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RE: Should a Financial Mistress be stronger than her slave - 4/30/2012 7:50:20 PM   
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RE: Should a Financial Mistress be stronger than her slave - 4/30/2012 8:00:59 PM   
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Peppermint said many fin Dommes don't meet face to face. This may be true for some, however in response to the OP, I have a rather large armed man that comes to sessions with Me. He sits in another room of My place and relaxes, until I need him. So to answer your question, I don't have to be stronger...He is big enough. Or perhaps with your frequent postings about strength, you'd like to meet with him? Quite frankly I'm with JanahX on this one, your posts are starting to take a pattern.


This is a general question. It doesn't even concern me.


In that case I am glad I didn't waste my time answering it.

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RE: Should a Financial Mistress be stronger than her slave - 4/30/2012 8:06:00 PM   
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That's kind of why I posted my joke "math" response (which...sniffle, got no response... )


I thought it was cute if that helps

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RE: Should a Financial Mistress be stronger than her slave - 4/30/2012 8:22:58 PM   
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RE: Should a Financial Mistress be stronger than her slave - 4/30/2012 8:34:24 PM   
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Well, all men are wankers, arent they? And i couldnt be asexual with you for giant champagne diamonds, its not how it works, is it? You either come across like a person, or you dont.

Gawd, Lady Hib - I didn't need wank material. Women (and gay men) would say things just in passing that would make my ticker stop. My fantasies were nice, safe and controllable before I came to CM.
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RE: Should a Financial Mistress be stronger than her slave - 4/30/2012 10:49:46 PM   
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Status: offline 		You've made a few comments throughout your posts that you are a financial slave,
and it's been made abundantly clear that you have some curiousity about being
physically dominated by a woman, so I'm really not sure what your question really is?

As a financial slave, do you give to any woman? Are you feeling guilty for doing so?
Would it make you feel better if you were beaten up and your wallet were rifled through?
Are you trying to get permission from us internet strangers that it's ok if you give money
to physically weak dominant women? What exactly is it that's bothering you, and what are
you hoping to resolve by getting the answers?

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RE: Should a Financial Mistress be stronger than her slave - 4/30/2012 11:05:19 PM   
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Does a Financial Mistress need to be physically stronger than her slave in order to dominate him and make him pay tribute to her or is it just about mind control?


Most women have the strength of a 12 year old boy. So, the woman who has more strength than the male must carefully pick the man who is less than the average man or less than her. Less is less and not something to be proud of.

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RE: Should a Financial Mistress be stronger than her slave - 5/1/2012 12:47:03 AM   
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Dominance is NOT about physical superiority.



Yep, I guess I could knock or kick a guy twice my size into next week, but that's simply due to years and years of sports and martial arts training, you wouldn't guess if you look at me, and I wouldn't do it. If I have to physically overpower somebody to show dominance, that makes me a bully or a brute, both are actually pretty sad creatures. How delightful is a guy who has the desire to be dominated and the honesty to admit to his desires - why would anybody pick somebody who wants the stupid "but I am physically stronger" game? Most guys might be physically stronger, they can possibly bench more than I do, in BDSM like in martial arts it's not about brute strength and force, brute force is a bit primitive.

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RE: Should a Financial Mistress be stronger than her slave - 5/1/2012 1:34:22 AM   
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You just simply had to say that physical strength has nothing to with it. Why add bullshit like I have a fetish or something? It's not like I'm saying that I'm right and your wrong. I just stated that I've visited their websites and read their statements about slaves. I'm not saying it's a fact that Mistresses are suppose to have physical strength. If you're gonna get offended then stop answering my questions. It's an open question. You don't need to answer it. In fact, don't answer any of my questions anymore. Don't even talk to me.


Wow, I need your permission now to how I answer a question? And I wasn't offended, but the fact that you keep asking stupid questions about physical strength makes me suspect you do have a fetish, now you don't like my answer, cool, go and knock yourself out, or stop asking stupid stuff and stop typing with one hand...


