RedMagic1
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My sub/hubby and i have recently talked about chastity. He has a problem with masterbating and this makes him well....lets say not so eager to please sexually and emotionally.He wants to try this as well but i think he is gonna regret it when i start because the thought of controlling his orgasms makes me feel extremely powerful and hot!! He is well endowed and thick. We bought one but to our disapointment it didnt fit so we were considering the curve? I plan on tricking him by tying him up and draining his cock till its a limp noodle! then while hes helplessly restrained im gonna lock him up!!
I've been spending a lot of time with a femdom whose favorite thing is chastity, and, frankly, it's given me a hankering to chastise a nonsexual male slave of my own, because she has so much fun with it. We'll see if I actually do it, but the idea has gone from never-ever a fantasy, to something that I really might do. So I've done some research. Here goes.
The Curve helps for length, but not girth. Perhaps the device that is best for girth is the Birdlocked Neo, based on manufacturers' specs; I don't know anyone who has ever worn it. However, the Birdlocked, and the CB line as well, require a man to have relatively low-hanging balls. If your man's scrotum is usually tight, he will probably need to use a ball stretcher first (of which the leather ones are the simplest and safest to use, though real body-modifiers use stainless steel).
Also, the DickCage seems to be a very interesting apparatus, and could accommodate length, but perhaps it is not suitable for long term chastity.
To address some other comments in the thread: devices do not appear to be that hard to escape from; the issue is that re-insertion can be made almost impossible. So the device does not really prevent masturbation, but rather it holds the wearer accountable. Ultimately, though, unless the wearer is in mental bondage to the dominant, the physical bondage of the device will be insufficient for the task. Like most other bondage we do, especially long-term bondage, the physical tools are intended to reinforce the mental bondage already there, not to be police-grade or prison-grade apparatus that restrains a nonconsensual prisoner.
Finally, regarding long-term chastity: there is a significant psychological danger of inducing impotence, especially if the relationship dissolves. At least with standard over-the-counter devices, the dominant is not just taking away the sub's orgasm; the dominant is taking away the sub's ability to have an erection, to get aroused at all. If you search, for example, among the posts of the user "pixelslave" you will find that he was unable to reconnect to his arousal when in a new loving relationship, and his new Mistress had to spend great effort reprogramming his sexual desires.
The most interesting forums I have found for this topic are at chastitylifestyle.com. Searching this forum for the chastity posts of the user "Aakasha" will get you a lot of information also. Probably the most important slogan to remember when reading any chastity-related material on the internet, though, is, "Don't believe the hype."
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