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New member, checking in - 5/3/2012 8:06:28 PM   
Dalkir


Posts: 4
Joined: 4/30/2012
Status: offline 		Hi all, my name is Ron. This feels like some sort of weird Dom-Anon session....  Anyway, I'm a Dominant from the Toledo area.  I have a profile up, so I won't bore anyone with minutae.

Looking for.... something.  I left the lifestyle years ago to be a good husband, father, and provider.  That all went to crap a few months ago.  My ex and I both found that we weren't who we were pretending to be.  She decided she wanted to be with another woman, I realized that I wasn't cut out for a semi-vanilla lifestyle.  I take a bit of pride in the fact that she was totally vanilla when we met, and her new GF is a Dom..... and they both come to me for advice.  I really think it's fucking hilarious, actually.... but I still do my best to help them out.

Anyway, I'm here.  I'm looking for someone to spend time with, and maybe find out who I need to be.

Let the flaming begin.... but, realize I fire back.  :P
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RE: New member, checking in - 5/3/2012 8:19:49 PM   
LanceHughes


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Status: offline 		You let the unicorn get away? For shame! LOL!

BIG welcome.

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RE: New member, checking in - 5/3/2012 8:24:39 PM   
Dalkir


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Status: offline 		Goddamnit, I can't stop chuckling now.  Thanks for the welcome!

For the record, I actually wanted to kick the unicorn over the horizon....  :P  3 years of BS was involved, and we're still VERY good friends..... better friends than we were, all things considered.  To the point that I was suggesting toys to her earlier tonight.  Like I said, I find it to be a totally bizarre situation, but funny as hell!

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RE: New member, checking in - 5/3/2012 8:35:28 PM   
LanceHughes


Posts: 4737
Joined: 2/12/2004
Status: offline 		Maybe double-Dom her (the unicorn).  She gets one of each flavor.  YOU don't have to put up with her on a daily basis, just when y'all do a three-way.  You could BRING toys for try-out instead of just suggesting.  You can get kinda nasty while topping her.  "Take THAT, you fuckin' bitch."  Oh, wait.... well at least you'd be saying that in your head, right?

Welcome again..... I wonder where DS is?  Usually he's right 'round the Welcome Forum.  I kinda said "unicorn" for him.... Glad you "got it." I wasn't sure you would.

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RE: New member, checking in - 5/3/2012 8:49:18 PM   
poise


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Status: offline 		Welcome to the site, Dalkir. I hope you find your answers here,
and enjoy yourself in the process of doing so.

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RE: New member, checking in - 5/3/2012 8:53:31 PM   
BurntKitty


Posts: 3340
Joined: 9/7/2010
From: Here To Eternity.
Status: offline 		Welcome to CM.

Damn, Lance, ya got me ~ahem~ "moist" all of a sudden...

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RE: New member, checking in - 5/3/2012 9:11:45 PM   
Dalkir


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quote:

ORIGINAL: LanceHughes
"Take THAT, you fuckin' bitch."  Oh, wait.... well at least you'd be saying that in your head, right?


Um....  "Take THAT, you fucking bitch" is very mild, compared to what we used to do.  I won't go any further, but don't think I was lax in her training.  :P 

I'm not here to dissect my past relationship.  I'm here to find another, better relationship that I can actually feel a bit of pride in, and have a bit of fun with.

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RE: New member, checking in - 5/3/2012 9:13:11 PM   
Dalkir


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quote:

ORIGINAL: poise

Welcome to the site, Dalkir. I hope you find your answers here,
and enjoy yourself in the process of doing so.


Thanks for the welcome.

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RE: New member, checking in - 5/3/2012 11:28:03 PM   
MistressDarkArt


Posts: 5178
Status: offline 		Welcome! Good luck and enjoy the journey :-)

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RE: New member, checking in - 5/4/2012 1:06:10 AM   
Delilya


Posts: 4108
Joined: 2/2/2011
Status: offline 		Best of luck

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RE: New member, checking in - 5/4/2012 5:38:29 AM   
ashjor911


Posts: 7793
Joined: 9/7/2010
From: balcony, having a Smoke
Status: offline 		Welcome

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RE: New member, checking in - 5/4/2012 5:46:53 AM   
kalikshama


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Joined: 8/8/2010
Status: offline 		Hi Ron,

I love your sense of humor and am looking forward to seeing you around the forums.

Have you checked out any of your local groups? Seems like you have a few flavors from which to chose: https://fetlife.com/search/groups?q=toledo

Welcome,

KK

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RE: New member, checking in - 5/4/2012 8:33:18 AM   
OohAahMrs


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Joined: 7/14/2010
Status: offline 		Welcome dal, stay sharp.

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RE: New member, checking in - 5/4/2012 7:41:51 PM   
DarkSteven


Posts: 28072
Joined: 5/2/2008
Status: offline 		Hello there! Welcome to collarme.

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RE: New member, checking in - 5/5/2012 7:25:04 AM   
RealLady


Posts: 39
Joined: 6/14/2010
Status: offline 		I loved your intro so I read your profile.
Your journal entry bashing large women was very off-putting. You pretty much are saying that large women have no right to feel they are special. Tsk tsk.

Anyway, it's the intro forum so I will welcome you and wish you well.

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RE: New member, checking in - 5/5/2012 7:37:32 AM   
ChatteParfaitt


Posts: 6562
Joined: 3/22/2011
From: The t'aint of the Midwest -- Indiana
Status: offline 		Welcome to the discussion side of CM, Ron.

One nice thing about profiles and journal entries is that you might see the person's true colors right off the bat !!

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RE: New member, checking in - 5/5/2012 6:27:57 PM   
LafayetteLady


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Joined: 5/2/2007
From: Northern New Jersey
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quote:

ORIGINAL: RealLady

I loved your intro so I read your profile.
Your journal entry bashing large women was very off-putting. You pretty much are saying that large women have no right to feel they are special. Tsk tsk.

Anyway, it's the intro forum so I will welcome you and wish you well.


Actually, I took it to say that no woman should feel they are special, just larger women less so.  Either way, the good intro didn't hold up after reading the profile and journal entry.  Shame.

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RE: New member, checking in - 5/5/2012 6:32:09 PM   
DesFIP


Posts: 25191
Joined: 11/25/2007
From: Apple County NY
Status: offline 		You might wait until you've done some healing from your divorce before you meet someone else. You don't sound to be in a good place now, and with all your bitterness, you hopefully would regret in the future taking it out on someone who hasn't done anything to merit that.



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RE: New member, checking in - 5/5/2012 7:10:14 PM   
TNDommeK


Posts: 7153
Joined: 3/13/2010
Status: offline 		I read the journals, I thought the "little Debbie" part was funny. I hope to see him around more as well. Welcome to CM. Hope you find what you seek. No kicking though, unless consented lol.

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