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crossdressing with lad? turn on/off for me? - 4/29/2012 11:09:53 AM   
curiousman2011


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Status: offline 		can people give me an opinion, should i crossdress or wont it suit me? all opinions are noted and thanks for reading :)
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RE: crossdressing with lad? turn on/off for me? - 4/29/2012 11:17:16 AM   
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RE: crossdressing with lad? turn on/off for me? - 4/29/2012 11:19:50 AM   
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can people give me an opinion, should i crossdress or wont it suit me?

Nobody here knows you. How would we know what would or wouldn't suit you?

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RE: crossdressing with lad? turn on/off for me? - 4/29/2012 11:21:40 AM   
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Status: offline 		What a cutie !! Yeah, I think you'd make a great chick.

But, like DS said, we can't answer that kind of question for you. If you feel a strong need to cross dress, then do it. Why not?

Some fem dommes like it, others don't, some people think it means you're gay, it doesn't.

You are very young, the perfect age to learn, discover, and explore yourself and your sexuality. As long as it is safe and consensual and seems sane to you, what's the issue?



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RE: crossdressing with lad? turn on/off for me? - 4/29/2012 11:26:03 AM   
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Status: offline 		Are you asking if it would suit you as far as how it would look on you, or if it would suit you and be something you find fun to do?

After looking at your profile pics it seems that with your build and looks that you'd look fine as a cross dresser, so if that's what you meant I'd say sure...it would suit you.

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RE: crossdressing with lad? turn on/off for me? - 4/29/2012 11:39:03 AM   
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RE: crossdressing with lad? turn on/off for me? - 4/29/2012 11:42:03 AM   
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Status: offline 		Go find your self a nice gay bar and start hanging out with the drag queens. Tell them you are not sure if this is something that interests you or not and ask questions. Remember to always be respectful, it's much easier to catch bees with honey as the saying goes. They might even have an amateur night were you can try it out and not be afraid of being put down for it. Judging by your pics, you should be able to pull it off if it is really something you find out you like.

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RE: crossdressing with lad? turn on/off for me? - 4/29/2012 6:15:24 PM   
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Status: offline 		anyone can cross-dress, regardless of looks. That said, you might be more "passable," due to your body build and face type. But really, it comes down to desire. A four hundred pound man with a ZZ Top beard can cross dress if he wants to.

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RE: crossdressing with lad? turn on/off for me? - 4/29/2012 6:40:59 PM   
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Status: offline 		I regret immensely not starting earlier so I say go for it : ) Granted, my goals are little more than cross-dressing.

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RE: crossdressing with lad? turn on/off for me? - 4/29/2012 11:19:59 PM   
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ORIGINAL: LadyHibiscus

Go to the thrift store, buy some stuff, take it home and dress up. Never know until you try!


This advice is sound :)

Crossdressing was one of my limits when I started out, until going to Rocky Horror and finding it was quite empowering to feel that sexy.

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RE: crossdressing with lad? turn on/off for me? - 4/30/2012 5:33:58 AM   
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What they said. While I'm not "into" cd, I agree that you could very easily pass as a lady-boy. It's up to you whether it "suits you."

Please consider changing one thing on your profile, so as not to send anyone into an epileptic seizure: Your profile "bio's" text and background. The contrast is rather jarring. On the other hand, someone who has color vision deficiency probably won't see it, at all. lol

Best luck!
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RE: crossdressing with lad? turn on/off for me? - 4/30/2012 7:57:26 AM   
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Status: offline 		thank you for all the advice :D i meant wud i look good in girl clothing and i will change my profile and wud anyone be interested in me as a slave as im new :S

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RE: crossdressing with lad? turn on/off for me? - 4/30/2012 12:55:52 PM   
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ORIGINAL: curiousman2011

thank you for all the advice :D i meant wud i look good in girl clothing and i will change my profile and wud anyone be interested in me as a slave as im new :S


How, exactly, do you think we're going to know whether or not you "look good" in women's clothing? We've never seen you in women's clothes and "good" is subjective. The question is whether or not cross-dressing is one of your kinks. If it is, put it in your profile. If not, then don't.

As for whether or not anyone would be interested in you, the answer is always going to be "yes" there will be someone who will be interested. The question then becomes whether or not you're going to connect with that person here. The answer to that question is "probably not" since most of the women on this message board don't care for it or are only interested in that sort of thing with an established partner. You might have some success on the profiles side and you will definitely have better luck if you get out into your local community and meet people.

tl;dr - Find a partner who likes you for you before you worry about getting your kink on.


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RE: crossdressing with lad? turn on/off for me? - 4/30/2012 1:06:57 PM   
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ORIGINAL: curiousman2011

thank you for all the advice :D i meant wud i look good in girl clothing and i will change my profile and wud anyone be interested in me as a slave as im new :S


Judging from your pics, yes I think you would look good. As to being interested in you as a slave. It's possible, but you are on the wrong side of the pond for that to happen. Are there any groups in your area? I have found the best way to meet people is to go out and mix with others.

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RE: crossdressing with lad? turn on/off for me? - 6/7/2012 6:50:16 PM   
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RE: crossdressing with lad? turn on/off for me? - 6/7/2012 8:55:47 PM   
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ORIGINAL: ChatteParfaitt

What a cutie !! Yeah, I think you'd make a great chick.

But, like DS said, we can't answer that kind of question for you. If you feel a strong need to cross dress, then do it. Why not?

Some fem dommes like it, others don't, some people think it means you're gay, it doesn't.

You are very young, the perfect age to learn, discover, and explore yourself and your sexuality. As long as it is safe and consensual and seems sane to you, what's the issue?




Yep. It's what you like. Enjoy.

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RE: crossdressing with lad? turn on/off for me? - 6/7/2012 8:57:20 PM   
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Do what makes you happy



Well, you're not old enough to need a loan so.....yeah, for now go with that.

In 15 years....do what makes your bank happy.

(And always remember to tip your waitress).

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