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New to Durham, NC - 5/4/2012 8:45:24 PM   
BigBen1212


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Alpha Male, an intellectual Dom., not a stupid animal, seeking an intelligent, articulate, erudite sub, for a potential long term relationship. My background is behavioral sciences, so I will control you and help you self-actualize as a sub. If you are beautiful, well educated, fit, and seeking the same in your Dom/Master, then contact me.

I am a sensual, dominant, tall, strong, absolutely controlling Master, with the physical strength to control you absolutely, as well as the intellectual skills, to dominate you mentally, so the ability to control, when appropriate. Ninety percent of sex, love, and romance, is in your head, I will stimulate you in ways you never dreamed possible.

6'2", broad shoulders, strong arms, and a powerful chest, you will be mine in all ways, a very adventurous soul. Though I am not the absolute Sadomasochistic Dom available, I do understand the needs of your Children, work, and Family. So while I will bend, I will never break, your devotion must be absolute.

In a perfect world I am seeking a long term relationship, a "live-in:, but this World is far from perfect, so play partners, friends, and discrete relationships are welcome.

I am a health care professional, know your erogenous anatomy better than you may, and believe in PLEASURE, as well as pain.


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BigBen1212 commented on Subtlehush's writing titled “Once again, the battle...”: about 8 hours ago
Wow, incredibly well written, sexy and extremely intelligent :), very good traits. As someone who has experienced the phenomena recently, on both sides of the fence, you are right on. I am looking forward to continuing to get to know you.
BigBen1212 might be going to Soda Shoppe Social, Raffle and Bake sale. about 10 hours ago
BigBen1212 responded to Fist4you69's thread titled “need wo find a woman who wants to do this all the time” in the group Fisting: about 10 hours ago
Are you near NC, I know a Woman who looks a lot like her that is seriously into fisting.
BigBen1212 updated the about section on his profile. 1 day ago
BigBen1212 responded to The_Sex_Man's thread titled “90+ Antarcticans.....???” in the group Brilliant, Creative and Imaginative Sex: 2 days ago
I wonder if they do beastiality films with penguins, that would be quite unique......
BigBen1212 responded to missokyst's thread titled “For you non-swallowers” in the group Sensual Sexual Torture: 2 days ago
Tell your Partner to watch what he eats, example asparagus makes your pee stink, but your spunk fowl. Have your man eat something sweet 3-4 hours pre-play, and it will be better tasting, from what I have read. I am a straight Male Dom, so I have n... continue reading →
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RE: New to Durham, NC - 5/5/2012 2:03:04 AM   
Delilya


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Good luck

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RE: New to Durham, NC - 5/5/2012 6:10:05 AM   
ashjor911


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Welcome

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"operative" working undercover for the federal government of bangladesh.

my name is : bonsh ... jamesh bonsh.
code name : 009.5
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RE: New to Durham, NC - 5/5/2012 6:14:21 AM   
DarkSteven


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Hi there, Ben. Welcome to collarme!

On the whole, a good intro. However, I'm surprised that a single Dom that prefers live-in would be open to a "discreet" relationship. Isn't that code for saying you'd be okay with a married woman cheating on her husband?

Also, I'd remove that cut and paste from Fetlife. It's just... odd.

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RE: New to Durham, NC - 5/5/2012 6:29:43 AM   
smartsub10


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Have to say I agree with DarkSteven about the fetlife cut and paste, especially the latest activities list.

But, Welcome to CM. Good luck in your search.

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