RE: Girls are you stronger than me?

Collarspace Discussion Forums

Home Login Search

RE: Girls are you stronger than me?

View related threads: (in this forum | in all forums)

Logged in as: Guest

All Forums >> [Community Discussions] >> General BDSM Discussion >> RE: Girls are you stronger than me?

Page: << < prev 3 4 5 [6] 7 next > >>

Message

<< Older Topic Newer Topic >>

RE: Girls are you stronger than me? - 4/27/2012 3:19:35 PM

spideycool69

Posts: 100
Joined: 1/14/2012
Status: offline

quote:

ORIGINAL: Hillwilliam

quote:

ORIGINAL: spideycool69

If I apply a technique like sprawling, will I be able to avoid getting pinned? Sprawling does seem effective. I don't know.

A 'sprawl' only works against a leg shot.

So, you have any other techniques in mind? :P

(in reply to Hillwilliam)

Profile

Post #: 101

RE: Girls are you stronger than me? - 4/27/2012 3:23:45 PM

spideycool69

Posts: 100
Joined: 1/14/2012
Status: offline

quote:

ORIGINAL: Bhruic

quote:

ORIGINAL: spideycool69

I'm 23 years old man and I'm 5'4 tall. I weights 108 pounds.Can you pin me?

I'm curious about it so I wanna know. I can't ask this in person so I'm posting it on here.

But you can't verify if any answer here is true, so why ask?

Well, people ask different questions on different websites and they also can't verify if any answer they got is true.

(in reply to Bhruic)

Profile

Post #: 102

RE: Girls are you stronger than me? - 4/27/2012 9:29:29 PM

outhere69

Posts: 1302
Joined: 1/25/2011
Status: offline

Jeez, fella, give it a rest. If you really want to know, go out and try it.

(in reply to spideycool69)

Profile

Post #: 103

RE: Girls are you stronger than me? - 4/28/2012 7:02:39 AM

mnottertail

Posts: 60698
Joined: 11/3/2004
Status: offline

quote:

ORIGINAL: spideycool69

quote:

ORIGINAL: mnottertail

quote:

ORIGINAL: spideycool69

If I apply a technique like sprawling, will I be able to avoid getting pinned? Sprawling does seem effective. I don't know.

I have a complete confidence that Gidtha can throw you around like a fuckin ragdoll, and sprawling will probably get you into a hell of an armbar submission.

Who's Gidtha?

Ghita Amati

_____________________________

Have they not divided the prey; to every man a damsel or two? Judges 5:30

(in reply to spideycool69)

Profile

Post #: 104

RE: Girls are you stronger than me? - 4/28/2012 1:10:57 PM

Karmastic

Posts: 1650
Joined: 4/5/2012
From: Los Angeles
Status: offline

quote:

ORIGINAL: JanahX

I dont know what youre talking about -

i was joking around.

(in reply to JanahX)

Profile

Post #: 105

RE: Girls are you stronger than me? - 4/28/2012 3:12:39 PM

graceadieu

Posts: 1518
Joined: 3/20/2008
From: Maryland
Status: offline

quote:

ORIGINAL: LadyHibiscus

There are actual wrestling clubs and MMA groups, it seems to be some kind of masochistic keep-fit strategy. Why not find a group and join one?

I don't know, I do martial arts, and if I were sparring some guy at the dojang and he got an erection because of his getting-his-ass-kicked-by-a-girl fetish, I'd be really grossed out.

At that point he'd be involving people in his kink without their consent, which is really not okay.

So maybe he should just stick to looking for a Domme with a black belt or something.

(in reply to LadyHibiscus)

Profile

Post #: 106

RE: Girls are you stronger than me? - 4/28/2012 3:40:38 PM

spideycool69

Posts: 100
Joined: 1/14/2012
Status: offline

quote:

ORIGINAL: JanahX

I totally agree - w/ chatteparfaitt > she hit it right on the nose

All I have to say at this point about this thread is - B O R I N G !!!
quote:

ORIGINAL: ChatteParfaitt

Isn't this where you started, OP?

