58:36 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: cyclical quote: ORIGINAL: LadyConstanze Hey, same we tell all the other guys who complain about profiles and stuff, get off of your computer and get thee to a munch... I've looked into them already. The closest one to me is an hour away which poses difficulties as well as being on Saturdays which are usually impossible for me to attend anyway. As of now, online has been the only viable option from what I've gathered. My schedule should change in a few months though so hopefully there will be more opportunities! If this is the way you conduct your life, then no woman will have time for you! Local or not.

LadyHibiscus -> RE: What Bugs You Re: Dommes & What Do You Like? (5/13/2012 9:33:51 AM)
It's true, if a person doesnt have time for a coffee, they wont have time for a relationship.

Alecta -> RE: What Bugs You Re: Dommes & What Do You Like? (5/13/2012 11:48:30 AM)
In consideration for what you seem to be looking for, try CList's NSA section, or AdultFF. Most women on CM are looking for relationships,not FWB, and as it's already been pointed out and stated on your profile, you're not.

cyclical -> RE: What Bugs You Re: Dommes & What Do You Like? (5/13/2012 1:04:47 PM)
I have to work most Saturdays. I really don't see how that should be viewed as a negative. It is not something I choose to do, but have to do out of necessity. Obviously this presents me with some social problems every now and then but at the moment, I gotta do what I gotta do. If someone wants to meet for coffee, Sundays are perfect! quote: ORIGINAL: Alecta In consideration for what you seem to be looking for, try CList's NSA section, or AdultFF. Most women on CM are looking for relationships,not FWB, and as it's already been pointed out and stated on your profile, you're not. I'd say its a pretty good mix actually. And you're correct, friends would be ideal.

Alecta -> RE: What Bugs You Re: Dommes & What Do You Like? (5/13/2012 1:19:21 PM)
Not really. Odds are higher over on AFF for what you're looking for. You've got to watch it on CL's NSA since they closed the adult services section though.

cyclical -> RE: What Bugs You Re: Dommes & What Do You Like? (5/13/2012 1:51:19 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Alecta Not really. Odds are higher over on AFF for what you're looking for. You've got to watch it on CL's NSA since they closed the adult services section though. We'll have to agree to disagree then [:)] I view those as more one time fling deals, maybe I'm mistaken. And CList is way too sketchy for me. Not really interested in that. While I'm not interested in a LTR, I would still like to have some type of relationship with the person. With some of the guys I've met, we've become great friends and have done stuff outside the kinky stuff on occasion. Something similar would be nice. I guess thats a FWB type deal and that works fine. I mean, getting to know someone is half the fun!

Alecta -> RE: What Bugs You Re: Dommes & What Do You Like? (5/13/2012 1:58:31 PM)
Oh, you want SOCIAL friends... hang out on FL. Hell, you could always start your own munch/meetup.

cyclical -> RE: What Bugs You Re: Dommes & What Do You Like? (5/13/2012 2:02:44 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Alecta Oh, you want SOCIAL friends... hang out on FL. Hell, you could always start your own munch/meetup. Yea I need to make more of an effort there. I guess I feel kind of intimidated by it, silly I know. Its difficult for me to just put myself out there when everyone is already buddy, buddy and stuff. It took awhile just for me to post here so I'm working on it though lol

Baroana -> RE: What Bugs You Re: Dommes & What Do You Like? (5/13/2012 2:39:51 PM)
Look at his age. He probably won't be interested in a serious relationship for another ten to fifteen years.

LadyHibiscus -> RE: What Bugs You Re: Dommes & What Do You Like? (5/13/2012 2:50:21 PM)
Not necessarily. I have pals that age who are married with kids.

cyclical -> RE: What Bugs You Re: Dommes & What Do You Like? (5/13/2012 2:57:55 PM)
I think I'd like to get married/kids around 30 so more like a few years down the road. I'm planning on going over to Japan in the near future so looking for a LTR just isn't feasible. When I come back though, I'll be on the LTR hunt (if I haven't found a nice Japanese girl already [sm=hearts.gif]

LadyConstanze -> RE: What Bugs You Re: Dommes & What Do You Like? (5/13/2012 3:05:14 PM)
You do know that life is what happens while you are busy making plans?

LadyConstanze -> RE: What Bugs You Re: Dommes & What Do You Like? (5/13/2012 3:07:50 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Hillwilliam As for the makeup free, I like that look. It gives me an idea of "Is this a person I want to wake up next to?" When somebody tried to chat me up while I was "done up" a little voice always wondered how he'd cope with me without all the warpaint, rather show the "bare" face first and let him be pleasantly surprised when I put on my face.

cyclical -> RE: What Bugs You Re: Dommes & What Do You Like? (5/13/2012 3:18:25 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: LadyConstanze You do know that life is what happens while you are busy making plans? Yea a good friend of mine actually said the same thing. I don't think my plans have affected any prospective relationships but its possible. Hopefully if something great stares me in the face I don't shy away from it because of my future goals.

PeonForHer -> RE: What Bugs You Re: Dommes & What Do You Like? (5/13/2012 3:25:35 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: LadyConstanze When somebody tried to chat me up while I was "done up" a little voice always wondered how he'd cope with me without all the warpaint, rather show the "bare" face first and let him be pleasantly surprised when I put on my face. I'm not sure that's a good strategy, Lady C. Personally, I'd recommend the reverse.

LadyConstanze -> RE: What Bugs You Re: Dommes & What Do You Like? (5/13/2012 3:31:30 PM)
Well, I've been with H now for about 10 years, seems to have worked, and I recall that when I picked you up at the station you weren't flashing me your abs and you were able to cope with me without makeup - but you were possibly to intimidated by my toy dogs to say anything

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