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I am so stupid. - 4/29/2012 1:54:26 AM

VanessaChaland

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You know how something should have been so painfully obvious...but you just didn't get it? Its like its slapping you in the face, but you could never quite grasp it....until now.

Earlier I logged in and ran to the kitchen to get something to eat. Not thinking about it being a weekend, and being naive, I get busy, come back a half hour later and my "in box" is just inundated with requests. Requests for cam sessions, for chat with Pay pal payments and tributes and offers of all kinds. Just a surprise and sort of overwhelming at first, and then it struck me.......

Having had a hiatus from CollarMe for a time, since returning I have been surprised by the rabid hostility of so many of the other women here. I mean its just shocking how the pettiness, the bitchiness, the catty remarks, the "lighthearted" insults and jabs.

I couldn't figure it out as I've never "met" any of them. Now I get it. :)

Some, maybe many, of "FemDoms" here, you know the ones that live here and have 20,000+ posts, are sitting around waiting for guys to offer them Pay Pal money for chats etc, lol. I never would have guessed that as I never knew you could even do that.

So, whenever an infrequent female visitor stops by, or a new attractive female joins, they see it as an incursion on their "turf", because they assume (incorrectly) that its just another charge by the minute Domme.

So listen Chickie/Dommes, you can back off. I don't cam. I don't do Pro-Domme stuff. I don't do charge for chat stuff. I have never done any of that and never will. I am not here to take away your "clients" and your few dollars for, ummm, cough, cough, "Domination" services.

Sorry that I caused you distress and perhaps made you worry how you would pay the rent. But seriously, I am not after your man, your men, your clients, your "business" ventures, lol, so you can calm down and rest easier. :)

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RE: I am so stupid. - 4/29/2012 2:13:10 AM

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Oh how sad. Please do come back and tell us how many folks message you to agree with your assessment of the bitchy females on here.

And, I bet this lil post makes you able to charge more, since you can tell em you are only doing it for them too!

Win/win.

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RE: I am so stupid. - 4/29/2012 2:29:15 AM

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I'm confused to what was the purpose of the OP. Who are these pro-Dommes with 20,000+ posts you are talking about? Awfully vague.

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RE: I am so stupid. - 4/29/2012 2:46:19 AM

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I do not get the purpose of the opening post either.

1. Her in-box is inundated, apparently by men who want this or that. She never mentions these men again.
2. Females are bitchy, but apparently have not inundated her in-box.
3. There are pro-dommes here who see her as competition and who ought to back-off.

My conclusion: VC is a mightily confused guy and a troll. (Any guy who pretends to be female is mightily confused.)

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RE: I am so stupid. - 4/29/2012 4:24:32 AM

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OP's contention is that an attractive Domme can fleece the finsubs like shooting fish in a barrel. She then considers her ability to attract finsubs to be an unwitting but deadly challenge to the fiefdommes of the pro Dommes here. She's overlooking that her success reflects supply and demand, that there's lots of finsubs to go around.

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RE: I am so stupid. - 4/29/2012 4:29:48 AM

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At last, a witty and amusing reply.
Thank you. :)

quote:

ORIGINAL: DarkSteven

OP's contention is that an attractive Domme can fleece the finsubs like shooting fish in a barrel. She then considers her ability to attract finsubs to be an unwitting but deadly challenge to the fiefdommes of the pro Dommes here. She's overlooking that her success reflects supply and demand, that there's lots of finsubs to go around.

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RE: I am so stupid. - 4/29/2012 4:51:31 AM

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I don't do any of the above either. So, we are cool :)

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RE: I am so stupid. - 4/29/2012 4:55:06 AM

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I have been here quite awhile and am fairly sure that the dislike that you are perceiving has something to do with your attempts to steamroll over people.

I have seen entire conversations conducted between you and other people in which you refer to things that you both know about but aren't mentioned.

So, how about this: drop the victim bit, treat people fairly and stop referring to things that are between the lines.

Whatever is between you and mysterious others is between you and them....unless you insist on carrying it around with you, where you drop it, spill it and we end up tripping over it.

You are a grown up.
Engage like a grown up.

