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sweeteass -> Tributes (4/29/2012 10:10:44 PM)

There are almost no profiles, any more, without the ubiquitous tributes and financial demands, as part of a female dominant profile. Also, almost every domme couches behind covert requests for a participating sub to join some additional, extraneous model site link...all to charge fees and extract extra income for dommes, as prerequisites, before a sub can even introduce himself to a domme. This is all absurd, and stems from the greed that is now attached to the BDSM community on Collarme. It is profit motive pure and simple, with the excuse that "I am a pro, and you must be serious...or don't call me."

This used to be a place to meet lifestyle people. No more. It is now a haven for profit and income.



LadyHibiscus -> RE: Tributes (4/29/2012 10:12:51 PM)

If one more whiner comes here to start a thread about moneygrubbers I am going to start screaming.

BLOCK HIDE DELETE IGNORE.



LadyPact -> RE: Tributes (4/29/2012 10:25:06 PM)

I don't know what to tell you, OP.  I'm still meeting people just fine.  Last weekend, I was at the community dungeon with several other folks who are also on this site. 

These days, I do have a link set on My forum posts.  It's a website for our state's three day leather/BDSM event.  It costs nothing for people to click the link and read the details about it.  I'm one of the presenters there this year, but I make no money for speaking at the event.  Since one of My classes is wax play, I may be selling some of the paraffin candles that I've made so people can have the same type as they will see in the presentation.  I won't be making a profit off of those.  They are basically going for cost.

I'm sorry you seem to be having so much difficulty.  Have you ever considered that it might be your avatar?  Some lifestyle chicks, such as Myself, won't engage with anyone with a genital shot or an ass pic.



fetisheden -> RE: Tributes (4/29/2012 10:27:26 PM)

you sound bitter.if you want to meet people, cut off the computer, then leave the house.plenty of fetish clubs in the world. no need to whine about things you do not understand



LadyConstanze -> RE: Tributes (4/29/2012 11:35:04 PM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: sweeteass

There are almost no profiles, any more, without the ubiquitous tributes and financial demands, as part of a female dominant profile. Also, almost every domme couches behind covert requests for a participating sub to join some additional, extraneous model site link...all to charge fees and extract extra income for dommes, as prerequisites, before a sub can even introduce himself to a domme. This is all absurd, and stems from the greed that is now attached to the BDSM community on Collarme. It is profit motive pure and simple, with the excuse that "I am a pro, and you must be serious...or don't call me."

This used to be a place to meet lifestyle people. No more. It is now a haven for profit and income.


What's absurd is that there are actually TONS of profiles that do not ask for anything, in fact, I put a journal entry up explaining why I don't want guys offering to send me presents. I would suggest that you think what you got to offer (apart from pictures of your butt - seems a bit narcissistic to me, had to actually check your profile because your avatar here made me think you're female) and then not contact professional female dominants, because they're not going to service you for free, just like a plumber won't fix your pipes for free.

Your profile is a great whine fest (you should offer some cheese with it), then you try the old old thing about what a challenge you are - ehhh, yawn, if she isn't turned off by your complains, she'll be turned off by the "I am so difficult" crap, guess what, they're about 10 guys for every domme, now let me think, if you would have your pick, would you want somebody who's complaining a lot and tells you up front that she's going to be difficult in a relationship but clearly in love with herself and how wonderful she is, or would you just pass her by for somebody who's simply fun to be with?



VanessaChaland -> RE: Tributes (4/29/2012 11:55:16 PM)

Yep, you said it.
P.S. Great ass. :)

quote:

ORIGINAL: sweeteass

There are almost no profiles, any more, without the ubiquitous tributes and financial demands, as part of a female dominant profile. Also, almost every domme couches behind covert requests for a participating sub to join some additional, extraneous model site link...all to charge fees and extract extra income for dommes, as prerequisites, before a sub can even introduce himself to a domme. This is all absurd, and stems from the greed that is now attached to the BDSM community on Collarme. It is profit motive pure and simple, with the excuse that "I am a pro, and you must be serious...or don't call me."

This used to be a place to meet lifestyle people. No more. It is now a haven for profit and income.