No, you don't need my permission and also it's not your obligation to answer my question. If you don't want to..you don't have to.. How is this a stupid question? I just asked a general question about Mistresses in a "Ask a Mistress" forum. What did I do wrong here? If you don't like my question then why come here and verbally insult me in front of everyone?



I wanted to and I answered and you didn't like my answer or most of the answers you got...

I did not verbally insult you, I truly believe you have a think for women that are physically stronger (based on your posting history) and suggested that a muscle worship forum might be more satisfying for what you are looking for. How is that an insult? Unless of course you got a thing for being insulted and look for insults where there are none.

As I said, nothing wrong if you are into that, if you are not, then why are you obsessed with physical strength? Trust me for most female dominants the question of physical strength doesn't even arise, if it bothers you so much that you keep on asking about it, it is something that is on your mind A LOT. I'm guessing here (so do not take it as an insult) but since it bothers you so much that you ask repeatedly, could it be that you might feel guilty about the idea of submitting to a woman and you subconsciously would like the excuse of being "overpowered" by physical strength? Similar to the rape fantasies some women have, which DOES NOT mean that they actually want to be raped...

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RE: Should a Financial Mistress be stronger than her slave - 5/1/2012 5:02:08 AM   
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RE: Should a Financial Mistress be stronger than her slave - 5/1/2012 5:20:03 AM   
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RE: Should a Financial Mistress be stronger than her slave - 5/1/2012 5:52:38 AM   
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Does a Financial Mistress need to be physically stronger than her slave in order to dominate him and make him pay tribute to her or is it just about mind control?


Most women have the strength of a 12 year old boy. So, the woman who has more strength than the male must carefully pick the man who is less than the average man or less than her. Less is less and not something to be proud of.



Maybe in your world but thankfully not in mine.

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RE: Should a Financial Mistress be stronger than her slave - 5/1/2012 6:33:15 AM   
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RE: Should a Financial Mistress be stronger than her slave - 5/1/2012 7:18:17 AM   
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Status: offline 		Do I have to ask a question that is related to my profession or something I'm about to do. This forum is called "Ask a Mistress". Not "Ask a Mistress if you're slave". So, you're not going to answer my question because it has nothing to do with me? It's a general question. I do sometimes have an interest in being a money slave. But, it's an on/off thing. Not sure If I really want to be one. And, this is not why I asked this question.

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RE: Should a Financial Mistress be stronger than her slave - 5/1/2012 7:23:25 AM   
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ORIGINAL: poise

You've made a few comments throughout your posts that you are a financial slave,
and it's been made abundantly clear that you have some curiousity about being
physically dominated by a woman, so I'm really not sure what your question really is?

As a financial slave, do you give to any woman? Are you feeling guilty for doing so?
Would it make you feel better if you were beaten up and your wallet were rifled through?
Are you trying to get permission from us internet strangers that it's ok if you give money
to physically weak dominant women? What exactly is it that's bothering you, and what are
you hoping to resolve by getting the answers?


I never said I was a financial slave. I said I have an interest in being one. But, sometimes I don't. So, it's an on/off thing. I have no hidden messages in my question. Let me rephrase my question. "How do femdoms get past the fact that women are generally physically weaker than men, in order to feel their sense of dominance over them?"

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RE: Should a Financial Mistress be stronger than her slave - 5/1/2012 7:26:11 AM   
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Does a Financial Mistress need to be physically stronger than her slave in order to dominate him and make him pay tribute to her or is it just about mind control?


Most women have the strength of a 12 year old boy. So, the woman who has more strength than the male must carefully pick the man who is less than the average man or less than her. Less is less and not something to be proud of.


Ok. Then I guess they just play with slaves' mind then in order to make them pay tributes.

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RE: Should a Financial Mistress be stronger than her slave - 5/1/2012 7:28:21 AM   
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RE: Should a Financial Mistress be stronger than her slave - 5/1/2012 7:30:45 AM   
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You just simply had to say that physical strength has nothing to with it. Why add bullshit like I have a fetish or something? It's not like I'm saying that I'm right and your wrong. I just stated that I've visited their websites and read their statements about slaves. I'm not saying it's a fact that Mistresses are suppose to have physical strength. If you're gonna get offended then stop answering my questions. It's an open question. You don't need to answer it. In fact, don't answer any of my questions anymore. Don't even talk to me.


