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New and looking - 5/4/2012 8:22:25 AM

bigbone088

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Ive been here awhile, and with no luck thus far.
would love suggestions to help me out and friends.
Figured id start on the message board now.
Thanks!

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RE: New and looking - 5/4/2012 9:00:01 AM

BurntKitty

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Welccome to CM.

It takes some people years to find their partner. Patience grasshopper!

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RE: New and looking - 5/4/2012 10:40:49 AM

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What BK said and get out and go to munches, meet people. This site does take a while, well in My experience it did. But it will happen.

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RE: New and looking - 5/5/2012 4:40:47 AM

OohAahMrs

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Hey big, whatever you want you can get, it's easy. I'm always amazed by the number of people who say "they can't get what they want!" You've just got to make the effort.

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RE: New and looking - 5/5/2012 4:51:50 AM

DarkSteven

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Hi, fella. First off, your profile just sounds discouraged. What sub wants a Dom who isn't confident?

Second, since you live in the Springs, have you checked out Celebration of Power? Are you willing to drive up to Denver?

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RE: New and looking - 5/5/2012 5:02:42 AM

kalikshama

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I agree with Steven's profile advice - lose the negativity. Once that's done it's way too short. I'd be intrigued that you were a personal trainer, but it begs the questions - why did you stop and what are you doing now?

Here's a big group near you: https://fetlife.com/groups/10718/about

If you're interested in meeting people close to your own age, try this one: https://fetlife.com/groups/17762/about

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RE: New and looking - 5/5/2012 5:17:03 AM

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The thing that a lot of people remember is your profile name. What does yours mean? Is it something that might turn females off? Examine how you come across to people initially. That first impression is lasting...

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RE: New and looking - 5/5/2012 5:24:49 AM

kalikshama

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Ya, screennames containing anything overtly sexual turn me off. I like a well rounded guy, not one whose world revolves around his cock, which is the impression some screennames give.

Apologies to the OP if I've misconstrued his name.

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RE: New and looking - 5/5/2012 5:54:09 AM

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Welcome

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