JanahX -> RE: Tributes (4/29/2012 11:59:15 PM)

OP ----> What the fuck do you care what people do with their money or what they put on their profiles? Its none of your business.



LadyConstanze -> RE: Tributes (4/30/2012 12:04:48 AM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: VanessaChaland

Yep, you said it.
P.S. Great ass. :)

quote:

ORIGINAL: sweeteass

There are almost no profiles, any more, without the ubiquitous tributes and financial demands, as part of a female dominant profile. Also, almost every domme couches behind covert requests for a participating sub to join some additional, extraneous model site link...all to charge fees and extract extra income for dommes, as prerequisites, before a sub can even introduce himself to a domme. This is all absurd, and stems from the greed that is now attached to the BDSM community on Collarme. It is profit motive pure and simple, with the excuse that "I am a pro, and you must be serious...or don't call me."

This used to be a place to meet lifestyle people. No more. It is now a haven for profit and income.





Those who are desperately trying to peddle eBooks are obviously an exception, they do it for humanitarian reasons...

Did I just see the mating of asses?



Karmastic -> RE: Tributes (4/30/2012 12:23:30 AM)

FR-

I'm not going to join into the debate about paying tribute, but do feel the need to warn people:

Do not EVER follow someone off this site and pay for another site simply to initiate contact with a person. This is a tried and true scam across all dating sites.

Any reputable person will allow contact here first, or at least through email to get to know who/what/where/when/how. If you want to spend your money paying tribute, that's all good in WIITWD. But at least make them work for the "service" that they're offering and providing, and don't get ripped off paying just to initiate contact with some anonymous person on the interwebs.



VanessaChaland -> RE: Tributes (4/30/2012 12:24:39 AM)

You really need to check your obsession with me dear. I am not "desperately" anything. Again, as you are a tad slow let me run through this. I own a website with the greatest designed Queening chairs the world has ever seen (all done by me), ok sweetie?

Many, many thousands of people have purchased my plans via my site or books/e-books and I've never had anything but praise from them. I also have several other books on a variety of adult/fetish themed topics, in addition to several cookbooks (some that specialize on Gluten Free recipes, etc) and about another dozen books on topics ranging from civil liberties, to politics, to land investments to child abuse.

So, I have written a lot of books. I also visit a lot of sites, own a few and run a lot of blogs. I always place a link, or a method of contact, for anyone that wishes to know more about anything I do, say, wrote, am going to write, designed, built etc.

Where you are seriously confused is that doing as I do is not at all the same as spamming someone nor begging for money for quasi-sexual services.

You keep acting like some conspiracy has been discovered, or uncovered. I freely admit to writing books and owning websites. I've never denied that and am very proud of it. Its not a secret. Its not something where there is a underhanded devious plot developing. If people want to interact with me on forums, they do. If they are curious about something I've written and want to buy it, they do. If not, they don't. I am not forcing anything on anyone and I am not and have not ever spammed anyone with anything.

So you see, its not complicated at all. I mean you really just need to get over your ugly jealous streak and maybe try to move on and do something productive with your life. If you need any business advice, or training and diet advice, lol, let me know. For you dearie as I have grown so fond of you, no charge. :)

Almost forgot to mention since you can't discern spam from other, make sure when you buy sugar it says NoDak as this means its from the co-op from one of my farms, lol. :)

quote:

ORIGINAL: LadyConstanze


quote:

ORIGINAL: VanessaChaland

Yep, you said it.
P.S. Great ass. :)

quote:

ORIGINAL: sweeteass

There are almost no profiles, any more, without the ubiquitous tributes and financial demands, as part of a female dominant profile. Also, almost every domme couches behind covert requests for a participating sub to join some additional, extraneous model site link...all to charge fees and extract extra income for dommes, as prerequisites, before a sub can even introduce himself to a domme. This is all absurd, and stems from the greed that is now attached to the BDSM community on Collarme. It is profit motive pure and simple, with the excuse that "I am a pro, and you must be serious...or don't call me."

This used to be a place to meet lifestyle people. No more. It is now a haven for profit and income.