We get it, you get humiliated and turned on by the idea of a chick taking you down, or beating you in arm wrestling, or whatevah.

Great.

On these forums what you are doing is considered asking for wank fodder (having a discussion about things that turn you on). In other words, you don't seem to want to discuss, just get your own kink on. As much as (most of us) love sex on these boards, that's actually frowned on.

And yeah, there is probably some young chickie willing to play wrestle with you in the way you want, if you look hard enough. Try a munch for young people, maybe you come across better in person.

Why do you think I have a fetish?

When I started this thread you said: "c'mon over and lets find out !!"

I said: "I wanna know the answer. I just don't wanna know it through some physical experience. What if you are able to pin me? That would be embarrassing."

You then said: "Why dont you just ask everyone here - do I have a piece of spinach in my teeth? No-No, dont look - I just want to know -"
So I thought you were mad at me or something so I said: "Yea you're right. So yea I'll come over and we'll find out."

(in reply to JanahX)

Profile

Post #: 107

RE: Girls are you stronger than me? - 4/28/2012 3:45:08 PM

JanahX

Posts: 3443
Joined: 8/21/2010
Status: offline

pssst ... you.. yeah... you......

here I got something for you .....

hands you a CLUE

_____________________________

The first rule of Fight Club is you do not talk about Fight Club.

The second rule of Fight Club is you do not talk about Fight Club.

(in reply to spideycool69)

Profile

Post #: 108

RE: Girls are you stronger than me? - 4/28/2012 3:46:46 PM

spideycool69

Posts: 100
Joined: 1/14/2012
Status: offline

quote:

ORIGINAL: graceadieu

quote:

ORIGINAL: LadyHibiscus

There are actual wrestling clubs and MMA groups, it seems to be some kind of masochistic keep-fit strategy. Why not find a group and join one?

I don't know, I do martial arts, and if I were sparring some guy at the dojang and he got an erection because of his getting-his-ass-kicked-by-a-girl fetish, I'd be really grossed out. At that point he'd be involving people in his kink without their consent, which is really not okay.

So maybe he should just stick to looking for a Domme with a black belt or something.

I'm interested in joining a male oriented wrestling club because I don't want to risk losing to a girl. That would be embarrassing as hell to me. I really don't get you people. When I say that I'm afraid of losing to a girl. People start saying that I'm afraid of girls and they don't want to be around guys who are afraid of girls. And, then when I say that I'm not afraid anymore and I actually wanna find out whether I can beat a girl or not..they accuse me of having a fetish..Just see it for yourself. Go through the whole thread.

(in reply to graceadieu)

Profile

Post #: 109

RE: Girls are you stronger than me? - 4/28/2012 3:51:27 PM

spideycool69

Posts: 100
Joined: 1/14/2012
Status: offline

quote:

ORIGINAL: JanahX

pssst ... you.. yeah... you......

here I got something for you .....

hands you a CLUE

I don't understand...

(in reply to JanahX)

Profile

Post #: 110

RE: Girls are you stronger than me? - 4/28/2012 3:56:39 PM

spideycool69

Posts: 100
Joined: 1/14/2012
Status: offline

quote:

ORIGINAL: mnottertail

quote:

ORIGINAL: spideycool69

quote:

ORIGINAL: mnottertail

quote:

ORIGINAL: spideycool69

If I apply a technique like sprawling, will I be able to avoid getting pinned? Sprawling does seem effective. I don't know.

I have a complete confidence that Gidtha can throw you around like a fuckin ragdoll, and sprawling will probably get you into a hell of an armbar submission.

Who's Gidtha?

Ghita Amati

Is he a wrestler or something? I can't seem to find him on google. I suck at browsing. :P

(in reply to mnottertail)

Profile

Post #: 111

RE: Girls are you stronger than me? - 4/28/2012 5:26:34 PM

LookieNoNookie

Posts: 12216
Joined: 8/9/2008
Status: offline

quote:

ORIGINAL: spideycool69

I'm 23 years old man and I'm 5'4 tall. I weights 108 pounds.Can you pin me?

