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Tyler421 -> Looking for a Young Owner.. (5/4/2012 7:55:40 PM)

so yea. i guess I'm looking for someone who is young, and doesn't just want money or stupid websites. I'm tired of all of the fakes and would love someone whom is real. do you guys think theres really anyone out there for my age or am i just to young?




poise -> RE: Looking for a Young Owner.. (5/4/2012 8:06:02 PM)

If there is anyone out there, regardless of age or intent, they would have an awfully hard time finding interest in you, as your profile is hidden.




Baroana -> RE: Looking for a Young Owner.. (5/4/2012 8:08:47 PM)

Stay in school.




Tyler421 -> RE: Looking for a Young Owner.. (5/4/2012 8:12:43 PM)

its been unhidden?
quote:

ORIGINAL: poise

If there is anyone out there, regardless of age or intent, they would have an awfully hard time finding interest in you, as your profile is hidden.





poise -> RE: Looking for a Young Owner.. (5/4/2012 8:14:21 PM)

Not yet. [:-]




DomMeinCT -> RE: Looking for a Young Owner.. (5/4/2012 8:15:54 PM)

It says "Profile Not Found".





Tyler421 -> RE: Looking for a Young Owner.. (5/4/2012 8:17:49 PM)

well then how do i fix that? lol
quote:

ORIGINAL: poise

Not yet. [:-]





searching4mysir -> RE: Looking for a Young Owner.. (5/4/2012 8:26:02 PM)

FR

Go to the other side, click edit profile and then at the top of the page should be a button that says "unhide profile"




poise -> RE: Looking for a Young Owner.. (5/4/2012 8:30:35 PM)

If that doesn't work, contact support by clicking on the blue Support
button that's at the very very bottom of that page.




Wheldrake -> RE: Looking for a Young Owner.. (5/5/2012 3:25:10 PM)

There are definitely some young, real dominant women out there, not to mention some older and equally real dominant women who are perfectly receptive to the idea of owning young submissives. So you're not too young, although you might be too young for some mistresses - different people are always going to have different preferences. I'd recommend a bit of patience, and also that you take the time to express yourself more clearly and grammatically. Things like that can make a genuine difference to how people will perceive you.




VaguelyCurious -> RE: Looking for a Young Owner.. (5/5/2012 4:46:12 PM)

1. If you haven't got a fetlife profile, then get one.
2. Search for groups using the search term 'under 35' and your location. https://fetlife.com/search/groups?q=under+35
3. Make friends. Find local events. Go to them.
5. THEN start worrying about finding a partner.

Do it that way round and you skip all the financial stuff, the cam girls, the weird wanky men pretending to be women. You want a real partner? People you meet at munches are verifiably real (but don't pinch them to check without asking first. :p) It does involve getting out from behind your computer, though.

Up to you whether or not it's worth it.




FrostedFlake -> RE: Looking for a Young Owner.. (5/6/2012 12:17:58 AM)

^^^ That.

Also, the word fake doesn't mean much.

If someone doesn't fit your preconceptions, needs, wants or desires, or is looking for $$$, she's 'fake'.

N-n-nnn-nnn-nonsense.

There are all kinds of people out there. Not all will be interesting or interested. And no one is saying they are supposed to be.

Point : those other people are other people. They want what they want. If that should happen to be you, then great. Otherwise, QQQQ.

/rant.




MadeinEngland -> RE: Looking for a Young Owner.. (5/7/2012 4:00:02 AM)

Are there any Fetish/BDSM clubs/groups where you live Tyler? You might have more luck offline.





kalikshama -> RE: Looking for a Young Owner.. (5/7/2012 12:18:08 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: VaguelyCurious

1. If you haven't got a fetlife profile, then get one.
2. Search for groups using the search term 'under 35' and your location. https://fetlife.com/search/groups?q=under+35
3. Make friends. Find local events. Go to them.
5. THEN start worrying about finding a partner.

Do it that way round and you skip all the financial stuff, the cam girls, the weird wanky men pretending to be women. You want a real partner? People you meet at munches are verifiably real (but don't pinch them to check without asking first. :p) It does involve getting out from behind your computer, though.

Up to you whether or not it's worth it.


OP - what she said and if you are in the US you can also search for "TNG" groups, which stands for The Next Generation of kinksters. In the UK it's U35 for Under 35. I tested Boston and got different results using "TNG," "35" and "thirty five" so try them all.

Your profile is still hidden.




hangemhigh1953 -> RE: Looking for a Young Owner.. (5/7/2012 12:42:39 PM)

If you go out looking solely for an owner or a mistress, you're going to be disappointed. However if you go out looking for a relationship, you may have better luck.

And unhide your profile.




girl91 -> RE: Looking for a Young Owner.. (5/7/2012 12:46:57 PM)

Why isn't it about compatibility anymore? You never know who you might mesh with. Anyway, great advicee has been given, go to munches, and have a good time, be prepared to get rejected.




amaidiamond -> RE: Looking for a Young Owner.. (5/7/2012 4:25:18 PM)

Yep, I echo what has been said - look for local groups and munches and go meet people offline as well as on :)




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