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xssve -> RE: New to kink: Wonder if a squicky question about anal bondage is appropriate? (5/9/2012 5:20:16 AM)
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Colon condition is going to be important, as is mental attitude - that you have pain with large BM's indicates dehydration to me, hydrate more, and sugar (ingested) will draw more water into the colon.
You can get used to anything, but yes, anal sex is in some ways, a lot like taking a shit, the same autonomic reflexes are involved to some extent, and medically speaking, it isn't, or shouldn't be, any more harmful than taking a big shit - if you're the catcher her, I hope you've chosen your pitcher carefully though, there will be some discomfort probably, but in your case, lube and lots of it, is definitely called for, and some stroking to get you in the right space mentally would also be a good idea.
Otherwise, you sphincter, after a short time, should relax like it does during and just after a BM, if it doesn't, you may have a slight medical issue: relaxin is a hormone that makes muscles more flexible and allows them to relax, and low relaxin levels can affect that - the treatment is lots of orgasms, no help for it. [:D] Otherwise, just playing with the sphincter a bit, rubbing it, etc., usually helps a person relax, but even most people who like anal, don't usually do it cold - for most people (not masochistic), it helps if there is a lot of upfront stimulation first, even a orgasm or two before heading to the back room.
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Although, as I say, it's not hugely different than a BM, it's very different psychologically, and people who like it usually love it, people who don't like it, usually hate it. It stimulates the prostate in men, the vagus nerve in women, which causes a sensation of "fullness", and it's interconnected with the clitoral ganglia as well, and there are actually more nerve ending in the colon, whereas they are concentrated around the outside of the vagina, and a lot of women report enjoying the fact that they can really feel the entire length of the penis inside of them, rather than just the stretching sensation of the vulva and pressure on the clitoris.
I would suggest doing a bit of exploration on your own, to learn your own responses, let you fingers do the walking, maybe right after a BM, you can use gloves, and you might try and enema (using normal saline) to get used to the sensation.
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