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DommesLesEnigma -> RE: When is a spanking illegal in your state as it is in California? (4/25/2012 7:48:49 AM)


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ORIGINAL: Madame4a

health... and life saving safety...

big difference...

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ORIGINAL: Exidor

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ORIGINAL: Madame4a
Really... what's below is what you need to worry about... nationwide, its not about specific activities.. NO ONE can consent to assault... and most SM amounts to assault...


A strict interpretation of that might put surgeons and dentists in an interesting legal position...

What's the difference between paying a domme for some edge play and paying a surgeon to lop out a section of ulcerous intestine? Does the written law slice that fine?




I second your

health... and life saving safety...

big difference...


Madame4a

and raise you ten.




DesFIP -> RE: When is a spanking illegal in your state as it is in California? (4/25/2012 9:52:26 AM)


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ORIGINAL: ResidentSadist

As mentioned, it varies from state to state.

I I also wanted to know what my rights were if I took legal guardianship of my slaves, giving the girls my last name and legal dominion over them.




How did you get guardianship without proving that they were incompetent to manage their own affairs? And if it was proved that they were incompetent, then they could not give consent.

In NY after the Brooke Astor case, getting guardianship/conservatorship/proving incompetence is now a legal nightmare which nobody wants to get into. I've had lawyers refuse to touch this in relation to elderly with dementia.




falupe -> RE: When is a spanking illegal in your state as it is in California? (4/25/2012 10:03:24 AM)

Not illegal.




asiansubmissie -> RE: When is a spanking illegal in your state as it is in California? (4/25/2012 11:19:00 AM)


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ORIGINAL: AthenaSurrenders
Can I consent to being caned until the skin breaks?


Isn't the law in the UK that you can't even 'see' a movie with broken skin for caning?




Karmastic -> RE: When is a spanking illegal in your state as it is in California? (4/25/2012 11:51:40 AM)

Disclaimer: I'm no expert on BDSM and the law, and there's lots of good advice here targeted for that. But I can tell you that I do know the general law regarding assault and battery, which fall under "common law" followed by all States except Louisiana. I.e., the basic definitions are the same.

Assault is the threat of physical bodily harm, or even contact. It's incongruous and legal babble nonsense to claim "you can't consent to assault" since the act of consenting means it's not a threat anymore.

Battery is any non-consensual non-incidental contact of any kind, to a person or even what they're holding. The seminal defining US Supt court case - knocking a dish out of a man's hand at a cafe was battery.

It's also legal babble nonsense to claim one cannot consent to a battery. Again, because battery is non-consensual contact. If there's consent, there's no battery. Professional sports, including boxing and football, are great examples of that.

Watch out when someone says something is "illegal" and then goes on to give you what sounds like legal definitions. That combination probably means they don't understand the law.




CastleRock32 -> RE: When is a spanking illegal in your state as it is in California? (4/25/2012 1:12:36 PM)

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ORIGINAL: Karmastic

Disclaimer: I'm no expert on BDSM and the law, and there's lots of good advice here targeted for that. But I can tell you that I do know the general law regarding assault and battery, which fall under "common law" followed by all States except Louisiana. I.e., the basic definitions are the same.

Assault is the threat of physical bodily harm, or even contact. It's incongruous and legal babble nonsense to claim "you can't consent to assault" since the act of consenting means it's not a threat anymore.

Battery is any non-consensual non-incidental contact of any kind, to a person or even what they're holding. The seminal defining US Supt court case - knocking a dish out of a man's hand at a cafe was battery.

It's also legal babble nonsense to claim one cannot consent to a battery. Again, because battery is non-consensual contact. If there's consent, there's no battery. Professional sports, including boxing and football, are great examples of that.

Watch out when someone says something is "illegal" and then goes on to give you what sounds like legal definitions. That combination probably means they don't understand the law.