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RE: I am so stupid. - 4/29/2012 5:07:19 AM

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quote:

Earlier I logged in and ran to the kitchen to get something to eat. Not thinking about it being a weekend, and being naive, I get busy, come back a half hour later and my "in box" is just inundated with requests. Requests for cam sessions, for chat with Pay pal payments and tributes and offers of all kinds. Just a surprise and sort of overwhelming at first, and then it struck me.......

Oh, please. You've been back for over a month and promote your blog in every post via your signature line. This thread is yet more shameless self-promotion.

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RE: I am so stupid. - 4/29/2012 5:36:23 AM

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Yall are mean. All she wants to do is sell furniture. She puts all kinds of naked pics with the furniture to set her apart from the lowlifes that try to use sex to make money off poor unsuspecting guys.

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RE: I am so stupid. - 4/29/2012 5:45:56 AM

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By mentioning "naked pics" you have become her minion.

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RE: I am so stupid. - 4/29/2012 5:46:43 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: kalikshama

quote:

Earlier I logged in and ran to the kitchen to get something to eat. Not thinking about it being a weekend, and being naive, I get busy, come back a half hour later and my "in box" is just inundated with requests. Requests for cam sessions, for chat with Pay pal payments and tributes and offers of all kinds. Just a surprise and sort of overwhelming at first, and then it struck me.......

Oh, please. You've been back for over a month and promote your blog in every post via your signature line. This thread is yet more shameless self-promotion.

Ah you mean this http://cuckoldletters.blogspot.com/ and maybe this http://www.fetishfurniturefactory.com/ - thanks for the heads up!

quote:

ORIGINAL: JstAnotherSub
Yall are mean. All she wants to do is sell furniture. She puts all kinds of naked pics with the furniture to set her apart from the lowlifes that try to use sex to make money off poor unsuspecting guys.

Well doesn't someone have to show those silly subs how it works?

< Message edited by Anaxagoras -- 4/29/2012 5:54:04 AM >

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RE: I am so stupid. - 4/29/2012 5:49:02 AM

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Sigh. Another assimilation.

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RE: I am so stupid. - 4/29/2012 5:51:53 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: kitkat105

I'm confused to what was the purpose of the OP. Who are these pro-Dommes with 20,000+ posts you are talking about? Awfully vague.

Well the title of the thread is "I am so stupid" so maybe the op was just to show us how stupid she could really be. I have to admit that I agree, the idea that the posters she is slamming are really just posting here while they wait for pay piggies is about the stupidest thing I have ever heard.

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RE: I am so stupid. - 4/29/2012 5:53:33 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: kalikshama

By mentioning "naked pics" you have become her minion.

Don't be callin me bad names like that!

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RE: I am so stupid. - 4/29/2012 6:01:39 AM

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quote:

I'm confused to what was the purpose of the OP. Who are these pro-Dommes with 20,000+ posts you are talking about? Awfully vague.

I looked the posters I know to be current pro-dommes and none have over 20,000 posts. Of course, if she'd mentioned any actual posters she'd be violating the TOS.

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RE: I am so stupid. - 4/29/2012 6:51:41 AM

VanessaChaland

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Isn't it great how some never, ever, ever, post an original message themselves, but lay lurking, just waiting until someone posts something so they can pounce like jackals or other vultures, looking for a free dinner, lol.

Something I learned many years ago, there are those that create and those that are critics. Those that are critics lack the desire, knowledge, balls, spine and gumption to actually make, or do anything themselves. Yet they are the first to slam someone else's CD, movie, website, book, clothing line, invention, design, creation etc. Movie critics, music critics, book critics, restaurant critics, sports, theatre, car designs, purses, shoes, whatever you can name. Doers versus complainers. And those that are perpetual malcontents actually think that those of us who are perpetual creators give a flying fuck what they think, lol. :)

Press on Ye faithful masses of sheep that have never had an original thought.
For the rest, thank you for "getting it". :)

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RE: I am so stupid. - 4/29/2012 7:05:02 AM

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In my humble opinion, the title of your post says it all.

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RE: I am so stupid. - 4/29/2012 7:07:19 AM

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I think it is funny as hell that this post is in reply to kali who starts more threads than anyone else who has responded, with the possible exception of ds. It is also amusing that you thank the ones who got it. As far as I can tell, no one has implied that except one.

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RE: I am so stupid. - 4/29/2012 7:07:59 AM

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Agrees with masmiss.

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