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not your type of slave??? go figure - 5/1/2012 7:06:45 AM

terrorizeME

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A slave or the different types of slaves on here.very confusing in deed .. to me a slave is what ever their Owner wants them to be. if they want you to wash the car or windows you do, if they give you the shopping list you go, if they want you showered and bent over the bench you are,. where did this slave choice enter the relationship.. has a FLr 24/7 ltr become a " sorry Owner can't i do that later, jilligan's island comes on in 25 minutes.".

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RE: not your type of slave??? go figure - 5/1/2012 7:15:29 AM

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Are you referring to slaves already in a relationship or potential slaves who have the temerity to wish to negotiate before entering a relationship?

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RE: not your type of slave??? go figure - 5/1/2012 7:17:18 AM

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While I agree with you, please bear in mind that, while you seem to have experience, not everybody does. I have seen newbies use the terms slave, sub, and bottom interchangeably. Porn sites don't help. So that someone may be using the term "slave" when he simply wants to find someone to spank or flog him.

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RE: not your type of slave??? go figure - 5/1/2012 7:19:16 AM

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.. to me a slave is what ever their Owner wants them to be.

That is how I feel also. So if an owner doesn't have a problem with someone saying
" sorry Owner can't i do that later, jilligan's island comes on in 25 minutes.". Then it is his business and no one elses. This is why I think it is really important for two people to make sure they are compatible before they enter into a relationship.

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RE: not your type of slave??? go figure - 5/1/2012 7:23:08 AM

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And? If she wants her slave to be up on a shelf... a precious toy to be saved and looked at rather than played with?

I've found the one hard limit that most every 'slave' has. They don't want to be on a shelf and not played with.

However, if you can state that a slave is what his dominant wants... this would be one of her options.

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RE: not your type of slave??? go figure - 5/1/2012 7:25:03 AM

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yes and no..

a slave is a person first. And people aren't blank slates.

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RE: not your type of slave??? go figure - 5/1/2012 7:28:51 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: terrorizeME

A slave or the different types of slaves on here.very confusing in deed .. to me a slave is what ever their Owner wants them to be. if they want you to wash the car or windows you do, if they give you the shopping list you go, if they want you showered and bent over the bench you are,. where did this slave choice enter the relationship.. has a FLr 24/7 ltr become a " sorry Owner can't i do that later, jilligan's island comes on in 25 minutes.".

Is there a magic slave wand that a person can wave to make a slave whatever they want? Or are all involved actually <gasp> human and it's a relationship with it's ups and downs and you have to take it from there?

It would seem to me that very few self proclaimed slaves are actually slaves but rather guys (and sometimes gals) with unrealistic porn based fantasies and very little real time experience.

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RE: not your type of slave??? go figure - 5/1/2012 7:54:50 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: terrorizeME

A slave or the different types of slaves on here.very confusing in deed .. to me a slave is what ever their Owner wants them to be. if they want you to wash the car or windows you do, if they give you the shopping list you go, if they want you showered and bent over the bench you are,. where did this slave choice enter the relationship.. has a FLr 24/7 ltr become a " sorry Owner can't i do that later, jilligan's island comes on in 25 minutes.".

What?

It seems to me that the 24/7 is about the people in the 24/7, not about what someone's outside judgement is. If someone else's relationship isn't good enough for you, then you should be glad that you are not in it.

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RE: not your type of slave??? go figure - 5/1/2012 8:01:22 AM

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The op is also ignoring physical and mental limitations.

It sounds easy to say you give the slave the shopping list and they go shopping. Except for someone like me, that can't be done if I won't be home before dusk. I have no night vision.

Someone with severe arthritis won't be able to reach overhead and wash the car.

Just because we're not perfect doesn't mean we can't be the perfect slave to someone else.

And I wonder what the op would say if his dominant told him to change the timing belt in the car. Can he do that? Or would he have to say he didn't know how and couldn't do it?

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RE: not your type of slave??? go figure - 5/1/2012 8:45:14 AM

ChatteParfaitt

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Just took at glance at your profile. So sorry, I didn't get through the first few lines of drivel. I did look through your pics, and a very impressive collection of porn based fantasy they are, too.

When you learn to think with more than your dick, come back and preach to us about your BDSM philosophy. Until then, most of us just aren't interested.

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RE: not your type of slave??? go figure - 5/1/2012 8:47:58 AM

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I especially like the picture where the cock and balls were backwards!