This does not appear to be true in Washington State.
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(1) A person is guilty of assault in the first degree if he or she, with intent to inflict great bodily harm:

(a) Assaults another with a firearm or any deadly weapon or by any force or means likely to produce great bodily harm or death; or

(b) Administers, exposes, or transmits to or causes to be taken by another, poison, the human immunodeficiency virus as defined in chapter 70.24 RCW, or any other destructive or noxious substance; or

(c) Assaults another and inflicts great bodily harm.

(2) Assault in the first degree is a class A felony.


This is from WA RCW

ETA: RCW Definition of bodily harm

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(4)(a) "Bodily injury," "physical injury," or "bodily harm" means physical pain or injury, illness, or an impairment of physical condition;

(b) "Substantial bodily harm" means bodily injury which involves a temporary but substantial disfigurement, or which causes a temporary but substantial loss or impairment of the function of any bodily part or organ, or which causes a fracture of any bodily part;

(c) "Great bodily harm" means bodily injury which creates a probability of death, or which causes significant serious permanent disfigurement, or which causes a significant permanent loss or impairment of the function of any bodily part or organ;


Note, it says nothing about consent, nor does it define assault as a threat.




subbyinlosangele -> RE: When is a spanking illegal in your state as it is in California? (4/25/2012 1:14:40 PM)


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ORIGINAL: Pyramus

I remember when going through orientation at Edges a long time ago a specific 'protection' procedure for police raids.

Fundamentally, we needed to know ahead of time that a police raid might entail quick customer actions because some typical D/s play activities are, we were told, illegal in California, even when consensual.

For example, it wouldn't otherwise have been obvious that any spanking that a grand jury would deem 'harmful' is actually illegal in California - but the definition of harmful could simply be leaving marks or a slight bruise.

Does anyone have more information about which consensual D/s activities are illegal?



There are lots and lots of laws that, broadly, can be applied to consensual BDSM activities. And, sure, there are some wacky laws on the books, but there really isn't a list that says X, Y, Z activity is illegal in this state, and A, B, C activity is legal in this other state. From a practical standpoint, it's extremely rare for consensual BDSM activities to be prosecuted. More likely than not, when this does happen, it's probably not because of the activity per se, but because the police suspect it really wasn't consensual and was a form of domestic abuse.

My guess is Edges was telling you this stuff as a formality, on the rare, rare chance that the police did raid them, to help protect the club against civil suits.




Blankpain -> RE: When is a spanking illegal in your state as it is in California? (4/25/2012 2:11:23 PM)

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Edges was telling you this stuff as a formality, on the rare, rare chance that the police did raid them, to help protect the club against civil suits.


I have been to club orientations where I'm told when a code word is loudly issued that everyone in the building must cover up immediately. I wouldn't doubt Edges does the same.




Muttling -> RE: When is a spanking illegal in your state as it is in California? (4/25/2012 2:14:12 PM)

Great discussion so far. I am no authority on it at all, but I would like to add a couple of other aspects as food for thought.....

These laws are set up to address a multitude of issues including fights and domestic violence, BDSM isn't even considered when the laws are written.

1st Aspect: Domestic Violence
Many of you are talking what about consensual spankings and I totally agree with you. The problem for law enforcement is when they arrive at a domestic violence situation and the battered spouse doesn't want to press charges. Today's laws have been set up so that the battered individual doesn't have a say in it, the person who committed the assault is getting charged in most states. Now, relate that to a consensual spanking and you have a potential problem if you get an uptight cop (especially a young rookie) who shows up to find one partner leaving bruises on the other's butt.

2nd Aspect: Martial Arts
How is what we do different from sparring at karate classes, boxing gyms, etc.? A good sparring match involves assault AND battery, but it's consensual and you never hear of police busting a karate class for fighting. Heck, most hockey games involve legitimate crimes of assault and battery.