Those who are desperately trying to peddle eBooks are obviously an exception, they do it for humanitarian reasons...

Did I just see the mating of asses?




LadyConstanze -> RE: Tributes (4/30/2012 12:39:17 AM)

Toots, I have no obsession with you, don't flatter yourself, but I'm hardly the only one who notices how you relentlessly attack.

As for jealous streak, hmmm, let's see, I'm internationally published, so I'd be jealous of the eBooks you are trying to sell? So desperately not that you have it as a sig line? Come on, darling, even you know that you reek of desperation... If you're proud of what you do, good for you, if you find idiots who buy your stuff, even better, if you want to make a mint here, fine, but why attack women who say upfront that they charge? Sounds a bit hypocritical when you flog your sites and books (sorry, eBooks, guess it didn't really interest a real publishing house) and display your dubious charms on your profile pics.

Hey good luck with the 70's bush, I guess it will be in fashion one day again or somebody is retro enough, or maybe you didn't sell enough books to afford a waxing?



VanessaChaland -> RE: Tributes (4/30/2012 12:46:54 AM)

Thats it? Thats the best you can do? I am disappointed in you. I was hoping for something better than a few lies and a few lame insults by someone offended by their own pubic hair. Why not come back and try to insult me when you've actually grown up.

Edited portion: Oh I am so sorry. I just now for the first time ever glanced at your profile photos and your "writings". Again so sorry, lol.

quote:

ORIGINAL: LadyConstanze

Toots, I have no obsession with you, don't flatter yourself, but I'm hardly the only one who notices how you relentlessly attack.

As for jealous streak, hmmm, let's see, I'm internationally published, so I'd be jealous of the eBooks you are trying to sell? So desperately not that you have it as a sig line? Come on, darling, even you know that you reek of desperation... If you're proud of what you do, good for you, if you find idiots who buy your stuff, even better, if you want to make a mint here, fine, but why attack women who say upfront that they charge? Sounds a bit hypocritical when you flog your sites and books (sorry, eBooks, guess it didn't really interest a real publishing house) and display your dubious charms on your profile pics.

Hey good luck with the 70's bush, I guess it will be in fashion one day again or somebody is retro enough, or maybe you didn't sell enough books to afford a waxing?




LadyConstanze -> RE: Tributes (4/30/2012 1:00:32 AM)

No need to be sorry, toots, I fully understand that you can't afford a proper PR person and you are under the impression that causing controversy will gain you interest and help you to sell a few books...

Let me see: http://www.collarchat.com/m_4043030/mpage_2/key_/tm.htm#4090747

quote:

Causing me to post this way? I can tell you what the root cause of me posting how I post is, its just me. Its how I write, how I think, how I talk. I am direct, I state my opinions, no blowing smoke up someones dress, no pussy footing around, tolerate no fools and am very happy with myself for being who and what I am. I have nothing to resolve and nothing to apologize for, nor anyone to apologize to. Look CollarMe is full of antagonistic posters and volotile subjects. And? :)


Yeah, antagonistic and volatile (sorry, corrected that for you, for a "writer" your spelling is actually piss poor, hope it's not like that in your "books")

In case you don't like my writing, hey, editors and readers did, hope one day you can say the same.

As for your bush, I am not offended, I pity you for your poor taste, big difference.

Enjoy your delusions that people dislike you because you're so fantastic, I think most people dislike you because you do your best to be a bitch, but as usual, it's a bit like a train wreck or comedy gone wrong, but if attacking gives you validation, you obviously need it, so you may go on...



TNDommeK -> RE: Tributes (4/30/2012 1:07:51 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: VanessaChaland

You really need to check your obsession with me dear. I am not "desperately" anything. Again, as you are a tad slow let me run through this. I own a website with the greatest designed Queening chairs the world has ever seen (all done by me), ok sweetie?

Many, many thousands of people have purchased my plans via my site or books/e-books and I've never had anything but praise from them. I also have several other books on a variety of adult/fetish themed topics, in addition to several cookbooks (some that specialize on Gluten Free recipes, etc) and about another dozen books on topics ranging from civil liberties, to politics, to land investments to child abuse.