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RE: not your type of slave??? go figure - 5/1/2012 8:50:17 AM

LadyHibiscus

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He changed his profile, it used to be better...

edited to remove unfair comment

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RE: not your type of slave??? go figure - 5/1/2012 11:38:03 AM

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ORIGINAL: terrorizeME

A slave or the different types of slaves on here.very confusing in deed

OP,
This type of "one size fits all" thinking really doesn't work in the real world.

Every sub/slave is different. Each has his/her own personal characteristics. And just about every one of them has limits of some type. Some may have limits that are more extreme than others, but they usually all have limits. And at some point, they're going to voice those limits to their master.

For example, you say that you are a "super slave". But what if your owner says that he/she wants to see you castrated. Are you just going to sit back and smile while your penis is removed, or are you going to voice an objection? What if your owner commands you to go into a public restroom and clean all of the toilets with your tongue? What if he/she commands you to set up a cock sucking booth at the entrance to your job?

It sounds nice to say that you have no limits, and that you do whatever your master tells you to. But that usually breaks down when fantasy meets the real world.

There may be a slave out there somewhere with no limits. But if there is, he's probably too busy riding his pet unicorn, and playing poker with Bigfoot to waste time with any of us.

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RE: not your type of slave??? go figure - 5/1/2012 11:44:48 AM

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I like the new profile, if there were a "best of" button to click, I would so click on it lol

I especially liked this line:

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You Own me You do what You want, the when, the why, the how, the where, the what and how severe. No bi, Not a sissy, No X-dressing, No pro's, i'm a "mans man"

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RE: not your type of slave??? go figure - 5/1/2012 2:12:32 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: Alecta

I especially liked this line:

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You Own me You do what You want, the when, the why, the how, the where, the what and how severe. No bi, Not a sissy, No X-dressing, No pro's, i'm a "mans man"

Hmmmm, I'm wondering what he'd do if his owner told him to cross-dress, give all of his money to a Pro-Domme, and then suck another guy's cock? He would have to do it, since he said that she dictates "the when, the why, the how, the where, the what and how severe." Yet, how could he do it, since he's a "man's man"? He already said "No bi, no cross-dressing, no pros." Oh the dilemma.

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RE: not your type of slave??? go figure - 5/1/2012 2:25:44 PM

Alecta

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It just occurred to me that I could have misunderstood and he'd in fact meant that no Domme contacting him should be bisexual, sissy, cross-dressing, or a supporter of things (or perhaps a professional of any/some sort? It's just a little ambiguous). I do hope he can clear this up.

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RE: not your type of slave??? go figure - 5/1/2012 4:24:30 PM

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Or extremely unhealthy and one I'd recommend you stay far, far away from, if they wouldn't refuse the most crazy and unhealthy things someone could come up with to test their no limits claim. I'd stay away from doms too, that would recommend such wild things, or out outrageous things or unsafe things just to prove some kind of point.

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ORIGINAL: Rochsub2009

There may be a slave out there somewhere with no limits. But if there is, he's probably too busy riding his pet unicorn, and playing poker with Bigfoot to waste time with any of us.

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RE: not your type of slave??? go figure - 5/1/2012 5:26:17 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: Rochsub2009

quote:

ORIGINAL: Alecta

I especially liked this line:

quote:

You Own me You do what You want, the when, the why, the how, the where, the what and how severe. No bi, Not a sissy, No X-dressing, No pro's, i'm a "mans man"

Hmmmm, I'm wondering what he'd do if his owner told him to cross-dress, give all of his money to a Pro-Domme, and then suck another guy's cock? He would have to do it, since he said that she dictates "the when, the why, the how, the where, the what and how severe." Yet, how could he do it, since he's a "man's man"? He already said "No bi, no cross-dressing, no pros." Oh the dilemma.

Yes, but you'd be there to help him with this dilemma, remember how you induced the forced BJ's from the Playboy bunnies while they made you watch sports on a big screen TV... Gosh, how this went against the grain of everything you ever wanted, but you endured and suffered through it, you must have felt like you were just a piece of meat to them....

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RE: not your type of slave??? go figure - 5/1/2012 5:38:32 PM

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A prson should not label THEMSELVES unless they understand the meaning of that label

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RE: not your type of slave??? go figure - 5/2/2012 7:33:46 AM

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Yes, but you'd be there to help him with this dilemma, remember how you induced the forced BJ's from the Playboy bunnies while they made you watch sports on a big screen TV... Gosh, how this went against the grain of everything you ever wanted, but you endured and suffered through it, you must have felt like you were just a piece of meat to them....

You had to bring that up, didn't you? After months and months of therapy, I had almost gotten over that horrible mental trauma. My psyche was almost fully repaired. But now you've brought it up again and made me relive the whole terrible ordeal all over again.

My psychologist thanks you.

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