Karmastic -> RE: When is a spanking illegal in your state as it is in California? (4/25/2012 2:28:48 PM)

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ORIGINAL: CastleRock32

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ORIGINAL: Karmastic

Disclaimer: I'm no expert on BDSM and the law, and there's lots of good advice here targeted for that. But I can tell you that I do know the general law regarding assault and battery, which fall under "common law" followed by all States except Louisiana. I.e., the basic definitions are the same.

Assault is the threat of physical bodily harm, or even contact. It's incongruous and legal babble nonsense to claim "you can't consent to assault" since the act of consenting means it's not a threat anymore.

Battery is any non-consensual non-incidental contact of any kind, to a person or even what they're holding. The seminal defining US Supt court case - knocking a dish out of a man's hand at a cafe was battery.

It's also legal babble nonsense to claim one cannot consent to a battery. Again, because battery is non-consensual contact. If there's consent, there's no battery. Professional sports, including boxing and football, are great examples of that.

Watch out when someone says something is "illegal" and then goes on to give you what sounds like legal definitions. That combination probably means they don't understand the law.



This does not appear to be true in Washington State.
quote:

(1) A person is guilty of assault in the first degree if he or she, with intent to inflict great bodily harm:

(a) Assaults another with a firearm or any deadly weapon or by any force or means likely to produce great bodily harm or death; or

(b) Administers, exposes, or transmits to or causes to be taken by another, poison, the human immunodeficiency virus as defined in chapter 70.24 RCW, or any other destructive or noxious substance; or

(c) Assaults another and inflicts great bodily harm.

(2) Assault in the first degree is a class A felony.


This is from WA RCW

ETA: RCW Definition of bodily harm

quote:

(4)(a) "Bodily injury," "physical injury," or "bodily harm" means physical pain or injury, illness, or an impairment of physical condition;

(b) "Substantial bodily harm" means bodily injury which involves a temporary but substantial disfigurement, or which causes a temporary but substantial loss or impairment of the function of any bodily part or organ, or which causes a fracture of any bodily part;

(c) "Great bodily harm" means bodily injury which creates a probability of death, or which causes significant serious permanent disfigurement, or which causes a significant permanent loss or impairment of the function of any bodily part or organ;


Note, it says nothing about consent, nor does it define assault as a threat.

Thank you for looking this up. I always admire someone who goes right to the source and intelligently disagrees (and includes links).

I don't know why (yes, I'm ignorant of why, forgot why) - but many state criminal statutes glob the concept of battery and assault together. I can remember the lecture on why, but literally wasn't paying attention in class that day. But whenever they do this, notice how they call it assault, but they also include the element of battery, which is the actual bodily contact. It also confuses things that the criminal and civil laws can use the same terms differently. This explains why the concepts are so confused. I can assure you though, that my recollection/paraphrasing of the definition came right out of Blacks Law dictionary. The salient element of assault is the attempt or threat of attempt, not the hit. I just looked it up, and Blacks substituted the word "offer" for "threat" in one part, but included in another (see below). Same concept though - assault is a miss, battery is a hit.

Consent and intent aren't usually explicitly stated in laws/codes. Consent is usually a defense, and intent is usually required except for some crimes (such as crimes involving negligence with no mens rea, or intent required).

http://thelawdictionary.org/assault/
An assault is an unlawful attempt, coupled with a present ability, to commit a violent injury on the person of another.




angelikaJ -> RE: When is a spanking illegal in your state as it is in California? (4/25/2012 5:06:08 PM)


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ORIGINAL: Karmastic

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ORIGINAL: CastleRock32

quote:

ORIGINAL: Karmastic

Disclaimer: I'm no expert on BDSM and the law, and there's lots of good advice here targeted for that. But I can tell you that I do know the general law regarding assault and battery, which fall under "common law" followed by all States except Louisiana. I.e., the basic definitions are the same.

Assault is the threat of physical bodily harm, or even contact. It's incongruous and legal babble nonsense to claim "you can't consent to assault" since the act of consenting means it's not a threat anymore.