I'm curious about it so I wanna know. I can't ask this in person so I'm posting it on here.

I know what pinning is....there's too gawdamn many new social things that we all have to be aware of and it's too damn gawdamn confusing.

Ya know....when I was youngster....I had to use a 26 KB modem to get a chic.....I had to walk 3 miles in BARE feet (UP FUCKING HILL!!!!!....IN THE SNOW!!!!!!!!!) to FIND someone with a 26 KB modem to find a chic....you youngsters only have to sign on....state your affairs and off you go!

What the fuck is the world coming to?

(in reply to spideycool69)

Profile

Post #: 112

RE: Girls are you stronger than me? - 4/28/2012 5:53:44 PM

graceadieu

Posts: 1518
Joined: 3/20/2008
From: Maryland
Status: offline

quote:

ORIGINAL: spideycool69

quote:

ORIGINAL: graceadieu

quote:

ORIGINAL: LadyHibiscus

There are actual wrestling clubs and MMA groups, it seems to be some kind of masochistic keep-fit strategy. Why not find a group and join one?

I don't know, I do martial arts, and if I were sparring some guy at the dojang and he got an erection because of his getting-his-ass-kicked-by-a-girl fetish, I'd be really grossed out. At that point he'd be involving people in his kink without their consent, which is really not okay.

So maybe he should just stick to looking for a Domme with a black belt or something.

I'm interested in joining a male oriented wrestling club because I don't want to risk losing to a girl. That would be embarrassing as hell to me. I really don't get you people. When I say that I'm afraid of losing to a girl. People start saying that I'm afraid of girls and they don't want to be around guys who are afraid of girls. And, then when I say that I'm not afraid anymore and I actually wanna find out whether I can beat a girl or not..they accuse me of having a fetish..Just see it for yourself. Go through the whole thread.

The way you brought it up - and the fact that you asked it on a BDSM discussion section of a kink site - made it much seem like that you were asking a question about a fetish you have. I.e., that you get off on the idea of being humiliated by having a woman beat you in a fight.

Edit: Which is a totally fine and normal kink to have, and nothing to be embarassed about if you do feel that way. I remember a buddy of mine that used to be a pro-domme saying some of her clients were into this, but she wasn't physically capable of it.

If that was not your intention, well, sorry, but that's how it came across. Maybe you should be asking this question on a martial arts site, or even one of the non-kink parts of this one, if the question is purely academic? For what it's worth, yes, I probably could beat you, especially since it sounds like you don't have any training. I'm not an awesome martial artist or anything, and guys do have a strength advantage, but since you're apparently both smaller and less experienced than me, I'm pretty sure I'd win. Which, to be totally clear, since this thread hasn't been, isn't a threat or a proposition - just answering your question.

< Message edited by graceadieu -- 4/28/2012 5:57:02 PM >

(in reply to spideycool69)

Profile

Post #: 113

RE: Girls are you stronger than me? - 4/28/2012 6:00:22 PM

Karmastic

Posts: 1650
Joined: 4/5/2012
From: Los Angeles
Status: offline

quote:

ORIGINAL: graceadieu
...Which, to be totally clear, since this thread hasn't been, isn't a threat or a proposition - just answering your question.

good thing you made that clear

i think he's trying to get play in the forum side. he did take my email advice to lose the creepy looking picture.

(in reply to graceadieu)

Profile

Post #: 114

RE: Girls are you stronger than me? - 4/28/2012 6:30:48 PM

spideycool69

Posts: 100
Joined: 1/14/2012
Status: offline

quote:

ORIGINAL: graceadieu

quote:

ORIGINAL: spideycool69

quote:

ORIGINAL: graceadieu

quote:

ORIGINAL: LadyHibiscus

There are actual wrestling clubs and MMA groups, it seems to be some kind of masochistic keep-fit strategy. Why not find a group and join one?

