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financial domms - 5/5/2012 9:58:20 PM

Skyler86

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They are becoming a Fucking epidemic on this site. It is so hard to come here and try to meet like minded people when 99 percent of the dominant "women" on this site are out for money only.

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RE: financial domms - 5/5/2012 10:43:53 PM

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Really? I would never have noticed unless someone posted this exact thing.

Oh wait, you're only the 5,113th this month. Whining about it here & in your journals isn't going to paint you in a good light either.

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RE: financial domms - 5/5/2012 10:45:33 PM

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First fin-Domme moan of the day!

I think he gets a medal...or summink...

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RE: financial domms - 5/5/2012 11:02:54 PM

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Well, you could always join a pay site if you don't like this free site so much. However, you'll find about the same percentage of FinDommes their too. It's the oldest profession. It's not going away. As long a guys will pay, girls will take their money.

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RE: financial domms - 5/6/2012 12:29:29 AM

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They're only a "fucking epidemic" if you pay lots of them....

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RE: financial domms - 5/6/2012 12:43:15 AM

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Look for the "Hide User" key.

Judicious application can transform the experience.

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RE: financial domms - 5/6/2012 1:44:51 AM

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*Yawn

Edited to say this wasn't supposed to be in reply to Frosted Flake, it was in response to the OP awesome original thought.

< Message edited by TNDommeK -- 5/6/2012 1:45:52 AM >

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RE: financial domms - 5/6/2012 2:05:39 AM

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I can't be the only one who thinks this.... if majority of the women you're trying to hook up with turn out to be FinDommes, have you considered that it might be because that's just the kind of woman you are searching for? That the kind of woman that fits all your other fantasies and criteria are just the type of woman who would also very likely be into Fin/ProDomming?

Try looking for real women instead of jailbait plastic surgery dolls. There are a few. Many of them are on the forum side. I'm not entirely sure if any of us are under the age of 29 though.

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RE: financial domms - 5/6/2012 4:32:28 AM

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The fin Dommes are around because it works, the tons of men to not as many women ratio on any adult site works in their favor. Plus it's a legit kink, yes, some men want to give women money and that's their prerogative. If it bothers you so much perhaps telling the other men here to stop paying to play will help.

If you're not interested in the women who want money are you prepared to be someone they would want for a relationship? Women have a lot of people to choose from here, are you someone they would want to pick? Are you here for kinky sex? That's about the easiest thing to find for a woman, if that's what you have to offer get in line behind the 50 other guys in your exact area at your same age and in the same life situation to offer up the same thing with your fingers crossed that you'll get picked. Let's face it, a penis is not hard to find, most women will have to sold on you first to consider wanting to make your penis happy.

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RE: financial domms - 5/6/2012 5:00:49 AM

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Don't forget to whine about fakes/scammers and then about the ones that never read/answer your messages...you'll then have the trifecta of CM.

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RE: financial domms - 5/6/2012 5:27:53 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: myotherself

First fin-Domme moan of the day!

I think he gets a medal...or summink...

How about a cookie and a glass of milk and his binkie?

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RE: financial domms - 5/6/2012 5:36:30 AM

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If you expect anyone to read your profile you'd better change the colour. I had to highlight where the text to read it because the block is black.

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RE: financial domms - 5/6/2012 6:08:59 AM

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If you are really interested in meeting like minded people, there's always the thought of getting off of the computer and going to a munch.

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RE: financial domms - 5/6/2012 6:16:20 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: Alecta

I can't be the only one who thinks this.... if majority of the women you're trying to hook up with turn out to be FinDommes, have you considered that it might be because that's just the kind of woman you are searching for? That the kind of woman that fits all your other fantasies and criteria are just the type of woman who would also very likely be into Fin/ProDomming?

Try looking for real women instead of jailbait plastic surgery dolls. There are a few. Many of them are on the forum side. I'm not entirely sure if any of us are under the age of 29 though.

That's it exactly. The men who complain about FinDommes are the ones looking at the purty pictures of enticing young women dressed provocatively and this is who they write, and find out that it costs money to play. Then the guys get ticked, thinking if they could only get past all the money grabbers then life would be sweet because all the young attractive honeys who are here just for sex would be right there and up for grabs. It's always the site's fault or the FinDommes fault for thwarting their fantasy from coming to life, not that they're looking for something not many women are interested in - especially not the young hotties with plenty to choose from.

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RE: financial domms - 5/6/2012 6:18:32 AM

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What's up with all the posts whining about fin dommes. They are becoming a Fucking epidemic on this site. It is so hard to come here and try to talk to like minded people when 99 percent of the threads on this site are boys whimpering because they haven't figured out how to filter on the other side. Personally I love the princess profiles. If I ever look for a domme on this side, it will tell me immediately to skip on to the next one and until then some of them are pretty funny to read. I see "u will serve me" and think sure I will honey, right after you learn to type.

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RE: financial domms - 5/6/2012 6:25:16 AM

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ORIGINAL: LadyPact

If you are really interested in meeting like minded people, there's always the thought of getting off of the computer and going to a munch.

Indeed.

I am actually beginning to feel sorry for the Financial Dommes. If I was they, I would double my prices just to put up with the pissing and whining. And if I was NOT a findomme and actually looking for a male slave, I believe these whiney little buggers would cause me to become a findomme............just for putting up with their whining.

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RE: financial domms - 5/6/2012 6:31:02 AM

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Hi, Skyler. Welcome to collarme.

Let me ask you: what is it about your profile that is attracting ONLY financial Dommes? Why is it that lifestyle Dommes aren't interested in you? Here are some thoughts:

1. Your post here uses gratuitous profanity. That will turn off a lot of women who have manners.
2. Your profile uses black text on black background. Most anyone would not bother reading it. That requires the reader to highlight the block to read it. Why the heck would you do that?
3. Your profile has misspellings. That'll turn off a lot of women.
4. Your profile not only rips other sub men, but it rips them for what you ASSUME about them. It's bad enough being around negative people, but people who are negative about things they admit to knowing nothing about?
5. Your two journal entries and your post here all complain about fin Dommes. Quit whining and realize that life sometimes demands things of you, such as moving past profiles of people who are not suitable for you.
6. It's a numbers game. Lots of sub men, relatively few Dominant women. So you will have to contact them, and a lot of them, to make a connection.
7. Your pic's not helping. Women like to see a man DOING something. Show pics of you playing sports, sitting at a PSP console playing games, dressed up for a night on the town, sawing a board on a sawhorse, riding a horse, etc.

Try something like this:

My name is Skyler. I am a loving compassionate person and the best friend someone could ever ask for. I can talk about anything from music to sports to politics or anything for that matter - my preferred topics are XX and XX. I work as a XX, and that takes most of my time during the week but I have time on the weekends.

And as LadyPact said, you'd likely do better meeting people in person. Try for TNG activities especially - they're limited to people 18-35.

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RE: financial domms - 5/6/2012 7:55:24 AM

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ORIGINAL: LadyPact

If you are really interested ...always the thought of getting off .....

That's his problem.

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RE: financial domms - 5/6/2012 10:32:46 AM

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ORIGINAL: Skyler86

They are becoming a Fucking epidemic on this site. It is so hard to come here and try to meet like minded people when 99 percent of the dominant "women" on this site are out for money only.

Oh threads like that are fucking epidemic! Yeah, you joined this site and you didn't get your dream session delivered for free, cry me a river!

Maybe if you stop trying to hook up with glam models, things might change, or if you try to meet real people at munches and such, but I guess that would require some effort, and you better have more to offer than complains...

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