Battery is any non-consensual non-incidental contact of any kind, to a person or even what they're holding. The seminal defining US Supt court case - knocking a dish out of a man's hand at a cafe was battery.

It's also legal babble nonsense to claim one cannot consent to a battery. Again, because battery is non-consensual contact. If there's consent, there's no battery. Professional sports, including boxing and football, are great examples of that.

Watch out when someone says something is "illegal" and then goes on to give you what sounds like legal definitions. That combination probably means they don't understand the law.



This does not appear to be true in Washington State.
quote:

(1) A person is guilty of assault in the first degree if he or she, with intent to inflict great bodily harm:

(a) Assaults another with a firearm or any deadly weapon or by any force or means likely to produce great bodily harm or death; or

(b) Administers, exposes, or transmits to or causes to be taken by another, poison, the human immunodeficiency virus as defined in chapter 70.24 RCW, or any other destructive or noxious substance; or

(c) Assaults another and inflicts great bodily harm.

(2) Assault in the first degree is a class A felony.


This is from WA RCW

ETA: RCW Definition of bodily harm

quote:

(4)(a) "Bodily injury," "physical injury," or "bodily harm" means physical pain or injury, illness, or an impairment of physical condition;

(b) "Substantial bodily harm" means bodily injury which involves a temporary but substantial disfigurement, or which causes a temporary but substantial loss or impairment of the function of any bodily part or organ, or which causes a fracture of any bodily part;

(c) "Great bodily harm" means bodily injury which creates a probability of death, or which causes significant serious permanent disfigurement, or which causes a significant permanent loss or impairment of the function of any bodily part or organ;


Note, it says nothing about consent, nor does it define assault as a threat.

Thank you for looking this up. I always admire someone who goes right to the source and intelligently disagrees (and includes links).

I don't know why (yes, I'm ignorant of why, forgot why) - but many state criminal statutes glob the concept of battery and assault together. I can remember the lecture on why, but literally wasn't paying attention in class that day. But whenever they do this, notice how they call it assault, but they also include the element of battery, which is the actual bodily contact. It also confuses things that the criminal and civil laws can use the same terms differently. This explains why the concepts are so confused. I can assure you though, that my recollection/paraphrasing of the definition came right out of Blacks Law dictionary. The salient element of assault is the attempt or threat of attempt, not the hit. I just looked it up, and Blacks substituted the word "offer" for "threat" in one part, but included in another (see below). Same concept though - assault is a miss, battery is a hit.

Consent and intent aren't usually explicitly stated in laws/codes. Consent is usually a defense, and intent is usually required except for some crimes (such as crimes involving negligence with no mens rea, or intent required).

http://thelawdictionary.org/assault/
An assault is an unlawful attempt, coupled with a present ability, to commit a violent injury on the person of another.


It again, depends on the state you are in.
The definition I provided pertains to California law.





Karmastic -> RE: When is a spanking illegal in your state as it is in California? (4/25/2012 5:32:27 PM)

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ORIGINAL: angelikaJ
It again, depends on the state you are in.
The definition I provided pertains to California law.

Sorry - I don't know which definition you gave and you didn't reference it. I'm sure if you posted it, it was accurate and done intelligently.

And thank you for pointing out that it depends on the state (even depends on city). I left that out cus others (you?) pointed that out. I should have given an explicit disclaimer (was implicit) that I've been referring to the general concepts of assault and battery, which apply via common law to 49 of 50 states (excludes Louisiana). Common law (roughly speaking) is case law that's followed by 49 states, based on binding and non-binding precedents leading up a hierarchy with the Supreme Court at the top. Common law and precedent apply to both criminal and civil, but the general definitions lend themselves to civil because the statutes/laws/codes can vary even on the city level for criminal.