I don't know, I do martial arts, and if I were sparring some guy at the dojang and he got an erection because of his getting-his-ass-kicked-by-a-girl fetish, I'd be really grossed out. At that point he'd be involving people in his kink without their consent, which is really not okay.

So maybe he should just stick to looking for a Domme with a black belt or something.

I'm interested in joining a male oriented wrestling club because I don't want to risk losing to a girl. That would be embarrassing as hell to me. I really don't get you people. When I say that I'm afraid of losing to a girl. People start saying that I'm afraid of girls and they don't want to be around guys who are afraid of girls. And, then when I say that I'm not afraid anymore and I actually wanna find out whether I can beat a girl or not..they accuse me of having a fetish..Just see it for yourself. Go through the whole thread.

The way you brought it up - and the fact that you asked it on a BDSM discussion section of a kink site - made it much seem like that you were asking a question about a fetish you have. I.e., that you get off on the idea of being humiliated by having a woman beat you in a fight.

Edit: Which is a totally fine and normal kink to have, and nothing to be embarassed about if you do feel that way. I remember a buddy of mine that used to be a pro-domme saying some of her clients were into this, but she wasn't physically capable of it.

If that was not your intention, well, sorry, but that's how it came across. Maybe you should be asking this question on a martial arts site, or even one of the non-kink parts of this one, if the question is purely academic? For what it's worth, yes, I probably could beat you, especially since it sounds like you don't have any training. I'm not an awesome martial artist or anything, and guys do have a strength advantage, but since you're apparently both smaller and less experienced than me, I'm pretty sure I'd win. Which, to be totally clear, since this thread hasn't been, isn't a threat or a proposition - just answering your question.

The reason I asked that question here is because people here know about BDSM so i figured they would know whether height and weight can be a major factor in winning or losing over a girl in a fight. I'm not concerned about winning or losing to a guy because some guys can be stronger than others and that's normal. But, I am concerned about winning or losing over a girl. So, I wanted to know whether my height and weight would make me lose to a girl.

Another reason why I asked here is because I'm a member and I wanted to make good use of it. :P

If I had a fetish, I would have instead asked: "I'm 5'4 and 108 pounds. Will you pin me down?"

And, since you're a martial artist can you answer a question? Do you think sprawling is a good technique to avoid getting pinned in spite of being short and a light weight?

(in reply to graceadieu)

Profile

Post #: 115

RE: Girls are you stronger than me? - 4/29/2012 10:59:37 AM

graceadieu

Posts: 1518
Joined: 3/20/2008
From: Maryland
Status: offline

quote:

ORIGINAL: spideycool69
And, since you're a martial artist can you answer a question? Do you think sprawling is a good technique to avoid getting pinned in spite of being short and a light weight?

Well, sprawling is an MMA technique, and my experience with grappling is in hapkido, which focuses mostly on things like joint locks, throws, pressure points and chokes. So I really couldn't say much about sprawling.

I can tell you that a well-executed joint lock works regardless of size (though a stronger opponent will have an easier time applying them to you, and also escaping them if you don't do it quite right), because you're forcing your opponent's joint to move in ways they're simply not able to go without breaking or tearing something. Nobody's wrists turn 360°, and nobody's elbow bends backwards, no matter how big and strong they are. Throws can work on bigger opponents too, if you lift with your legs - I've even seen a 10-year old girl throw a grown man over her shoulder. Granted, he was standing there letting her do it, but it was still pretty sweet!

< Message edited by graceadieu -- 4/29/2012 11:00:36 AM >

(in reply to spideycool69)

Profile

Post #: 116

RE: Girls are you stronger than me? - 5/5/2012 2:44:10 AM

DommesLesEnigma

Posts: 108
Joined: 2/12/2012
Status: offline

quote:

ORIGINAL: Karmastic

quote:

ORIGINAL: graceadieu
...Which, to be totally clear, since this thread hasn't been, isn't a threat or a proposition - just answering your question.

good thing you made that clear i think he's trying to get play in the forum side. he did take my email advice to lose the creepy looking picture.