So, I have written a lot of books. I also visit a lot of sites, own a few and run a lot of blogs. I always place a link, or a method of contact, for anyone that wishes to know more about anything I do, say, wrote, am going to write, designed, built etc.

Where you are seriously confused is that doing as I do is not at all the same as spamming someone nor begging for money for quasi-sexual services.

You keep acting like some conspiracy has been discovered, or uncovered. I freely admit to writing books and owning websites. I've never denied that and am very proud of it. Its not a secret. Its not something where there is a underhanded devious plot developing. If people want to interact with me on forums, they do. If they are curious about something I've written and want to buy it, they do. If not, they don't. I am not forcing anything on anyone and I am not and have not ever spammed anyone with anything.

So you see, its not complicated at all. I mean you really just need to get over your ugly jealous streak and maybe try to move on and do something productive with your life. If you need any business advice, or training and diet advice, lol, let me know. For you dearie as I have grown so fond of you, no charge. :)

Almost forgot to mention since you can't discern spam from other, make sure when you buy sugar it says NoDak as this means its from the co-op from one of my farms, lol. :)

quote:

ORIGINAL: LadyConstanze


quote:

ORIGINAL: VanessaChaland

Yep, you said it.
P.S. Great ass. :)

quote:

ORIGINAL: sweeteass

There are almost no profiles, any more, without the ubiquitous tributes and financial demands, as part of a female dominant profile. Also, almost every domme couches behind covert requests for a participating sub to join some additional, extraneous model site link...all to charge fees and extract extra income for dommes, as prerequisites, before a sub can even introduce himself to a domme. This is all absurd, and stems from the greed that is now attached to the BDSM community on Collarme. It is profit motive pure and simple, with the excuse that "I am a pro, and you must be serious...or don't call me."

This used to be a place to meet lifestyle people. No more. It is now a haven for profit and income.





Those who are desperately trying to peddle eBooks are obviously an exception, they do it for humanitarian reasons...

Did I just see the mating of asses?




This was so funny I almost pissed Myself. So your world famous for your queening chairs, and an accomplished writer? I had no idea.

And the red line, really did have Me laughing. Glad I wasn't drinking anything!!


OP, I can see why you say that. There is an abundance of teeny boppers attempting to lure people to another site and pay just to "talk". I don't knock what they do, I would suggest just clicking "next profile". As a pro Myself, I do things differently. But it is their right to do what they want, as it is your right to block them. But I do agree with you, what I do is for profit, thus the reason I charge. :) Also, when beating men senseless, I tend to enjoy it as well. Lol



LadyConstanze -> RE: Tributes (4/30/2012 1:13:15 AM)

Mind you, those "world famous queening chairs" wouldn't be acquired mainly by some pro dommes, quelle horreur.... Somebody is pissing off customers....



TNDommeK -> RE: Tributes (4/30/2012 1:18:58 AM)

Okay, I thought I gave good advice, that clearly wasn't considered. So at this time I would like to say....DON'T FEED THE TROLLS!! [sm=dontfeedtrolls.gif][sm=ignore.gif]




TNDommeK -> RE: Tributes (4/30/2012 1:19:58 AM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: LadyConstanze

Mind you, those "world famous queening chairs" wouldn't be acquired mainly by some pro dommes, quelle horreur.... Somebody is pissing off customers....



This ^



DaddySatyr -> RE: Tributes (4/30/2012 1:21:07 AM)

Profit and income? Some of you people must be a bit behind on your payments because Daddy needs a new pair of shoes and my pockets are bare.



Peace and comfort,



Michael



LadyConstanze -> RE: Tributes (4/30/2012 1:26:40 AM)

Actually just paid my mortgage off, now waiting for the real estate market to recover...

As to your tag line, how about adding GM - alive, Bin Laden - dead!



DaddySatyr -> RE: Tributes (4/30/2012 2:24:39 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: LadyConstanze
As to your tag line, how about adding GM - alive, Bin Laden - dead!


Since this is not the place for political posts, I'll just answer with: "I don't know what I was thinking, not checking with you before I wrote my tag line (but, I promise; it will happen, again)."



Peace and comfort,



Michael



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