Wow, I need your permission now to how I answer a question? And I wasn't offended, but the fact that you keep asking stupid questions about physical strength makes me suspect you do have a fetish, now you don't like my answer, cool, go and knock yourself out, or stop asking stupid stuff and stop typing with one hand...


No, you don't need my permission and also it's not your obligation to answer my question. If you don't want to..you don't have to.. How is this a stupid question? I just asked a general question about Mistresses in a "Ask a Mistress" forum. What did I do wrong here? If you don't like my question then why come here and verbally insult me in front of everyone?



I wanted to and I answered and you didn't like my answer or most of the answers you got...

I did not verbally insult you, I truly believe you have a think for women that are physically stronger (based on your posting history) and suggested that a muscle worship forum might be more satisfying for what you are looking for. How is that an insult? Unless of course you got a thing for being insulted and look for insults where there are none.

As I said, nothing wrong if you are into that, if you are not, then why are you obsessed with physical strength? Trust me for most female dominants the question of physical strength doesn't even arise, if it bothers you so much that you keep on asking about it, it is something that is on your mind A LOT. I'm guessing here (so do not take it as an insult) but since it bothers you so much that you ask repeatedly, could it be that you might feel guilty about the idea of submitting to a woman and you subconsciously would like the excuse of being "overpowered" by physical strength? Similar to the rape fantasies some women have, which DOES NOT mean that they actually want to be raped...


I never said I didn't like your answers. What posting history? I've only asked four questions so far and only two of them had to with physical strength. Let me rephrase my question. "How do femdoms get past the fact that women are generally physically weaker than men, in order to feel their sense of dominance over them?"

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RE: Should a Financial Mistress be stronger than her slave - 5/1/2012 7:38:11 AM   
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Status: offline 		When men think with a cock or let a fetish lead them... don't they weaken themselves? Physical strength is far less important than mental and emotional strength. It isn't like we need (most often) a man to go farm the back forty... chop wood... play hero battling the rival band of malcontents that wish to invade, etc. A he-man, strong in all his ways may be fun to play with from time to time, but what really matters is his mental and emotional strength. If he doesn't have that, he is limited.

To put such a focus on physical strength suggests that one doesn't see the power in mental and emotional things and therefore is a weakness. It also suggests a fetish that is a focus creating a situation where the functioning brain cells take a leave of absence, where mental and emotional strength would be enhanced if the brain cells were actually in charge.

You can push or pull, tackle and overcome... but can you meet another mind not hindered by weakened mental and emotional lacks... ready and able to show you that physical strength is only that and merits very little other than in the kinky mind of a fetish seeker?

When a teen, I would fight four guys at a time. If they came with only four, I kicked their ass. Five they could get me down. This wasn't an occasional thing. It happened at least once a week for over a year. Emotionally by what the doctors said, they should have killed me mentally and emotionally. They said I should be in a nut house cracking my head against a wall. My response to that... Why should I be doing that, when I can be out here doing all this?

Sure my physical talents, being trained to protect myself helped, but it was the mental and emotional strength that saved me.

Young man... until you understand... get passed this obsession with physical strength and being over come by a mere woman... you are weak and I personally would eat you.

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RE: Should a Financial Mistress be stronger than her slave - 5/1/2012 7:38:51 AM   
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Personally Im not convinced that OP has had "Real Time" experience at all and is simply atttempting to keep fantasy alive here. It amaes me how long some of these threads last with two pages being " now its getting stupid" or " your profile says othherwise" Im sorry the OP is right DONT ANSWER and maybe he will seek answers else where! Its not worth my time to even come on here and go through this BS


"How do femdoms get past the fact that women are generally physically weaker than men, in order to feel their sense of dominance over them?" Question rephrased.

I never said I had "Real Time" experience. I asked a general question in a "Ask a Mistress" forum. I do have an interest in being a money slave but it's an on/off thing. This has nothing to do with the question.

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