Picture does look better....

_____________________________

There are many people that have found their way. The great ones are those that help others find their way.

(in reply to Karmastic)

Profile

Post #: 117

RE: Girls are you stronger than me? - 5/5/2012 6:42:50 AM

irishayes

Posts: 9
Joined: 12/26/2009
Status: offline

quote:

And, since you're a martial artist can you answer a question? Do you think sprawling is a good technique to avoid getting pinned in spite of being short and a light weight?

Ok, assuming that this is at least a semi serious question, let me say this. As someone with a decent amount of experience in Brazilian jiu-jitsu and submission wrestling in general, the answer is...your question is super broad.

Sprawling is a defensive wrestling technique that you use when someone is trying to shoot in on your legs in order to get a hold of them and either pick you up and dump you on your head in a throw, or suck your legs forward in order to get you flat on the mat for a pin or dominant position (we don't really have "pins" in BJJ at least not in the sense that you can end a match like that). For people who don't know anything about wrestling, imagine basically that you're standing up, then you kick your feet out from under you and attempt to get your hips flat down to the mat as quickly as possible and that's, in a super simplified explanation, a "sprawl". So....can you use a sprawl to avoid getting pinned? Well....yes, but sprawling is one small part of wrestling and won't do you much good without a lot of practice and knowing when/how/why to use it. Also doesn't do you much good once you're on the ground.

So, asking if a sprawl is a good technique against getting pinned is a little like asking if buy a Honda is a good idea. In other words, details about the specific situation really matter. In short, if you are serious about learning how to wrestle, yes, a sprawl is something you'll need to work on, but that is just the tip of the iceberg and in a lot of situations won't have anything at all to do with why you're getting crushed. In other words, wrestling is like a giant ocean and you're focusing on a single wave.

On a related note, just as a general statement and not specifically about you, if there are any guys out there with this as a kink that's cool but understand that it would be a VERY bad idea to walk into any BJJ/Judo/MMA/Sub wrestling school with the goal of getting your fantasies fulfilled. I know my gym has had calls/visits from guys like that and they out themselves very quickly and are generally given one chance to leave before the problem is "handled" in house by one of the senior students.

(in reply to spideycool69)

Profile

Post #: 118

RE: Girls are you stronger than me? - 5/5/2012 7:10:35 AM

DesFIP

Posts: 25191
Joined: 11/25/2007
From: Apple County NY
Status: offline

If you're really afraid of losing a fight with a woman, I have the perfect answer.

Don't date violent women. Only date women who aren't interested in beating men up. Don't start fights. Don't engage in fights. Be an adult who only dates other adults.

Most women aren't going to try to wrestle with you out of the blue. If one does, and you tell her to stop, and she doesn't. Then don't see her again.

It really is that simple.

_____________________________

Slave to laundry

Cynical and proud of it!

(in reply to irishayes)

Profile

Post #: 119

RE: Girls are you stronger than me? - 5/5/2012 3:49:44 PM

Wheldrake

Posts: 477
Status: offline

quote:

ORIGINAL: spideycool69

What's the harm in asking? I was curious about knowing whether my height, my weight and my biceps would lead to me being weak in front of certain females. I didn't care about being weak in front of males because I'm a guy and some guys can be tougher than others. What bothered me was the idea of me being weak in front of girls.

I don't see why this is such a problem. Yes, some women are bigger, stronger, and (in all likelihood) more skilled and experienced than you, and they could probably pin you with one hand tied behind their back. But it's silly to think that, just because you're male, you should be stronger or tougher than all the women you interact with. Humans vary, and even if males are stronger and tougher on average (which is true only for some kinds of strength and toughness) there will always be some women who are stronger and tougher than the vast majority of men. It's just reality, and there's no reason it should bother you.

(in reply to spideycool69)

Profile

Post #: 120