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xXLithiumXx -> RE: Do Your Fetishes Get in the Way? (4/26/2012 2:10:14 PM)


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ORIGINAL: Karmastic

my sources say that what shoes a man wears seems to be very important to some women.




I always take my first date at a pool hall. I can read a great deal about how a man shoots billiards, and it's relaxing to be in a place where everyone is focused on something else all together. It's also good for me because I fidget when I get nervous and if I am up moving around shooting pool that isn't as obvious.

Also...Yes...things that I am "over all" attracted to (shoulders, hands, chests, eyes, lips) are all very distracting to me...and once I decide that I am attracted to someone...my brain goes to jello.




SoulAlloy -> RE: Do Your Fetishes Get in the Way? (4/26/2012 2:15:27 PM)

Hehe, last time I played pool on a date I decided to try a trick shot... Miscued and knocked the cue ball sharply onto my date's knuckles... She did forgive me for it though lol




Karmastic -> RE: Do Your Fetishes Get in the Way? (4/26/2012 3:51:44 PM)


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ORIGINAL: SoulAlloy

Hehe, last time I played pool on a date I decided to try a trick shot... Miscued and knocked the cue ball sharply onto my date's knuckles... She did forgive me for it though lol

you should have gently taken her hands and kissed her knuckles boo boo.




LookieNoNookie -> RE: Do Your Fetishes Get in the Way? (4/26/2012 6:54:43 PM)


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ORIGINAL: SoulAlloy

A random question but one that's been bobbing in my head for a while now, looking for the inspiration to phrase it right... The inspiration hasn't come but it's still bugging me

When meeting people do you ever find your fetishes are just too damn distracting? Say for example boots... You aim to be dashing and debonair, but bloody hell those boots look gorgeous... I have a female friend too who has a similar problem with long hair...

Less of a problem in messages on cm, though those ads are a bit distracting sometimes lol

Sometimes I think life would be so much simpler without them, though not half as much fun :p

So do you find yourselves inadvertently overcome by them? Do you train yourselves to ignore them or remain the stuttering wreck or appear to be a bit of a lech?



My best friend is a woman (in case you may not be aware....I'm of the other).

She fucks with me, wearing thigh highs...knowing full well I can't think when she's wearing those damn things.

Somehow I always get the check for dinner :)




WestBaySlave -> RE: Do Your Fetishes Get in the Way? (4/27/2012 6:29:30 AM)


Depending on how one views the terms fetishes, I either have no fetishes, or so many fetishes that they all kind of balance things out and each man I'm interested in is a collection of infinite possibilities.

Yes, how a man looks strongly influence my level of attraction to him, and how he dresses is a factor in that, his genetics and what he's done with his body are factors too. But they don't overwhelm me or prevent me from getting to him.

If being horny is preventing you from getting to know someone you like, jerk-off a few times before going out.




Lucifyre -> RE: Do Your Fetishes Get in the Way? (4/27/2012 8:48:06 AM)


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ORIGINAL: WestBaySlave

If being horny is preventing you from getting to know someone you like, jerk-off a few times before going out.


But then I'm all spent and don't want to go out at all :P




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