It just gets me when Bubba-types chime in like they know something, with shit like "it's illegal" for this or that, but Bubba doesn't even understand the basic concepts of the words they're using. Assault is the threat of physical contact, so if you consent, then that vitiates the threat. There's no longer a threat for something that's agreed to; the threat turns into a contractual promise.

And Battery means there's no consent, so of course you can consent to being punched, and it's not battery. That's not "illegal".

shit, this is getting too much like legalese *snorts*




angelikaJ -> RE: When is a spanking illegal in your state as it is in California? (4/25/2012 6:27:44 PM)


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ORIGINAL: Karmastic

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ORIGINAL: angelikaJ
It again, depends on the state you are in.
The definition I provided pertains to California law.

Sorry - I don't know which definition you gave and you didn't reference it. I'm sure if you posted it, it was accurate and done intelligently.

And thank you for pointing out that it depends on the state (even depends on city). I left that out cus others (you?) pointed that out. I should have given an explicit disclaimer (was implicit) that I've been referring to the general concepts of assault and battery, which apply via common law to 49 of 50 states (excludes Louisiana). Common law (roughly speaking) is case law that's followed by 49 states, based on binding and non-binding precedents leading up a hierarchy with the Supreme Court at the top. Common law and precedent apply to both criminal and civil, but the general definitions lend themselves to civil because the statutes/laws/codes can vary even on the city level for criminal.

It just gets me when Bubba-types chime in like they know something, with shit like "it's illegal" for this or that, but Bubba doesn't even understand the basic concepts of the words they're using. Assault is the threat of physical contact, so if you consent, then that vitiates the threat. There's no longer a threat for something that's agreed to; the threat turns into a contractual promise.

And Battery means there's no consent, so of course you can consent to being punched, and it's not battery. That's not "illegal".

shit, this is getting too much like legalese *snorts*



Sorry: I went to a lawyer site for layman's terms, to keep it simple.
http://www.shouselaw.com/assault.html




Karmastic -> RE: When is a spanking illegal in your state as it is in California? (4/25/2012 7:11:01 PM)


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ORIGINAL: angelikaJ


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ORIGINAL: Karmastic

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ORIGINAL: angelikaJ
It again, depends on the state you are in.
The definition I provided pertains to California law.

Sorry - I don't know which definition you gave and you didn't reference it. I'm sure if you posted it, it was accurate and done intelligently.

And thank you for pointing out that it depends on the state (even depends on city). I left that out cus others (you?) pointed that out. I should have given an explicit disclaimer (was implicit) that I've been referring to the general concepts of assault and battery, which apply via common law to 49 of 50 states (excludes Louisiana). Common law (roughly speaking) is case law that's followed by 49 states, based on binding and non-binding precedents leading up a hierarchy with the Supreme Court at the top. Common law and precedent apply to both criminal and civil, but the general definitions lend themselves to civil because the statutes/laws/codes can vary even on the city level for criminal.

It just gets me when Bubba-types chime in like they know something, with shit like "it's illegal" for this or that, but Bubba doesn't even understand the basic concepts of the words they're using. Assault is the threat of physical contact, so if you consent, then that vitiates the threat. There's no longer a threat for something that's agreed to; the threat turns into a contractual promise.

And Battery means there's no consent, so of course you can consent to being punched, and it's not battery. That's not "illegal".

shit, this is getting too much like legalese *snorts*



Sorry: I went to a lawyer site for layman's terms, to keep it simple.
http://www.shouselaw.com/assault.html

yes, good find. CA seems to be what I'm saying, but WA is very different!




another1harder -> RE: When is a spanking illegal in your state as it is in California? (4/26/2012 12:20:00 AM)

Every state is diff. CO has some strange laws. No motorcycle helmets not required, but OMG if you leave marks... When in doubt, walk away. Okay, untie and walk away. We live on the edge of the law. Needless to say don't push. Like motorcycles, you may be right, but don't end up dead-right.




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